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redsendtend

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Hi,

I thought that it would be a good idea to create a thread, which lists things to do before CTV. Things like debt management, finance management, deleting chats, burning diaries (or leaving diaries?), etc.

If the reader has any other ideas, they could add it below.

I hope that this could turn into a resource, for those who are thinkers like me, who want to maintain a good image after death, sparing embarrassment or shame or anything negative or image-soiling.

Any other necessary actions for pre-suicide could also be added.
 
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sohopelessandempty

sohopelessandempty

Still alive, just not active here sometimes so dw
Nov 23, 2025
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Hi,

I thought that it would be a good idea to create a thread, which lists things to do before CTV. Things like debt management, finance management, deleting chats, burning diaries (or leaving diaries?), etc.

If the reader has any other ideas, they could add it below.

I hope that this could turn into a resource, for those who are thinkers like me, who want to maintain a good image after death, sparing embarrassment or shame or anything negative or image-soiling.

Any other necessary actions for pre-suicide could also be added.
Writing notes if someone feels like it, spending more time with people you love, doing more fun things if you know you won't be around much longer, really think about what you want because this is a huge choice and nobody should force/push you into doing something. I'm suicidal but I feel my family is sort of forcing me to ctb eventually(I never voice this to them, I'm not the type of person to guilt trip and threaten suicide or blame others for it, you know what I mean). But feeling like I HAVE to ctb isn't fair. If I ever do, I want it to be my choice without anyone pressuring me. I think people treating others so badly that they feel like suicide isn't even their own choice anymore and they have no choice is so normalized and wrong. But nobody cares. Also another suggestion, maybe trying new treatments before deciding to ctb. Science advances every day.
 
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