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mrselfdestruct

mrselfdestruct

brought your forecast and a shovel
May 10, 2022
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How would one go about saying goodbye before ctb without tipping anyone off to their intentions? I want people around me to know I love them but not know I'm planning to ctb.
 
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yabuki77

yabuki77

And then, all that remains is pure white ash.
Apr 29, 2022
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Just hang out with them and have a good time, if they care about you they'll probably remember their last moments with you for years or maybe the rest of their life. Then write a suicide note with what you actually want to tell them before you die, it wont tip anyone off and it's better then saying it to them since they will still have your note.
 
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Mental_Pain

Mental_Pain

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Apr 25, 2022
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Just hang out with them and have a good time, if they care about you they'll probably remember their last moments with you for years or maybe the rest of their life. Then write a suicide note with what you actually want to tell them before you die, it wont tip anyone off and it's better then saying it to them since they will still have your note.

Some very good advice right there I reckon..
 
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Al_stargate

Al_stargate

I was once a pretty angel
Mar 4, 2022
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Kinda hard to do, to tip someone about suicide. I would not want people to be shocked that's all, saying goodbye is not really feasible. You can give a hint that you're not feeling well and having dark thoughts. Saying goodbye, perhaps note like suggested above.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I would just choose to write a note personally. We live in a world where suicide is so stigmatised and our right to die is not respected, so I would personally see it as a good idea to keep my plans to myself and not do anything to make others suspicious. We should all be able to pass away peacefully at a time of our own choosing, without having to think about other people. I wish you the best.
 
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