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alwaystired96
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- Aug 24, 2018
- 33
Me and my husband was spending some quality time together today until he jokingly told me how my mother was trying to not get him to date me at first. He told me that she called me an alcoholic and that my hair was falling out and that I was mentally unstable and needed help. He told me that nothing would have stopped him from being with me and he thought it was funny. I did not think it was funny and I was extremely hurt that my mom would lie about me and say that I'm an alcoholic and that my hair was falling out In order to get him to not be with me. I'm 22 he's 40 so she doesn't like the age difference. Anyways I was really hurt that I texted her and told her how upset I was. I told her my husband didn't tell it to me to get me upset so not to blame him. She then proceeds to text him all kinds of rude things and accuses him of purposely trying to upset me. He then gets mad at me and is ignoring me for the rest of the night which is hurting me so much. I told him to please forgive me and that I'm so sorry and that I love him so much and that I would like to spend time with my husband before he has to leave for tampa. I go take a shower and come back and he's asleep. Now I can't sleep and all I want to do is cry because he won't even cuddle with me like he usually does. All I wanted was to make love to my husband tonight and cuddle and now I can't even sleep because I hurt him by telling my mom what he said. Am I a complete monster? Would you be upset at me if you were him in this situation?