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Cheza_mus

Experienced
Jul 1, 2021
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I decided to put this post in the suicidal discussion because in one way or the other it really contributes to my depression. I wanted to exactly know why are black women and black men against each other. if you go to twitter or you tube you find these groups hating and bashing on each other. You rarely see it in other communities
 
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looseye

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Oct 27, 2021
187
I'm no sociologist but my best guess would be the large amount of blacks living in impoverished neighborhoods and everything that comes with it: pressure to engage in criminal activity (=> gang life => gang rivalry), lack of education (=> higher affinity to aggression), or simply fitting in with the aggressive nature of their surroundings. You see that with uneducated, long-term unemployed whites as well, stupid people will always find a way to hate on everyone for no good reason
 
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Feb 21, 2022
516
It's complex.

But I feel it comes down to the black community constantly feeling the need to hold itself/each other accountable.

Plus there is a horrific division between genders nowadays, anyway, and this has also consumed the black community.

The sad shit is that people that buy into these harmful philosophies on sex and gender (men and women) don't realize that they are being brainwashed by pawns/agents.
 
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Maudlin

Maudlin

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Dec 10, 2021
355
Read about the Hegelian dialectic, learn what Saul Alinsky and Cloward and Piven are famous for, and look at Edward Bernays to understand some of the concepts, and tactics.

To see destruction of the family, you can follow Alfred Kinseys' disgusting work up through the "sexual revolution" to the "intersectional feminist theory" and "queer theory" thought leaders of today.

It's about disassembling society, in order to rebuild... something.

It's all "divide and exploit"... thesis, antithesis- synthesis. A slow, plodding grind through generations to reach the point we're at today.

The black community in the USA has borne the brunt of an agenda you can trace back literally hundreds of years, if you truly want to understand... an agenda that is wearing down all of society, not just the black community, right now.

It's depressing. I fear for the youth in my family. Some say there's hope, but I've lived a long time and I'm not sure that's true. People like Yuval Harrari and Klaus Schwab think they know what's best for the future, and they have way more money than I do. Let's hope the black community stops listening to their underlings.

I hope you find peace, OP.
 
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Lullaby

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Mar 9, 2022
691
Lots and lots of self-hatred in the black community, and it always starts with the parents. I'm speaking from experience and could probably go on about this topic.

There's a cycle that needs to be broken, but it's incredibly hard. It's really sad and just complicated.
 
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Wormfood

Wormfood

I like people... I said it
May 23, 2022
131
Read about the Hegelian dialectic, learn what Saul Alinsky and Cloward and Piven are famous for, and look at Edward Bernays to understand some of the concepts, and tactics.

To see destruction of the family, you can follow Alfred Kinseys' disgusting work up through the "sexual revolution" to the "intersectional feminist theory" and "queer theory" thought leaders of today.

It's about disassembling society, in order to rebuild... something.

It's all "divide and exploit"... thesis, antithesis- synthesis. A slow, plodding grind through generations to reach the point we're at today.

The black community in the USA has borne the brunt of an agenda you can trace back literally hundreds of years, if you truly want to understand... an agenda that is wearing down all of society, not just the black community, right now.

It's depressing. I fear for the youth in my family. Some say there's hope, but I've lived a long time and I'm not sure that's true. People like Yuval Harrari and Klaus Schwab think they know what's best for the future, and they have way more money than I do. Let's hope the black community stops listening to their underlings.

I hope you find peace, OP.
Thanks for giving me something to research. I know about Bernays but who are those other guys?
 
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Maudlin

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Dec 10, 2021
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Thanks for giving me something to research. I know about Bernays but who are those other guys?
I'm not gonna ruin it for ya'.

You'll have a week or two worth of educational entertainment, at worst... a lifetime of perspective at best.
Come back and talk to me about it, once you're familiar... if I'm still around and you feel like it.
 
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May 21, 2021
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I decided to put this post in the suicidal discussion because in one way or the other it really contributes to my depression. I wanted to exactly know why are black women and black men against each other. if you go to twitter or you tube you find these groups hating and bashing on each other. You rarely see it in other communities
You lost me here..

There is currently a gender war featuring men against women.

Hence Andrew Tate. Hence incels. Hence feminism.

It's not just black people.. it's litterally everyone. White people started it actually.

I'm going yo assume you're black. You might have a bias yourself that makes you feel like it's only the black community.

What you mean is, why do black women insist on the specific fact that black men don't think they're attractive? And why black men keep making fun of black women and disrespecting them?

Well, once again, I think beauty standards affect everyone. Just look at the number of white girls feeling suicidal over not looking like Bella hadid.

Black women, at least, seem to have more psychological endurance when it comes to body confidence because they've been considered the least attractive out of every race for centuries.

I'm a black woman btw.
 
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SamTam33

Warlock
Oct 9, 2022
763
Most of the people I see hating on women these days are white, male politicians.
 
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iwanttodie1

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Jun 15, 2022
58
Because black women are masculine and therefore clash with their own race. Other races of women are feminine and therefore balance well with their own masculine men. Btw not saying all black women are masculine but some are, and in your example it's those on twitter.
 
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Enlightened
Aug 14, 2022
1,290
Because black women are masculine and therefore clash with their own race. Other races of women are feminine and therefore balance well with their own masculine men. Btw not saying all black women are masculine but some are, and in your example it's those on twitter.
I'm having a hard time making any sense of this.
 
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Insomniac

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May 21, 2021
1,356
Because black women are masculine and therefore clash with their own race

hmm, masculine huh?

Well that explains everything.

I mean, men of every races are always complaining that women are trying to copy them and become like them.

so all this time, women were simply trying to be like black women huh.

thanks for enlightening me.

I'm reporting you but don't take it personally ofc.
 
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iwanttodie1

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Jun 15, 2022
58
I'm having a hard time making any sense of this.
Well idk how I can explain what I mean without writing a whole essay. Doesn't matter anyway I'm just here because I wanna kms
hmm, masculine huh?

Well that explains everything.

I mean, men of every races are always complaining that women are trying to copy them and become like them.

so all this time, women were simply trying to be like black women huh.

thanks for enlightening me.

I'm reporting you but don't take it personally ofc.
Idk what I said wrong but I clearly offended you. Just know I'm from eastern europe so what I know may be different from the west. I also don't understand the sarcastic joke u made so sorry I guess I'll leave this thread after this post.
 
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SamTam33

Warlock
Oct 9, 2022
763
I don't see how anyone on Twitter isn't exposed to the gender divide - regardless of color.

If all you see is black men against black women, it's because that's all you're looking for, AKA confirmation bias.
 
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Enlightened
Aug 14, 2022
1,290
I don't see how anyone on Twitter isn't exposed to the gender divide - regardless of color.

If all you see is black men against black women, it's because that's all you're looking for, AKA confirmation bias.
I mean clearly they mentioned that it's contributing to their depression so maybe they've experienced it in their personal life and that's the whole reason they see it.
 
mandyjohnuk

mandyjohnuk

Specialist
Jul 6, 2021
388
It doesn't matter if your Black or White. We all know right from wrong. We make that decision to hate another person or group of people knowing it is wrong.
 
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ryo the frog

ryo the frog

I'm in your house
Jun 27, 2022
74
I have no idea, it does seem to be extremely abundant in this community. I know it's in every race but it doesn't seem to be as obnoxious. then again I'm surrounded by my own race more than others so that probably just makes it easier spot it.
 

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