Venting Terrified

[toxicjester]

I might be losing my girlfriend because of my inability to take care of her and to be able to properly understand her just because my brain likes to build resentment lever the smallest things. I think I'm actually in agony. I really want to ctb but I feel frozen.

 

[buoy]

Knee jerk permanent solutions to temporary situations isn't the best way, friend. Maybe it's not just you, maybe it is but you know what you need to work on-and you can with time. People, places, situations come and go. They all teach and reflect truth back to us. Sometimes really painfully. I'm sorry you're hurting but I hope that they're growing pains.

I'm wishing you peace, friend.
Only recommendation is to learn to say what you feel and think in a non aggressive mannor-even if it's scary. These resentments will never go away unless they're confronted. If you never confront them because you're scared to be wrong and hurt someone-they will never know how you're hurting or why there are so many walls up