They Don’t Belong Here... But Do

[Soulless_Angel]

Bumping this as everyone needs to see it and read it!

 

[Green Destiny]

Thank you for pointing these kind people out @Jean4

 

[Jean4]

Thank you for pointing these kind people out @Jean4

I highly recommend them if you need a hug.

 

[bpdandme]

So nicely said @Jean4 - every comment/post I've read by you is so eloquent. You have the most lovely energy!

I used to think CTB'ers were the only ones who could offer compassion, it is nice to see we have open-minded people who can sympathise with us although they might not necessarily understand or agree. That is the true meaning of being open-minded.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

So nicely said @Jean4 - every comment/post I've read by you is so eloquent. You have the most lovely energy!

I used to think CTB'ers were the only ones who could offer compassion, it is nice to see we have open-minded people who can sympathise with us although they might not necessarily understand or agree. That is the true meaning of being open-minded.

Yes, yes it is. To not condemn or judge but to listen.

 

[bpdandme]

Yes, yes it is. To not condemn or judge but to listen.

We need more people like this! I struggle so much with how judgemental people are, I used to engage in it just for the sake of conversation. Now, I refuse and I am so quiet because I won't entertain judgement any longer. Everyone has a reason that we do not understand or haven't been through. Everyone needs to be nicer and compassionate to each other, my biggest wish.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

We need more people like this! I struggle so much with how judgemental people are, I used to engage in it just for the sake of conversation. Now, I refuse and I am so quiet because I won't entertain judgement any longer. Everyone has a reason that we do not understand or haven't been through. Everyone needs to be nicer and compassionate to each other, my biggest wish.

Honestly, I think to just listen would go along way. Can you imagine a world where everyone just listened? I can. This forum would have no need to exist.

 

[soundsofsilence]

Many thanks for your amazing post.

To me, this shows how the forum has so many levels and offers something truly unique to those of us who are considering what could be the biggest decision in our lives.