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Blueberry Panic

Blueberry Panic

The Bitch who can't die
Jan 5, 2025
1,332
Humans have been told their whole lives that death is something to fear, something dark, something to fight against. But think about it for a second... death itself isn't evil. It's not punishment, it's not a curse. It's the one truth every living thing has to face, the quiet that comes after life. What we actually fear isn't death itself ...it's losing control, its the unknown, the idea that we, or the people we love, will just… stop existing. That's terrifying for a species obsessed with permanence, obsessed with clinging onto needless things and moments.

Here's the thing no one really ever talks about: humans don't just fear death... we fucking monetized it. We turned it into an industry, a corporation, a set of rules controlling every last breath of what happens after a loved one dies. Burial plots, caskets, embalming, cremation services, urns, mausoleums a entire business built to make death look scary, complicated, and expensive. Step outside the system? Handle it naturally? Try to do it the way you want? In almost all places, it's illegal. Society criminalizes authentic ways of dealing with death because the corporations built around it want the control, the money, and the rituals.

Its shitty how corporations will rule our lives, and even once we are gone, they will rule over our deaths... it's sadly how our soviety has been molded to work.

When someone dies, grieving isn't just grief anymore ... it's a script. Buy a casket, hire a funeral director, pay for embalming, pay for the plot, or you could save a lot and just pay for cremation. Laws regulate how you can dispose of a body, how long you have to wait, which chemicals can be used, which places can host it. Death, a universal, natural part of life, has been reshaped into something that requires permission and money to experience "properly." If we don't follow these rules, we're doing something wrong. Death itself has been labeled as bad, dirty, and taboo.

It's not just about money ... it's about control. Corporations, governments, religions, most of society: all of them have colluded to take this most personal, natural event and turn it into a system that benefits them. Mourning isn't just emotional anymore; it's transactional. Respecting a loved one's death isn't about care; it's about compliance. People die, and their bodies become property of the system until you can "release" them according to rules.

The fear of death you see everywhere? Manufactured. Reinforced by laws, rituals, and industries that profit off it. Death itself is neutral. Inevitable. Not a punishment. The natural order. We've just been tricked into hating it.
Speaking of ,the death penalty is society weaponizing the one thing most people fear ....death itself as punishment. And yet, most of the people who end up on death row are already broken by life, numb to survival, living in a kind of death-in-life long before the law steps in.It's bureaucratic cruelty masquerading as justice, turning a natural inevitability into a tool of control, fear, and suffering.
It's sick how much we've been conditioned to thinking death is such a bad thing when it really isnt.

Crazy thing about most funeral practices is that they charge most for embalming not just the burial.
When modern embalming as a widespread practice didn't even start in the until the United States Civil War. Before that, most bodies were buried quickly without preservation. Displaying the body of a loved one by injecting chemicals and other needless things in them.
The truth is, bodies aren't "dirty" in any moral or spiritual sense ...they're just organic matter doing what all matter does: decay. The idea that a corpse is "unclean" is cultural, invented to control how people deal with death and to justify the funeral industry's rules.
Look at death without the horror story society tells. The dead were never ours to own. Death itself isn't something to fear. It's neutral, inevitable, and the only truth in life.
 
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Hollowman

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Dec 14, 2021
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I'd rather avoid all that bs and weigh myself down and drown in the ocean.
 
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Sep 11, 2024
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I have it written in my final letter that I don't want to be embalmed. I don't even care to be buried with a casket bought for me that's going to cost way more money than it's worth, all just to sit in the ground for eternity, rotting with my body. No thanks. I stated my wishes to have any kind of "green" burial, or even just cremation. I want as little of that ritualistic nonsense as possible, because once I'm dead, no amount of embalming chemicals and makeup is going to make me come back to life. All it's going to do is hurt the planet. Not to mention I find it extremely creepy as well, but to each their own.

Obviously, I ultimately can't control how they choose to process my body, and I won't be around to care. If they decide to pump me full of preservatives and buy me an oversized/overpriced shoebox, then whatever. Joke's on them, I still ain't coming back lol.

As I become more and more disillusioned to humanity as a whole, I completely agree with you—fear of death is manufactured. I think you put it all into words perfectly, as always.
 
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ginko0

To be or not to be
May 8, 2025
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It has a lot to do with religion, too. The ancients did not see death with such scared eyes. They saw it as the mere cessation of life, or the mere separation between the body and the "soul".

Hades, which could be compared to the christian's hell, is nothing like it. The idea was that the souls would go there to wander, but they wouldn't face torments, torture and all that horrific imagery that's been implanted on our collective consciousness. Centuries of Christianity can do that to societies.
 
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enough of this

Arcanist
Jun 4, 2023
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Humans have been told their whole lives that death is something to fear, something dark, something to fight against. But think about it for a second... death itself isn't evil. It's not punishment, it's not a curse. It's the one truth every living thing has to face, the quiet that comes after life. What we actually fear isn't death itself ...it's losing control, its the unknown, the idea that we, or the people we love, will just… stop existing. That's terrifying for a species obsessed with permanence, obsessed with clinging onto needless things and moments.

Here's the thing no one really ever talks about: humans don't just fear death... we fucking monetized it. We turned it into an industry, a corporation, a set of rules controlling every last breath of what happens after a loved one dies. Burial plots, caskets, embalming, cremation services, urns, mausoleums a entire business built to make death look scary, complicated, and expensive. Step outside the system? Handle it naturally? Try to do it the way you want? In almost all places, it's illegal. Society criminalizes authentic ways of dealing with death because the corporations built around it want the control, the money, and the rituals.

Its shitty how corporations will rule our lives, and even once we are gone, they will rule over our deaths... it's sadly how our soviety has been molded to work.

When someone dies, grieving isn't just grief anymore ... it's a script. Buy a casket, hire a funeral director, pay for embalming, pay for the plot, or you could save a lot and just pay for cremation. Laws regulate how you can dispose of a body, how long you have to wait, which chemicals can be used, which places can host it. Death, a universal, natural part of life, has been reshaped into something that requires permission and money to experience "properly." If we don't follow these rules, we're doing something wrong. Death itself has been labeled as bad, dirty, and taboo.

It's not just about money ... it's about control. Corporations, governments, religions, most of society: all of them have colluded to take this most personal, natural event and turn it into a system that benefits them. Mourning isn't just emotional anymore; it's transactional. Respecting a loved one's death isn't about care; it's about compliance. People die, and their bodies become property of the system until you can "release" them according to rules.

The fear of death you see everywhere? Manufactured. Reinforced by laws, rituals, and industries that profit off it. Death itself is neutral. Inevitable. Not a punishment. The natural order. We've just been tricked into hating it.
Speaking of ,the death penalty is society weaponizing the one thing most people fear ....death itself as punishment. And yet, most of the people who end up on death row are already broken by life, numb to survival, living in a kind of death-in-life long before the law steps in.It's bureaucratic cruelty masquerading as justice, turning a natural inevitability into a tool of control, fear, and suffering.
It's sick how much we've been conditioned to thinking death is such a bad thing when it really isnt.

Crazy thing about most funeral practices is that they charge most for embalming not just the burial.
When modern embalming as a widespread practice didn't even start in the until the United States Civil War. Before that, most bodies were buried quickly without preservation. Displaying the body of a loved one by injecting chemicals and other needless things in them.
The truth is, bodies aren't "dirty" in any moral or spiritual sense ...they're just organic matter doing what all matter does: decay. The idea that a corpse is "unclean" is cultural, invented to control how people deal with death and to justify the funeral industry's rules.
Look at death without the horror story society tells. The dead were never ours to own. Death itself isn't something to fear. It's neutral, inevitable, and the only truth in life.
Absolutely true! And, very well put. Thank you for your post.
 
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dearlydeparted44

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May 21, 2025
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Well, humans have monetized existence itself. It does what it can to monetize death. The physical is of no relevance after this, though. As far as what's after... oblivion, nothingness, heaven/hell, reincarnation... I'll never profess to know that. No human can. There are wavelengths that aren't even visible to the human eye and there's a vast universe that is far greater than human comprehension. So, unless I know for certain, I just reserve my beliefs on the after part for when it happens.

You're right about the fear of death. Human life is a fight against meaninglessness. To them, death negates everything they have here. I guess that's why it's called "selling your soul." Maybe the soul gets drained into oblivion by letting the stressors of this world kill it and suck it dry. I don't know. But it's jarring to the human to think that all of these meanings that they've attached to everything, all of the prestige they fight for, their materials, their money, human respect, NONE of it means anything in the end. Also, I think the elites fear it because death represents the end of their power and importance. Their laws, influence, monuments, and materials all dissolve into the dustbin of time.

I, personally, see death as not only beautiful, but my only escape from here. I think that, in the right spirit and frame of mind, logging out is a very powerful thing. It's opening the door to the unknown. It's leaving hell. I like that. I don't feel like I'm about to leave anything. Maybe some more wars and famine. Hey, if someone wants to stick around for that to show how resilient and strong they are, they can be my guess. I'll choose peace.
 
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