Venting Toxic Incels are a FILTHY subspecies

[CantTurnBack]

Trigger warning: if you are a spineless "woe is me" incel, then this thread is designed to challenge your fragile existence, and you should go find yet another lousy incel thread to cry about it, because this one ain't it, chief.

The more I've witnessed incels pitifully discussing their perceived inability to attract a partner, the less sympathy I feel for this breed of bottom feeders. Constantly whining that no woman would ever cater to them, while simultaneously viewing women as no more than mere objects of their impractical fantasies and selfish desires.

These troglodytes are so self-absorbed and steeped in their own stench that their rancid personalities could curdle milk. Oh, so you blame women for your shortcomings? You want to use them for sex? You expect them to cook, clean, and care for you? But you're too busy basking insufferably in the filth of your own incompetence to make any progress at self-improvement.

A "self-proclaimed" incel won't make the slightest effort to get their stinky ass up and do something to impress the opposite sex. Not only are you physically unattractive, but your entire soul exudes a smell of rot that no dignified woman would ever touch with a yardstick. It's no wonder this festering hive of neutered rejects feels shunned from society at large; unworthy of a second glance, a stain on all of humanity!

These creatures deserve none of the acknowledgment they seek in their hopeless pursuit of pity from others. Their attitudes have earned them the exact level of respect they get beyond their bubble of detestability—ZERO. Oh, so you think it's unfair you live your life as a loveless incel? I think it's a damn shame the rest of us with real problems have to coexist alongside your blubbering carcass.

Now excuse me while I disinfect my psyche of these worthless heathens with bleach. Their parasitic existence is pollution ghastly enough to warrant a hazmat suit. Even sewage rats gag at the toxic fumes that ooze from the underbelly of inceldom.

P.S. welcoming salty slugs to the ignore list.

 

[L9my]

you should go find yet another lousy incel thread to cry about it, because this one ain't it, chief.

look ma, i'm famous

 

[mmmnnm]

I am impressed with the poetic use of metaphors here lol

 

[Captain Howdy]

I never really understood it, I get that the instagram body image and apps and toxic personalities make it hard, but if you spent more time trying to improve yourself, it will turn around. I see a lot of godawful folks getting married. If they can do it, so can you. And trust me that idealized version of beauty can really turn people crazy. I had a russian model stay with me for a while and she was a full bottle of crazy pills, largely because something called Accutane was driving her crazy, but she didn't look anything like her gram on a day to day basis. Even if she did, building a relationship on looks is kind of asking for problems.

Their message seems to be "The most beautiful women in the world should compete to serve me, even though I'm trash" and it is nauseating. I have no stake in the game as a gay man, but ... I could make a convincing argument that my world worships at the altar of plastic beauty way more than straight folks.

 

[sevennn]

yeah, they are always complainign about their dry noodle

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

That's like AM tier levels of hating lol, nice !

 

[LigottiIsRight]

I loved every single word of this post. If I write my own unfiltered opinion about inceldom, I'll surely get at least a warning I'll leave it to the reader's imagination.

 

[nights5467]

Trigger warning: if you are a spineless "woe is me" incel, then this thread is designed to challenge your fragile existence, and you should go find yet another lousy incel thread to cry about it, because this one ain't it, chief.

The more I've witnessed incels pitifully discussing their perceived inability to attract a partner, the less sympathy I feel for this breed of bottom feeders. Constantly whining that no woman would ever cater to them, while simultaneously viewing women as no more than mere objects of their impractical fantasies and selfish desires.

These troglodytes are so self-absorbed and steeped in their own stench that their rancid personalities could curdle milk. Oh, so you blame women for your shortcomings? You want to use them for sex? You expect them to cook, clean, and care for you? But you're too busy basking insufferably in the filth of your own incompetence to make any progress at self-improvement.

A "self-proclaimed" incel won't make the slightest effort to get their stinky ass up and do something to impress the opposite sex. Not only are you physically unattractive, but your entire soul exudes a smell of rot that no dignified woman would ever touch with a yardstick. It's no wonder this festering hive of neutered rejects feels shunned from society at large; unworthy of a second glance, a stain on all of humanity!

These creatures deserve none of the acknowledgment they seek in their hopeless pursuit of pity from others. Their attitudes have earned them the exact level of respect they get beyond their bubble of detestability—ZERO. Oh, so you think it's unfair you live your life as a loveless incel? I think it's a damn shame the rest of us with real problems have to coexist alongside your blubbering carcass.

Now excuse me while I disinfect my psyche of these worthless heathens with bleach. Their parasitic existence is pollution ghastly enough to warrant a hazmat suit. Even sewage rats gag at the toxic fumes that ooze from the underbelly of inceldom.

P.S. welcoming salty slugs to the ignore list.

Idk if i should consider myself an incel because i technically could get sex i just don't really find my options appealing and my self worth and self esteem is so low that ive lost all will to pursue anyone romantically or sexually, as i can not imagine the people who meet my somewhat high, but not impossible standards would be interested in me. not to mention previous relationships have ended in life ruining disaster due to me having bipolar and the breakups causing horrible episodes.

But if you do consider me an incel based on what I previously mentioned, then I guess at least I direct my hate inward instead of outward. I still view women as people and I don't hate them for their lack of attraction to me which is something out of their control anyway, I don't believe I'm entitled to relationships or sex even if it deeply depresses me to not have them. I certainly don't hangout in incel spaces online, but over time I have kinda come to meet the criteria for the definition. So if you consider sexless and relationshipless but not hateful people like me incels, then at least we're not all terrible.

 

[amerie]

My problem is they get mad at women for not finding them attractive but when someone who doesn't meet their standards wants to date them then they have the nerve to be picky.

This goes for both genders honestly, you can't be mad that people don't want to date you when you turn down people who are on your level or actively refuse to change yourself

 

[DeadEndRoad]

This made me laugh extremely hard. Thank you

 

[Skallagrim]

Ahhh... hate.

To hate, yet complain about being hated.

It is indeed something that is "toxic", and is prevalent in some areas of what is colloquially known as "the manosphere".

However, I'm not seeing a whole lot of difference between the hatred manifesting itself in the op and the hate there.

My personal view on such matters is that to be hateful of anything, of anyone, based on a label attached to them, is to add to the problem.

In directing such hate, would the target, someone convinced that they are hated, feel greater or lesser justification for their own hatred?

We've all got to share this world with each other until our time is up, and others are going to come after. We don't need to be like this.

Tend to the oak if you intend to live under it.

 

[ForestGhost]

I try to find sympathy for these people, because their behavior clearly comes from a place of deep suffering and unfortunately gets reinforced by the echo chambers they dwell in. Anybody who directs their inner turmoil as misogynistic rage towards others deserves a swift, corrective kick in the pants, though. I can only advise anyone who's struggling with these issues to stay a million miles away from any sort of "incel" space.

This was a very poetic takedown nonetheless, it gave me a good laugh

 

[CantTurnBack]

However, I'm not seeing a whole lot of difference between the hatred manifesting itself in the op and the hate there.

The difference is incels deserve to be ridiculed.

 

[sinfonia]

That'll show 'em!

 

[Skallagrim]

The difference is incels deserve to be ridiculed.

Yes.

It is often the case that one side of a coin deserves to be scorned and the other elevated. It's one of those things I suppose. Humans in general find ways to unerringly excuse their own hate whilst disparaging the hate they see in others.

It's kinda like the adage - Everyone who drives slower than us is an idiot, and everyone who drives faster is a lunatic.

I think about that adage a LOT.

 

[katara]

I try to find sympathy for these people, because their behavior clearly comes from a place of deep suffering and unfortunately gets reinforced by the echo chambers they dwell in. Anybody who directs their inner turmoil as misogynistic rage towards others deserves a swift, corrective kick in the pants, though. I can only advise anyone who's struggling with these issues to stay a million miles away from any sort of "incel" space.

This was a very poetic takedown nonetheless, it gave me a good laugh

I used to sympathize until I realized they ALL genuinely hate women.

 

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

I first found about them from this forum a couple of months ago and documented myself on "inceldom" and was not only disgusted but also disappointed at how some people can be so weak mentally "Ugh!? this group has been mean to me and told me I suck and that I smell? I shower once a month!!! I will show them now by hating them back 1000 fold". You were such a great person before, gee, I wonder why the group hated you in the first place.

I won't say that there is no redemption left for these people as I try to see the best in people , for the young ones who were radicalized there may be hope if they leave these forums as soon as possible, but for those who are already there for decades? I think they will remain as incels forever because of their inability to see women as people.

Good riddance, they will die lonely and by their OWN doing; would help if they'd accept that and act accordingly to their situation instead of frothing at the mouth, making it everyone else's problem and spewing hateful shit all the time.

"But, but!!! Look at this woman in the post, she is proving our message and justifying our hate!!!". What's the problem with this post? If someone covers themselves in shit I won't say they smell like lilac; I will say that they smell like shit, maybe wash off the shit if you don't want to be addressed as someone covered in it?

Hell, going by their logic, considering what I've suffered (which I didn't even share completely on the forum) I should just kill everyone who wronged me. Obviously I won't do that, it will be like a pawn taking another pawn just because it can; The real prize and focal point is at the end of the board, when a pawn can become a queen.

 

[future⩍]

dayum

 

[R. A.]

But...are there non-toxic incels..?

 

[CantTurnBack]

But...are there non-toxic incels..?

The title was edited by a moderator, and I did not specify "toxic" when I created the thread.

 

[R. A.]

The title was edited by a moderator, and I did not specify "toxic" when I created the thread.

Gotta mind your manners on a forum created by incels of an unspecified degree of toxicity I guess...

...hard to see the LD50 though (unless it was those from nearly three decades ago).

Incel - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[EternalHunger]

I can't take people who label themselves 'incel' seriously; although I understand that there are people who find meaning through love and Lookism is real in some ways, they really exaggerate how much it matters and use it to fuel their gross views on the world. They'll have the most absurd standards ever then turn around to judge others for liking what others like, ignoring their blatant hypocrisy, then whine for having to improve themselves and their character for someone to like them... (or at least the people they even consider 'worthy' of their interest)

Even when they do subjectively 'improve', they'll keep their shitty views and be the most shallow person ever, fully not realising that the person they are asking out each are individuals with their own life with varying preferences, mindsets and standards; their biggest issue is generalising people for a few bad experiences they have(if they had them even, there's so many that blatantly admit they had never even tried to ask someone out or had any really bad experiences for their looks in the first place) and cherrypicking certain posts while not realising that people can be shallow as hell and horrible but they certainly don't represent everyone.

I'm sure there's likely are those who label themselves as 'incel' which don't have those views, mindset or lack of effort (or think they don't) but these people don't realise that by generalising HALF of the entire human race through claiming no woman would want them 'after so much effort', they are is still not thinking each person as their own respective individual and have underlying misogynistic (or ego-centric since some just don't properly acknowledge other people outside of themselves has minds too!) views even if they claim they don't; I genuinely believe there's plenty of people out there for people who do put themselves out there, and sure some people need to put in more effort and time than others, but that doesn't invalidate it either and there are even so many people who only want someone who'd listen as well as love them just the way they are, not even focusing on appearance as long as the person takes care of themselves a bit(like... an actual shower? not even need to change themselves much outside of functioning like a real human and being an interesting person) which is the biggest shit incels cry about not existing.
Maybe I'm a bit biased because of my past relationships but I feel as though so many people don't need much at all.

I would feel bad at times hearing a few stories of their past, as again Lookism is real and people can certainly be cruel which fuels their skewed perception of reality and hate their existences for it but then there's their extremely misogynistic, racist and anti-LGBTQ+ views...

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

They seem perpetually salty really. To where they can't hang or even be around other dudes. I suspect it has something to do with either envy or competition, ie. "John is three inches taller than me, I bet he gets all the women" but I'm not certain.

Either way I can't imagine wanting to make this type of thinking any part of my psyche or identity. I think it's laughable, but as someone else pointed out in this thread, there's no shortage of hate in the world so I try to tread lightly. Getting worked up over these guys seems a bit like an eye-for-an-eye in terms of vitriol, whereas maybe it's just best to pity them, if anything.

 

[Dejected 55]

I'm not going to ever defend toxic people, but here I go again once into the fray. I'm going to use a different example to try and minimize the blow back.

Consider...

Serial killers are horrible people. No one would question you if you said "I hate serial killers." Even ignoring that at least some of them have mental illness that has gone untreated and could perhaps have been helped if this world really cared about any of us... but, it's an easy position to take that you hate serial killers and no one would argue with you very much I think.

Most serial killers are men. There are some outlier women, but most serial killers by a good margin are men. So... since you rarely can tell a serial killer just from meeting or seeing them somewhere... and most of them are men... Can you just hate all men? I mean, if you hate all men then by default you'll be hating most of the serial killers... and if you avoid all men at all costs, then you'll be mostly successful in avoiding serial killers. Win-win, right?

But does that make sense?

So... I have no problems with women hating toxic incels. I have no problem with incels who make toxic comments and commit toxic actions being lumped together and hated as a group. They've earned it through their deeds. Hate them all you want. BUT, the problem comes in any discussion where it very quickly jumps to hating all men, being afraid of all men, insulting all men, and declaring all men horrible because toxic incels are men, so all men must be toxic incels unless they agree with you 100% of the time. If they don't, then they must agree with toxic incels, because it's all black and white and you have to be in one camp or the other.

And the thing is... all the non-toxic men in the world... we don't hate women. We don't think all women are the same. If we have been hurt or rejected by a woman, or several women, we don't see all women as the same and blame them for all our problems. But even if you just blamed one specific woman who actually did something wrong... you run the risk of being labeled as a toxic incel woman-hater.

I've seen these threads all go down that rabbit hole in a hurry.

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

Tbh, y'all should just do what I do; gaslight incels into becoming femboys/gay.
Does it solve anything ? No.
Is it funny ? YES.
For as much as i enjoy some quality hatred, theyre hard to fight on that front, so just out tard them.

 

[EternalHunger]

I'm not going to ever defend toxic people, but here I go again once into the fray. I'm going to use a different example to try and minimize the blow back.

Consider...

Serial killers are horrible people. No one would question you if you said "I hate serial killers." Even ignoring that at least some of them have mental illness that has gone untreated and could perhaps have been helped if this world really cared about any of us... but, it's an easy position to take that you hate serial killers and no one would argue with you very much I think.

Most serial killers are men. There are some outlier women, but most serial killers by a good margin are men. So... since you rarely can tell a serial killer just from meeting or seeing them somewhere... and most of them are men... Can you just hate all men? I mean, if you hate all men then by default you'll be hating most of the serial killers... and if you avoid all men at all costs, then you'll be mostly successful in avoiding serial killers. Win-win, right?

But does that make sense?

So... I have no problems with women hating toxic incels. I have no problem with incels who make toxic comments and commit toxic actions being lumped together and hated as a group. They've earned it through their deeds. Hate them all you want. BUT, the problem comes in any discussion where it very quickly jumps to hating all men, being afraid of all men, insulting all men, and declaring all men horrible because toxic incels are men, so all men must be toxic incels unless they agree with you 100% of the time. If they don't, then they must agree with toxic incels, because it's all black and white and you have to be in one camp or the other.

And the thing is... all the non-toxic men in the world... we don't hate women. We don't think all women are the same. If we have been hurt or rejected by a woman, or several women, we don't see all women as the same and blame them for all our problems. But even if you just blamed one specific woman who actually did something wrong... you run the risk of being labeled as a toxic incel woman-hater.

I've seen these threads all go down that rabbit hole in a hurry.

I understand where you are trying to get with this as fighting generalisation with generalisation isn't really the right answer but this thread certainly wasn't going down the route you are talking about.

I also feel as though the analogy you made with viewing the world as black and white is an excuse used a little too often with takes of incel-aligning takes, I wouldn't bat an eye to someone calling a clear or underlying dehumanising/misogynistic post 'incel' even if it isn't what is a textbook one; people would even label posts made by women on the opposite end 'femcel' which makes it clear it's not just a one-side issue, if someone treats others as though they should forget their own autonomy to bend around this person's needs and wants then they are just a horrible person who should change themselves.