Help Second Thoughts

[soysoysoy]

I'm having second thoughts and it's terrifying me. I have until the weekend to go through with this and my nerves haven't gone down a bit, as a matter of fact, they've gotten worse. Could anybody soothe my nervousness?? Or maybe tell me what I can do to make it easier when the time comes. I'm starting to worry I won't be able to go through with it even though I need to. I need to.

 

[Ash]

If you're having second thoughts, listen to them.

You can always try again later but you can't take it back once you go past a certain point.

 

[Dark Window]

Get a pen and a bit of paper -

Write down exactly what it is you're afraid of. Validate your feelings, tell yourself it's ok to feel this way.

Then write a step by step list of what exactly it is you're going to do.

Hopefully your plan written out will make you feel a sense of control and certainty.

 

[soysoysoy]

Get a pen and a bit of paper -

Write down exactly what it is you're afraid of. Validate your feelings, tell yourself it's ok to feel this way.

Then write a step by step list of what exactly it is you're going to do.

Hopefully your plan written out will make you feel a sense of control and certainty.

I'll do this, thank you. If it all falls through I've put myself in a rough place but I can try to crawl my way out of it.

If you're having second thoughts, listen to them.

You can always try again later but you can't take it back once you go past a certain point.

I know, but it feels like the longer I take to really make up my mind, the more of everybody's time and energy I'm wasting. Thank you for your words though, I suppose I can wait until a little later if my nerves don't go down by tomorrow.

 

[iloverachel]

We are here for you.
I wish you good luck and peace

 

[arnxxx]

Listen to those thoughts.

Did writing stuff down help in any way?

 

[Ephemeron]

If you're having second thoughts, listen to them.

This. Suicide is a very personal thing, and you will know if/when your time is. People often talk about SI, but it will all fade away if/when you're ready. Don't sweat it. As iloverachel said, we're all here for you no matter where you may be.