Pregnant by surprise at 41

[Volatile]

The death worship that goes on on here irks me somewhat. You seem like a nice person and I 'll apologise on behalf of anyone saying otherwise. Just because we've fucked our lives up why should the whole world burn for our mistakes. It's immature as fuck and seems like a cult. Have the child, it sounds like you want to and some good could come from this situation

The death worship here that irks you?? WTF. This is not Reddit. We are a suicide (death) forum ffs!

 

[Mr2004]

Would we kill ourselves if we had any other choice? I 'm not doing it because I think it's cool. I'm doing it because it's a tragic last resort

 

[Volatile]

Would we kill ourselves if we had any other choice? I 'm not doing it because I think it's cool. I'm doing it because it's a tragic last resort

Nice strawman. I never said that suicide was cool

 

[Mr2004]

Worshiping death as a concept does seem that way. All emo. Realizing you can't live anymore doesn't really have much to do with that (imo)

 

[lv-gras]

I suffered a lot too but I'm still glad I got a chance to be here even though it's been a challenge.

feel somewhat similarly, wishing you the best whatever your choices, and also you are nothing wrong for giving someone up for adoption to a good family in your situation

 

[hopeis5427]

The death worship that goes on on here irks me somewhat. You seem like a nice person and I 'll apologise on behalf of anyone saying otherwise. Just because we've fucked our lives up why should the whole world burn for our mistakes. It's immature as fuck and seems like a cult. Have the child, it sounds like you want to and some good could come from this situation

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The death worship that goes on on here irks me somewhat. You seem like a nice person and I 'll apologise on behalf of anyone saying otherwise. Just because we've fucked our lives up why should the whole world burn for our mistakes. It's immature as fuck and seems like a cult. Have the child, it sounds like you want to and some good could come from this situation

So you find a woman that has had 4 abortions and plans to sell her child better wtf.
Also not everyone agrees with this woman here for her to abort for the 5 time lol and then the woman talks about selling her baby as if its some kind of object if she doesnt abort.

 

[IG959]

Everyone suffers and at times life's is shit but not everyone wishes they were never born. There are many people who enjoy and are glad to have lived life. I hate the fact that so many people on here make it out like everyone in the world struggles with life and wants to die. Everyone struggles sometimes, life's is shit sometimes but for most people the positives outweigh all the shit that happens.

 

[Tiburcio]

feel somewhat similarly, wishing you the best whatever your choices, and also you are nothing wrong for giving someone up for adoption to a good family in your situation

Objectively, let it happens yes makes she wrong. Just because sge doesn't want ro "kill" her son, she will release him in a fucked up life full of endeavors and torture and not worthy at all. Now even such monstrosity is justified. It's the selfishness to its maximun level.

Everyone suffers and at times life's is shit but not everyone wishes they were never born.

This is completely false. And sometimes it's the best thing possible.

 

[Mr2004]

You want to talk about selfish? Thinking no child should ever be born again. That it's inherently wrong just because we personally might wish that. I'm not anti life and if I ever sound like I am I'm projecting. I see no reason for that child to be doomed from the start. Her past experiences could give her all the more reason to give that child a good life and it could save hers too

 

[IG959]

This is completely false. And sometimes it's the best thing possible.

I stand by the fact that I know many people who wish not to die, and are happy with their lives. People struggle, it's normal. Life can be shit but there are people who live and enjoy.

 

[Tiburcio]

I'm not anti life

I see... You even seem to be a pro-lifer.

You want to talk about selfish? Thinking no child should ever be born again. That it's inherently wrong just because we personally might wish that. I'm not anti life and if I ever sound like I am I'm projecting. I see no reason for that child to be doomed from the start. Her past experiences could give her all the more reason to give that child a good life and it could save hers too

Typical of people like you who only value quantity over quality. Life is totally good, the more childs here the better, oh, they will have a bad and hard life? Who cares? Life is precious for EVERYONE! That's basically what you are trying to say.

You think we should avoid saving him of that torture of life all forsaken in adoption or not wished kids have and FORCING him to have an horrendous life? Ot's selfish as fuck. That's has a name: being a psychopath.

You are too mind closed, you can't see beyond your fortress of morality (your pathetic concept of it). I have nothing to argue with you. If I continue you eon't like it and I probably will receive another ban warning as you deserve to receive and stop bothering us with your poison mentality, so good bye.

I stand by the fact that I know many people who wish not to die, and are happy with their lives. People struggle, it's normal. Life can be shit but there are people who live and enjoy.

Look at this situation. Do you really think that kid is going to have a GOOD life? Please, think better before posting this.

 

[Mr2004]

I'm not trying to say anything you think I'm trying to say only that seems to be what she wants so who are we to tell her she shouldn't? If there's hope for anyone here that isn't death good for them. If she wanted to abort it I wouldn't argue with that either

 

[No Future]

I'd abort, and save the poor kid an uncertain future.

Hoping to miscarry whilst actively avoiding an abortion doesn't make a lick of sense to me. It's the same ends, just with different means; to spare yourself some guilt?

Flipping a coin with a human life to benefit yourself financially is far from kosher in my eyes.

Now I'm no zealot, but I don't think the big man is going to start smiting people for using contraception, either. If your god is as omnipotent as he's cited as being, I think he might pick up on some of the contradictions presented here, lord knows I did.

 

[IWishYouAllGoodLuck]

Well, with the things the op posted before and op's 4 abortions plus this child probably not ever meeting its father this isn't looking good at the slightest and actually seems kind of crazy. Especially that the op is hoping for a misscarriage or giving the child to adoption. Not looking good at all. Plus the op's proffesion (being a prostitute) and having a baby in her womb don't mix very well. If for whatever reason the op decides to have the child, I hope she at least stops being addicted to Adderall but it seems hard since she posted once she needs it for work and having a child costs a lot especially that the op is in debt, so go figure op...

 

[Final Escape]

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So you find a woman that has had 4 abortions and plans to sell her child better wtf.
Also not everyone agrees with this woman here for her to abort for the 5 time lol and then the woman talks about selling her baby as if its some kind of object if she doesnt abort.

I figured selling my child to a nice couple would not seem wrong in exchange for having to endure the 9 months of pregnancy and the aftermath of that sacrifice. I'm not sure why people think this is so evil. At least I would be able to pay off some debt or get a fresh start in life. It is better than destroying the unborn simply because it is inconvenient or I'm unable to provide a decent situation for him or her.

 

[Mr2004]

I figured selling my child to a nice couple would not seem wrong in exchange for having to endure the 9 months of pregnancy and the aftermath of that sacrifice. I'm not sure why people think this is so evil. At least I would be able to pay off some debt or get a fresh start in life. It is better than destroying the unborn simply because it is inconvenient or I'm unable to provide a decent situation for him or her.

Ah your back. Can you stick up for me please after I took your side and got slated for it?

 

[Definitelyworried]

@Final Escape
I think one of the reasons u wanted to ctb was because you never had a child. I really can't beleive how many people here are trying to make you abort the baby. Don't get me wrong, many people would probably be better never been born including my self, but this is your decision.
I'm sure some people you know will congratulate you for being pregnant.
It's your decision, and the consequences or joys will be experienced by you, your child and loved ones.
I do wish everyone the best.

 

[Tiburcio]

Before leaving this thread forever I wanted to say a last thing: my mother had me for the same reason @Definitelyworried menctioned and look me now. Everyone I know was born in the same circumstances is ruined now. Happiness is simply not possible in all cases as idealistic oeople want to say it.

And I'm so sensitive about the topic because I experienced it and I don't want to see here a person in some years ruined because somebody thought abortion was morally wrong. Forcing life in every curcumstance or for just fulfilling your wishes is just a mistake. We, sons, are not pets you can have when you want and only because you want.

That are my experiences and thoughts about this. Goodbye.

 

[QueenEtna]

Abort it before it's too late. And maybe stop sleeping with guys, why not use a toy instead it has a 0% pregnancy rate lol

 

[hopeis5427]

I figured selling my child to a nice couple would not seem wrong in exchange for having to endure the 9 months of pregnancy and the aftermath of that sacrifice. I'm not sure why people think this is so evil. At least I would be able to pay off some debt or get a fresh start in life. It is better than destroying the unborn simply because it is inconvenient or I'm unable to provide a decent situation for him or her.

No stop trying to sound innocent or moral now as if you care about your child's interest too after being called out.You know very well what you are doing you had 4 abortions before and are saying you hope you miscarry your 5th child,then you say you hope you get a shit load of money if you were able to sell your child as if it was a object on the fucking supermarket.
Also next time use protection and birth control ,because no unborn child should have to face being aborted or sold because their mother was having alot of casual sex with a bucket of men without any protection.

 

[SamK]

Personally I believe every life deserves just that to live. Meanwhile... every parent also has a choice in knowing what's best for them and their child.
I know many here have had a life full of hell but there are people who could help Final Escape and her baby out. Feelings and struggle are not always permanent. There are solutions. We don't need to take over her decisions telling her what to do with her baby and child. Not every mother who has suicidal feelings is a bad mother. Feeling suicidal is a response to a life full of pain and struggle when the pain of living outweighs the fear of death. She is being responsible if you ask me, 4-5 weeks in and is already thinking and planning forward what is going to be best for her baby

That's hard when you feel depressed. But it just shows final that you are responsible and i'm sure going through what you did in the past was hard. We live and we learn .... from our mistakes and mistakes of others. Abortions are tough, for the mother. And come on this pregnancy she said was forced.. she's not been wreckless , she's probably been through so much more than she shares on here. .. c'mon, she needs love and support and I know it's good to consider everything but lets not tell her she's an awful person if she doesn't get rid of it. Please....

Anyways , moving on, hope everyone has a 'decent' week...

 

[CJM]

What the fuck...
4 abortions already
Hoping you'll miscarry
Don't want another abortion as it's murder to you
Would sell your kid for 50k for your "efforts"

Please, no more banging. Close the shop, it's a mess.

 

[stellabelle]

What the fuck...
4 abortions already
Hoping you'll miscarry
Don't want another abortion as it's murder to you
Would sell your kid for 50k for your "efforts"

Please, no more banging. Close the shop, it's a mess.

Shit happens. Don't judge others.

 

[Darrenloses]

Shit happens. Don't judge others.

I'm curious what happened now that you bumped the thread

 

[stellabelle]

I'm curious what happened now that you bumped the thread

I was too but it's none my biz.

 

[CJM]

Shit happens. Don't judge others.

Do what I like.