L

Lostnotfound

Specialist
Feb 23, 2020
351
Thankyou so much for spending all that time finding out that information. It is so kind of you. I do totally agree there is very limited information out there. I am going to try to get some SN but I am uk and i understand this may be difficult. Especially as (funnily enough what you said) I have run away. My logic being that I cant be accused of something if they don't know where I am, so I havent actually been home in 2 months and therefore dont have a permanent address. I have been living in hotels etc. I am too scared to go home now so it sort of backfired on me but thats the situation which makes buying anything online difficult, and even more difficult when it is a product that is difficult to source.

Yes the lawsuits! Oh how they love the lawsuits!

Daughter 1 - eldest: Criminal Court against me is breach of restraining order, under investigation is witness intimidation, harassment, 7 or 8 other cases of breach of restraining order (may be more - police stopped believing her as she cant provide evidence), ABH without injury, and sexual contact with a female family member. I have been under investigation for 18 months but no evidence can be found on anything else. CrI i all Court against her under investigation is coercive control, domestic violence, breaking & entering, witness intimidation, harassment, theft, breach of non-molestation order and contempt of court, Civil court echoes most of what the criminal court have on her but also intellectual property theft and breach of copyright.

Daughter 2 is controlled by daughter 1: Criminal court against me under investigation only is witness intimidation and harassment. Civil court against her is contempt of court, harassment, theft, and contempt of court.

I want to drop all the lawsuits but until daughter 1 does I need my lawsuits as protection against her allegations. So the police have cases investigated against us both and they figure that if they can prove one of them the rest all falls into place so either me or her are for the high jump! However the problem originates from the fact she is borderline bi-polar and makes allegations against people all the time to be centre of attention etc and then it all spiralled out of control. The original allegation is rubbish in the first place but if the police had looked properly and seen she is known for making these allegations we wouldn't be here. We either both need to back down or both stand our ground. Backing down may resolve matters, standing our ground makes things worse. She doesn't give a shit as long as she is getting what she wants and we cant even talk about it because of all the court orders. It's hell on earth and all over nothing.

Ive had enough of it all now and cant cope with it anymore. I can't speak to her to try to get through to her, so the family is destroyed and all our lives are destroyed. Hence the ctb - nothing else left.
 
J

jgm63

Visionary
Oct 28, 2019
2,467
Note : Ordering SN in the UK should not be a difficult matter.
There is a well known auction / bidding site where various listings "come and go" (sellers restock sometimes).
There was a UK seller, who is not listing currently - perhaps they are restocking.
At present there appears to be someone in eastern europe who is selling it.

You should be able to get things delivered to a hotel, unless the seller is wary about that. Or perhaps you can find a bed and breakfast, that doesn't have an obvious "hotel" looking address.

The alternative is to get things delivered to your home address, and take a taxi there in the middle of the night, to collect them (or collect the post office collection slip, so you can collect the item from the post office).

Other options would be to get a post office box.

Or there are some good mail redirection services who are quite flexible (PM me if you need the details)

Another option would be to order from the well known south american river website.
If the seller doesn't ship to your country, you may be able to use a reshipper (cross border shipping company)
eg If ordering from a US based ecommerce site then find a reshipper with a US office.
Use the reshipper's US address when ordering on the ecommerce site.
The reshipper receives the package, then forwards to you.
If the reshipper needs an invoice for customs declaration, then print it from the ecommerce site as a pdf.
Try searching for "cross border shipping company".
 
Last edited:

Similar threads

s.s.scriptties
Replies
2
Views
576
Suicide Discussion
OnMyLast Legs
OnMyLast Legs
Rudeus_Greyrat
Replies
8
Views
405
Suicide Discussion
opheliaoveragain
opheliaoveragain
Cloudy_Mindset
Replies
4
Views
295
Suicide Discussion
-Toplox-
-Toplox-
parentportaldotnet
Venting man.
Replies
0
Views
150
Suicide Discussion
parentportaldotnet
parentportaldotnet