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foreverandever

foreverandever

雪は溶かさずに春はまだまだ遠いのまま
Mar 23, 2026
25
I've felt like I'm been spinning my wheels for the last few years. I've accomplished nothing, gotten no closer to my goals, and generally wasted my time. One of the biggest reasons I want to ctb is the fact that I'm 32 and I feel like I've wasted my life.

But, I've made some promises to keep trying, so here I am. I just don't have any clue as to how to start turning my life around.

Some details: I've been working on a bachelor's degree for eight years now, but I only realized I was in the wrong degree for my career, teaching, in the middle of Fall semester last year, (I'm a moron). I only have two semesters left to finish, so I feel obligated to. But I won't even be able to get into the career I want once I am done. I should've been done with all of this years ago. I've also never been in a relationship, and my mental health is abysmal. I don't feel like I have anything to offer the world. Years of effort with nothing to show for it.

Am I too late? Does anyone have any practical advice on how to fix my life?
Thank you.
 
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Alumina

Alumina

The king is dead long live the king
May 29, 2026
35
you say you won't be able to get into the career you want, but how far is it from that? what are the real opportunities you'd have with your degree?
 
foreverandever

foreverandever

雪は溶かさずに春はまだまだ遠いのまま
Mar 23, 2026
25
I'd have to go through extra certification that would take another year, on top of the year I have left for my degree. It's a possibility, I'm just tired of being in school and not fully in my career.

Otherwise, there are some other opportunities I could go for, but my field doesn't have a ton of openings outside of teaching. I'm just not sure if it'll work out.
 
Alumina

Alumina

The king is dead long live the king
May 29, 2026
35
i guess you could just do some years on what you degree allow you to, and then see for yourself if you see it as worthy to do that extra year
 

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