Help Should i text her or leave her alone? Please respond

[lovelulu]

The last time we texted was yesterday in the morning, all I said was 'okay' because she was being dry. Please be honest and straightforward, harsh or not. Should I just leave her alone and not text her again, or should I text her asking if she even likes me anymore, and If not I won't text you again. Please give an honest answer, i quite frankly can't do this anymore.

 

[wannabeunicorn]

Feel you, probably the same situation here :) I can say that i've tested most of the things.. to be straight forward, to ask directly what the other side wants etc.
My advice is to go with your gut feeling. If she wants something you will know, same as the opposite. It depends on what you want hope or closure - asking you may receive answer that you wouldn't like, not asking you will be just hanging in nothing-land. Maybe try to distance yourself a bit from situation and try to overlook everything from "3rd person view". I tend to do that in such situations, gives me more clear picture.

 

[SASU-KE]

should I text her asking if she even likes me anymore, and If not I won't text you again.

Give her a couple of days and message her, but don't lead with this particular question. If she still seems cold to casual conversation then go ahead and ask her if she likes you still but be prepared...

 

[Dingusguy]

If someone hurts you this much I don't think they are worth texting, but perhaps asking her what she wants is best I've always tried being direct as I myself hate vague answers or non-answers.

But I think you should do what you think is best. If that is texting her then you should do that.

 

[fedup1982]

I agree, you should text. Just dont be too intense, ask it in a friendly way, get someone to check what youre writing before you send it

 

[Warum]

leave her alone. one of the hardest pills to swallow is to accept ones self worth. people will make time and effort for someone they care about. someones effort reflects their interest in you.