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Mel93

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I would like to hear your opinion. In my opinion it is hart to trust someone. And no one likes to give their phone number or something. I would like to do it with a partner. I think you are more determined with a partner.
 
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I would like to hear your opinion. In my opinion it is hart to trust someone. And no one likes to give their phone number or something. I would like to do it with a partner. I think you are more determined with a partner.
Finding someone to trust is difficult but they can give help / motivation. Some feel more comfortable and safe planning and acting alone.
 
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Roph

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I would like to hear your opinion. In my opinion it is hart to trust someone. And no one likes to give their phone number or something. I would like to do it with a partner. I think you are more determined with a partner.
I would like to find a partner. However, I wouldn't want to share personal info like phone number, Facebook, etc. Once someone has access to your Facebook, they can see your friends, tag you, etc. Three people know my phone number: my sister, my aunt, and my mother.

I thought that I had found a partner here but they wanted my Facebook, phone #, etc. They had no money so I volunteered to drive the hundreds of miles to them... and then another few hundred miles to the suicide site. I probably would have paid for a meal, too.

Despite me offering to spend all day and several hundred dollars driving, the day I had chosen (just two days later) was not soon enough for them. I wanted the two-day delay to make sure that both of us were certain that this was something we wanted to do.

Two days later, all they had to do was get in the car and, three hours later, they'd be at a place where they could find their peace. But their insisting on getting my personal info and their complaints about the date chosen resulted in me withdrawing from the pact.

Even if we had gotten to the suicide site after hours of driving and they had changed their mind, I wouldn't have complained. People have the right to live. I'm not here to kill anyone except myself.

If I do another pact, hopefully things go better.
 
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Mel93

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Finding someone to trust is difficult but if you can they can give help / motivation. Some feel more comfortable and safe planning and acting alone.
I would like to find a partner. However, I wouldn't want to share personal info like phone number, Facebook, etc. Once someone has access to your Facebook, they can see your friends, tag you, etc. Three people know my phone number: my sister, my aunt, and my mother.

I thought that I had found a partner here but they wanted my Facebook, phone #, etc. They had no money so I volunteered to drive the hundreds of miles to them... and then another few hundred miles to the suicide site. I probably would have paid for a meal, too.

Despite me offering to spend all day and several hundred dollars driving, the day I had chosen (just two days later) was not soon enough for them. I wanted the two-day delay to make sure that both of us were certain that this was something we wanted to do.

Two days later, all they had to do was get in the car and, three hours later, they'd be at a place where they could find their peace. But their insisting on getting my personal info and their complaints about the date chosen resulted in me withdrawing from the pact.

Even if we had gotten to the suicide site after hours of driving and they had changed their mind, I wouldn't have complained. People have the right to live. I'm not here to kill anyone except myself.

If I do another pact, hopefully things go better.
i hope you will find a partner you can trust.
I am sick and I will die but I can not trust a healthy person because I think they will not do it wen it depends on it. If you are searching please sent me a pm.
 
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I would like to find a partner. However, I wouldn't want to share personal info like phone number, Facebook, etc. Once someone has access to your Facebook, they can see your friends, tag you, etc. Three people know my phone number: my sister, my aunt, and my mother.

I thought that I had found a partner here but they wanted my Facebook, phone #, etc. They had no money so I volunteered to drive the hundreds of miles to them... and then another few hundred miles to the suicide site. I probably would have paid for a meal, too.

Despite me offering to spend all day and several hundred dollars driving, the day I had chosen (just two days later) was not soon enough for them. I wanted the two-day delay to make sure that both of us were certain that this was something we wanted to do.

Two days later, all they had to do was get in the car and, three hours later, they'd be at a place where they could find their peace. But their insisting on getting my personal info and their complaints about the date chosen resulted in me withdrawing from the pact.

Even if we had gotten to the suicide site after hours of driving and they had changed their mind, I wouldn't have complained. People have the right to live. I'm not here to kill anyone except myself.

If I do another pact, hopefully things go better.
Hey im trying
I would like to find a partner. However, I wouldn't want to share personal info like phone number, Facebook, etc. Once someone has access to your Facebook, they can see your friends, tag you, etc. Three people know my phone number: my sister, my aunt, and my mother.

I thought that I had found a partner here but they wanted my Facebook, phone #, etc. They had no money so I volunteered to drive the hundreds of miles to them... and then another few hundred miles to the suicide site. I probably would have paid for a meal, too.

Despite me offering to spend all day and several hundred dollars driving, the day I had chosen (just two days later) was not soon enough for them. I wanted the two-day delay to make sure that both of us were certain that this was something we wanted to do.

Two days later, all they had to do was get in the car and, three hours later, they'd be at a place where they could find their peace. But their insisting on getting my personal info and their complaints about the date chosen resulted in me withdrawing from the pact.

Even if we had gotten to the suicide site after hours of driving and they had changed their mind, I wouldn't have complained. People have the right to live. I'm not here to kill anyone except myself.

If I do another pact, hopefully things go better.
Please pm me
 
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Schopenhauer

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Oct 3, 2018
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I wish I could pay someone to take me out. I'd be willing to pay quite a lot for it. However, finding a killer is not as easy as in the movies.
 
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I wish I could pay someone to take me out. I'd be willing to pay quite a lot for it. However, finding a killer is not as easy as in the movies.
Agreed. If I could find someone to kill me, I'd pay a lot. But, as you said, it's not like the movies.
 
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Morning Angel

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Aug 8, 2018
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I would not do this. For others who are really pressed to do it, I would advise at least knowing the person for at least 6 mo to a year. Be conservative with providing details because you never know how much shit will hit the fan down the line. It takes a while to know someone's circumstances, their sense of judgment, and to build trust. There's a lot of security/privacy issues you'd have to discuss, on top of sorting practicalities like distance, money.

Generally people are extremely unpredictable... you don't know what can happen last minute when someone is under duress... and if you need someone else to help you summon the courage to die, maybe it isn't the right time to go in general. Of course, I understand the desire not to have your last moments be alone too...but the risks are just too great.
 
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Nowayout

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Sep 23, 2018
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Agreed. If I could find someone to kill me, I'd pay a lot. But, as you said, it's not like the movies.
Will you pm me so i can apologise
 
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wanttodie

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Apr 19, 2018
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I wish I could pay someone to take me out. I'd be willing to pay quite a lot for it. However, finding a killer is not as easy as in the movies.
me to Agreed. If I could find someone to kill me, I'd pay a lot
 
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Ready to go.

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Sep 25, 2018
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I agree it's important to find someone you feel you can trust but it's not easy. I'd like have a partner so neither of us would have to go alone and would also like to have someone who's an outdoor person that knows how to tie knots and find place to hang. And yeah I wish there was a was someone to take me out as well. Problem with that is once you gave them the money they'd be long gone.
 
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Hanger

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May 29, 2018
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I was searching for a long time, but now I´m sure it´s a bad idea to do it with a partner. They are often weird or not sure if they really want to do, the last person, that was interested, really scared me. I´m sure now it´s better to do it alone.
 
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Ready to go.

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Sep 25, 2018
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I was searching for a long time, but now I´m sure it´s a bad idea to do it with a partner. They are often weird or not sure if they really want to do, the last person, that was interested, really scared me. I´m sure now it´s better to do it alone.
Yeah,it is incredibly risky meeting a stranger to do it with. Sorry you had such a frightening experience. It's just that I'm pretty much down to short drop hanging and I wouldn't feel safe out in the woods alone at night :(
 
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