Zoya
Emotional pain is stronger than physical pain.
- May 30, 2020
- 51
If I was the person you hated the most, what would you say?
Since the only person I hate is myself, I would say do my loved ones a favor and have the guts to finally ctb.
GoodPersonEffed
Brevity is my middle name, but my name was TL
- Jan 11, 2020
- 6,726
I've actually been thinking about this.
I would say, "I sincerely wish for your well-being and equanimity. When someone has these things, they don't feel a need to try to harm or control others."
Not trying to come across like a saint here. I'm still pissed. But anything else I would say would not get through. They don't care about me or that they hurt me, but they do care about themselves. This seems like the only thing I could say that is genuine and would potentially have even a small impact.
I would say, "I sincerely wish for your well-being and equanimity. When someone has these things, they don't feel a need to try to harm or control others."
Not trying to come across like a saint here. I'm still pissed. But anything else I would say would not get through. They don't care about me or that they hurt me, but they do care about themselves. This seems like the only thing I could say that is genuine and would potentially have even a small impact.
Pryras
Last hope
- Feb 11, 2020
- 621
I wish I never met you and I left before you destroyed me. No, just because someone is passive doesn't give you a green light to hurt them. You knew what you were doing but decided I wasn't wasn't worth more than what I could give you. You hurt someone who cared about you and now you're hurting because you didn't get what you wanted from someone else. That someone you hurt me for is gone and here we are with all the collateral damage.
I wish I had the boundaries to step away from you but you were all that I had back then. My self worth was established by what I could give you, I was nothing and still feel it deep in my chest.
I wish I had the boundaries to step away from you but you were all that I had back then. My self worth was established by what I could give you, I was nothing and still feel it deep in my chest.
Zoya
Emotional pain is stronger than physical pain.
- May 30, 2020
- 51
I don't think you're doing anyone a favor.
You are totally the only owner of your life and you must live for yourself, to enjoy what you like and what makes you happy.
Please remember for a moment, what has made you happy and what do you like?
And don't stop.
I'd say something like:
"You are the part of the problem you speak of constantly and don't try to fix. I wish I could live like you, free-spirited with not a care in the world, excusing everything you ever done easily. Like you really believe it. But I can't, I don't know what's wrong but I see horrific things where you don't. Some of those things have been done by you to me, so I hardly expect you to recognize them. I do not envy you and I hope you continue as you have for your entire life, not caring for what others go through or even noticing."
"You are the part of the problem you speak of constantly and don't try to fix. I wish I could live like you, free-spirited with not a care in the world, excusing everything you ever done easily. Like you really believe it. But I can't, I don't know what's wrong but I see horrific things where you don't. Some of those things have been done by you to me, so I hardly expect you to recognize them. I do not envy you and I hope you continue as you have for your entire life, not caring for what others go through or even noticing."
nerve
fat cringey shut-in
- Jun 19, 2019
- 1,013
Nothing. Silence is my testament.
ForensicallyAware
Specialist
- Feb 10, 2020
- 314
You sad cunt you destroyed yourself not me. You know that now.
Enjoy your soul crushing 9 to 5 drudgery. I won't even bother pissing on your grave.
Enjoy your soul crushing 9 to 5 drudgery. I won't even bother pissing on your grave.
You aren't just one person. You are several.
How can you live with yourself? You caused my pain and disability. You lied about it. You deny my suffering. You deny me assistance. You attack and blame me. You drove me to suicide. You denied me that escape. You attack me more. You add pain. You refuse to help. You are selfish. You are wicked. You are evil. You deserve to have all the pain instead of me. You win because there is nothing I can do to save myself or to stop my suffering. You win. Whatever sick thing you get out of it...you win.
How can you live with yourself? You caused my pain and disability. You lied about it. You deny my suffering. You deny me assistance. You attack and blame me. You drove me to suicide. You denied me that escape. You attack me more. You add pain. You refuse to help. You are selfish. You are wicked. You are evil. You deserve to have all the pain instead of me. You win because there is nothing I can do to save myself or to stop my suffering. You win. Whatever sick thing you get out of it...you win.
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Bct
Disqualified from Being Human
- Apr 20, 2020
- 419
Shoopie
Member
- May 31, 2020
- 41
I had that opportunity with a family member a few days before they died. It was only through messaging though, not face to face. I was glad I did it. It was a no holds barred message which they read and replied to. Felt cathartic.
autumnal
Enlightened
- Feb 4, 2020
- 1,950
Bct
Disqualified from Being Human
- Apr 20, 2020
- 419
Yeah, my relationship with her was so bad since the beginning to the point I'm triggered to hear her voice. I admit I also made some mistakes but she's really hard to admit one. Not to mention when talking about religion she always thinking it as something right & god would help us. Ugh
