I've fallen in love with her who until a few months ago was my best friend. In March I came out to her, but she refused as she had just gotten out of a relationship that had completely destroyed her. From that moment our relationship has inevitably never been the same, very often we have stopped talking, but now we have clarified ourselves and we still speak as "friends". My biggest fear is to see her happy with someone else but she told me she doesn't want to fall in love with anyone for a long time. The problem is, I'm so fucking in love with her, I just can't see a future without her. However I am aware that she will never like me, probably because I am not attractive enough. She also confirmed this to my friends. Now I don't know what to do because to forget her I should just stop talking to her, but I can't do it all of a sudden. Also we are in the same class so in September when school starts again it will be hell. I really don't know what to do, I've thought about ctb several times in this period, but maybe it's too trivial a reason to do it. According to my friends I should write to some other girl to distract me, but I'm ugly and girls don't even reply to me on ig.
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Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
- Jan 15, 2022
- 2,914
Image-based online dating is a no no for men. Trust me that I have gotten attention from women of MY league and above irl but never in dating apps which is basically like ig: image based, female-advantaged. You are much better off doing shit irl and hoping to meet someone. Even as an ugly male this applies, if you are mogged irl you are significantly more mogged on image-based platforms.
I'm asocial and have social anxiety so meeting people irl is more difficult for me
Hey it's been a while, I hope you're doing okay, whatever you're doing that is. I hope your CFS isn't troubling you much <3
Praying 4 a Miracle
Experienced
- Sep 22, 2024
- 247
The important thing in this situation, is that there is someone for everyone out there. If you feel unattractive, then a good solution is to search for a woman who also feels that way about herself. In reality, you both may be far more attractive, especially to each other, than you think. Chasing after a hot girl if you feel you're not in the same league, rarely works out in most cases.
You're absolutely right though, it is way too trivial a reason to want to CTB over IMO. There are lots of fish in the sea, you just have to find the one that's right for you!
You're absolutely right though, it is way too trivial a reason to want to CTB over IMO. There are lots of fish in the sea, you just have to find the one that's right for you!
Hero Remeer
Member
- Sep 22, 2024
- 51
It may sound cliché what you say, but in these cases time heals everything, just live the grief as it should be, respecting what you feel and feeling it
It may be that the matter is trivial, but that suffering is yours and you experience it, I have also gone through something similar and now I am fine with it
Getting away from the person can help, but only you will know if it helps you or not
Regards, be well
It may be that the matter is trivial, but that suffering is yours and you experience it, I have also gone through something similar and now I am fine with it
Getting away from the person can help, but only you will know if it helps you or not
Regards, be well
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