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Seeking validation from abusive family member

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Parnate

Mage
Dec 16, 2021
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My mother and sister were both abusive, yet I seek validation from them for every thing, each and every thing. Clothes, hairstyles, keeping a beard, etc. if they say something is not good , I don't do it even though I like it. I hate this behaviour of me.
How to overcome it? I can't cut them off, they love me a lot now and they have changed a lot. I just want to be able to be myself.
 
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