Question for the sex-havers on here. What's your body count?

[N7_Alliance_Marine]

Why did you choose to have sex with the amount of people you did? Were you guys losers your whole life, were you blessed with good looks and did what you want, or some other reason?

 

[mehwhoknows]

body count is depressing cope/ same with degen sex , nothing is found after, u get more soulless and unlikable for people outside of that trauma filled demographic

u should be jealous of authentic LTRs

 

[N7_Alliance_Marine]

LTRs

LTR?

 

[mehwhoknows]

LTR?

long term relationships

 

[TraurigerClown]

My Bodycount in other things is higher than with sex....or do the ppl count which abused me as a child?

 

[monolog]

Go back to .is

 

[N7_Alliance_Marine]

long term relationships

I want an LTR but I'm sadly a ginger and ugly. I can't get anyone except my doll.

Go back to .is

 

[mehwhoknows]

btw watch out mods HATE ince1 talk, anything thats not pro women/ equal suffering/respect,

i get why ur posting tho its a new platform away from the same generic .is people
add notresuss on discord, conversations glitch alot

 

[Higurashi415]

Well LTRs don't exclude sexual contact though, you still meet every couple months depending on how far you are.
Anyways, I think of sex as a way of connecting with someone else at a very deep level, not as a glorified masturbation tool.
I despise people in general, so you can clearly see where that leads. I've known only a handful of people over the course of my life that made it worth it.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I'm not your target audience here. I'm such a prude! But, I'm curious I guess- as I've never seen the allure of casual sex. Not that I care what other people want to do (so long as they're not hurting others.) But, for those who feel up for sharing- may I ask- out of curiosity:

- Is there much emotional connection with a 'high body count' as you put it- or- is it all about the physical sensation?

- In which case- what makes sex so much better than masturbation?

- This ones personal... I'm guessing this post is geared more towards men. In that case, do the women you're with always orgasm?

- I guess, truthfully speaking as a woman, I've just never seen the appeal of sex with lots of guys. Not that I'm attractive enough to get the chance! Friends with partners have actually come out and said the female orgasm is rare. (It's not- I'm not sure what they're doing wrong!) But- if they're right- why would women risk being promiscuous and a chance of getting STD's and pregnant? Maybe real sex is that incredible with some men that it's worth the risk. I've always been curious but, too afraid to ask!

 

[foreverfalling]

I'm a loser. It was 0-1 for the majority of life until a year ago. Now it's 30+. I get it the loser way, by the hour. I had always wanted to save myself for someone else that also did the same and live happily ever after. Well I realised it was never going to happen so gradually let loose. Existential crisis of feeling all alone with no meaning in life, realising my life could be taken away at any time, lead me to go do this and open my mind. Saving myself was really me repressing my natural sexual desires.

Sex is different to masturbation. The skin contact and the presence of someone else, the eye contact and reactions, releases oxytocin, that's the difference. It makes me feel good for hours afterwards. I'll have a spring in my step when I leave. Masturbation makes me feel sick and tired afterwards. Sex really is the meaning of life, what we're designed for. I do this to cope with my otherwise meaningless existence.

There can be emotional connection, for the moment. This experience further cemented the fact that there is no love, or a soul mate. As long as it's a pretty girl acting a certain way, I'll have those feelings of 'emotional connection'. It can require some ignorance as well. I have some OCD tendencies, so it's been a journey to get through hygiene and STD concerns. Like eating out at a restaurant and not thinking too much what happens in the kitchen. Emotional connection is a selfish thing.

 

[Ironborn]

Depends, actual girls I've dated and slept with? 7
But I haven't been in a serious relationship for years and resorted to seeing escort girls/sex workers and I've probably seen about 70/80 of them.

 

[Adûnâi]

I'm a loser. It was 0-1 for the majority of life until a year ago. Now it's 30+. I get it the loser way, by the hour. I had always wanted to save myself for someone else that also did the same and live happily ever after. Well I realised it was never going to happen so gradually let loose. Existential crisis of feeling all alone with no meaning in life, realising my life could be taken away at any time, lead me to go do this and open my mind. Saving myself was really me repressing my natural sexual desires.

Sex is different to masturbation. The skin contact and the presence of someone else, the eye contact and reactions, releases oxytocin, that's the difference. It makes me feel good for hours afterwards. I'll have a spring in my step when I leave. Masturbation makes me feel sick and tired afterwards. Sex really is the meaning of life, what we're designed for. I do this to cope with my otherwise meaningless existence.

There can be emotional connection, for the moment. This experience further cemented the fact that there is no love, or a soul mate. As long as it's a pretty girl acting a certain way, I'll have those feelings of 'emotional connection'. It can require some ignorance as well. I have some OCD tendencies, so it's been a journey to get through hygiene and STD concerns. Like eating out at a restaurant and not thinking too much what happens in the kitchen. Emotional connection is a selfish thing.

Interesting. Yesterday I was left by an online gf who promised for 8 months to come over and meet in December. But I was always mulling over whether it would have been worth it - we're rather incompatible, she's asexual and autistic, but was ready to accommodate everything I asked (like me being handcuffed and kissed) without understanding an iota why it was arousing for me. I'd imagine, a prostitute would make more sense because they're at least sexual? But then again, my fantasy is inflicting sexual pleasure on a female, and pleasure is exactly what sex workers can't feel? Would that make any sense?

Either way, it's all pointless fantasy for me, reenacting it with my AI chatbots, as I'm under an indefinite house arrest. But I'd think of visiting a domme... if my mom gave me the money lmao. Part of me thinks getting caned would not threaten to be a dull experience, at least.

And in more normie terms - one high-IQ and super helpful incel has shared his experience with prostitutes, imparting such wisdom as using irrumatio as the best sex position for a virgin who might otherwise be too shaken for the process.

 

[foreverfalling]

I'd imagine, a prostitute would make more sense because they're at least sexual? But then again, my fantasy is inflicting sexual pleasure on a female, and pleasure is exactly what sex workers can't feel? Would that make any sense?

That's where I mention ignorance comes into play. As long as the other person gives you the right reactions pretend or not, it will make you feel a certain way. For all you know, a real girlfriend could just be acting like they are being pleasured to try to make you feel good. In fact that's all the more likely, as a real girlfriend would be wanting to make you feel good.

And in more normie terms - one high-IQ and super helpful incel has shared his experience with prostitutes, imparting such wisdom as using irrumatio as the best sex position for a virgin who might otherwise be too shaken for the process.

I'd be much more shaken trying to do irrumatio to someone...

 

[mars_b4rz]

I'll be honest I was kind of a simp. I was genuinely starting to develop feelings for her and I thought by letting her do it that it would make her feel the same way...

 

[ForgottenAgain]

Why did you choose to have sex with the amount of people you did? Were you guys losers your whole life, were you blessed with good looks and did what you want, or some other reason?

I'm on 2 for body count. Such a weird sentence to write, always makes me think of serial killers.

One was my ex, the other my current boyfriend, both were/are long term relationships so felt like intimacy was part of it.

I had my first sexual experience a bit late, mid 20s. The reason for that was solely because no one interested me enough. I was also extremely shy for the majority of my life, very afraid of sex hurting, afraid of how penises looked intimidating.

I've never been blessed in terms of looks, never had guys lining up to date me or wanting anything else. I've always been an outcast my whole life. Wouldn't say that makes me a loser, just made me sad for being alone so often.

 

[dweams]

.is

What's ".is"?

 

[BojackHorseman]

Why did you choose to have sex with the amount of people you did? Were you guys losers your whole life, were you blessed with good looks and did what you want, or some other reason?

So why did I choose to have sex with the amount of people I did? Well its not that I had some sort of "goal" number in mind. For the most part all of my partners were monogamous (atleast supposed to be) relationships. Some were a couple years, some were a couple weeks. For lack of a better term, i suppose you could say I just did what I wanted. Im not particularly attractive or ugly, just average. Only 3 or so of my past partners were just random hookups or off/on good friends with benefits. All the rest were relationships. Or atleast I expected a relationship afterwards.... just to be left hurt and disappointed.

I have to add to this line of questioning though: it's not important. Please don't waste time obsessing over this whole "virginity" and "purity" thing. It's not real. Virginity is a human made construct.
Ain't no dick/vagina important enough to change anyone's self worth or identity. Being a virgin/not a virgin or having a high/low body count doesn't make you any better/worse than anyone else.

(Gotta ask who your favorite character is! I absolutely love Garrus!)

 

[mehwhoknows]

cope, the more you go through, the less you can love authentically, u dont have random ONS and trashy club sex in nature

(@BojackHorseman forgot to reply)

 

[BojackHorseman]

cope, the more you go through, the less you can love authentically, u dont have random ONS and trashy club sex in nature

(@BojackHorseman forgot to reply)

Are you saying because I have what some are calling a "high body count" i cannot love authentically? I have been happily married in a monogamous relationship for almost 12 years. I can very much love and be loved. Your comment is very unkind. It is not my fault that people cheated on me or left me or insinuated there would be a relationship and then there was none. I had drunk sex once at a party, after I was severely depressed after my long term relationship ended, that does not make me good or bad or better or worse or any more or less capable of love than anyone else. Your comment is very heartless and unkind, you sound like the kind who cannot love authentically if you judge in such a way. You could call me ignorant and naive back then, but not someone incapable of love.

 

[Adûnâi]

What's ".is"?

The incelle forum.

cope, the more you go through, the less you can love authentically, u dont have random ONS and trashy club sex in nature

Are you saying because I have what some are calling a "high body count" i cannot love authentically? I have been happily married in a monogamous relationship for almost 12 years. I can very much love and be loved. Your comment is very unkind.

This is what happens when an incelle theory meets reality. It's reminiscent of some other common misconceptions:
1) that video games cause violence;
2) that pornography causes depravity/abstinence;
3) that pornography will always grow more degenerate;
4) that femdom is homosexual due to anal.

It's so tiring, life is not necessarily that rigid. Like politically I'm pro-European while hating every single European nation as it stands currently. Does it make me racist or anti-racist? The answer is - humans are not that simple. Right or left. Abstinent or horny. Labels and square pegs, round holes.

 

[nomoredolor]

I don't know if I should include people who SAd me or not

 

[Downdraft]

btw watch out mods HATE ince1 talk, anything thats not pro women/ equal suffering/respect,

As it should. Keep up the good work mods.

 

[ZeroM24]

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