Please help me, im back at my abuser's house, i need to move out ASAP, i have a cat and we're in danger

[Cyber4ngel!]

I'm back in my abuser's house, my dad who ruined my life, back in the house where they hit me, deprive me of food, deprive me of bathing for weeks, sexualize me, psychologically abuse me.


After almost a year, almost a year during which I was able to escape and live on my own, I had to return.


I was left without a home and I was able to stay for two weeks at my partner's house, but his parents got aggressive with me and kicked me out last night.


Once again I'm here, without eating, without bathing, I have a cat and now we're both in danger.


As soon as I arrived, they didn't greet me, they yelled at me, called me useless, and told me never to try moving again. I have a urinary infection and they started sexualizing me, saying I must have caught it from sleeping with many men.

In this house lives my stepmother's son, who tried to sexually abuse me and spies on me through the window. My dad hits me and they don't let me eat anything, my step mother also hits me, I have health problems, I'm going to die.


They didn't even give me a mattress, I'm sleeping on the floor of a tool shed with just a jacket and a bed sheet, I have my cat, please I need to leave, I'm going to die here.


Please, I don't know how else to ask for help, please, I need to leave now, it's urgent, please, I need to be in a safe place with my cat. When i lived here i used to eat from the trash, I'm underweight and I'm anemic, I have an uti and my kidneys are failing , I need to eat meat, I need Healthcare, I can go to the ER for free but the medicine is not free

I can't be hospitalized, I need to be there for my cat, his name is manchitas, he's the only reason i keep on trying, I need him in my life

My brother took all the money I had to survive, I only have 50 dollars left, please I have no food or even enough to bathe, I sleep on the floor with my cat. I can't even buy him food anymore, he has a bag of food left but i dont know what will I do when he eats it all


Please, someone do something, please help me, I don't want to live like this anymore, please, I've never had a stable place to go, please, someone do something, please, I'm begging you, I want to leave with my cat.

You are my last resource, please, I cant do this anymore please im begging please, I want to leave even if it's just to a rundown ugly apartment, please. I need a safe place for me and my cat, please they are abusing me, the police doesn't do anything, I already tried, i cant go to a homeless shelter, please. Help me please im desperate please I want to move out i dont hace any friends or family i can stay with

Anything helps, please. Even if you just share this, please. Im from Argentina

I want to ctb, but not like this, not while my cat needs me, the reason I want to ctb is because I never had a safe place, I'm 18, I lost everything, all my life has been abuse, I want to be safe, I have traumas i will never heal, they tried to kill me when i was 13, they had me medicated purposely in the wrong dosis with a strong medicine that could kill you, (litio)

I was being starved, medicated, i was not allowed to shower for weeks, they hit my cat, they hit me, i was eating literally moldy food from the trash, im at risk of being SAed

Please. I don't want to die like this, without living, without dignity, without knowing what a safe place is, my own place, please. Help me, I want to be safe, I want my cat to be safe, I want us both to eat

I have a lot of threads telling my story, I have proof of everything that's happening, believe me please, my cat needs me and I need my cat, he has separation anxiety i cant leave him alone, he's my whole world, he's my baby

I'm so sorry for asking for help, I cant do this alone anymore, I dont have family, i dont have friends, my brother kicked me out, im alone







Im so sorry lately all my threads are asking for help or having a breakdown, Im having the worst month ever, feel free to ask me questions, I can explain all the abuse mostly with proof

 

[CC123]

Please look into finding a battered woman's resource center.
Many angels work there.

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

This is me yesterday at the hospital because of the UTI and bc of my kidneys

 

[mattoman]

Does Argentina have on call duty social services that could help? Can you go to the ER and explain your situation there, so you could at least stay there even to be safe? I'm pretty sure you won't die over this, you're in distress and probably cannot think rationally. I'm sure there is a solution to this.

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

I don't even have a Twitter account and i never had one, I want to ask for help there but I'm afraid that my brother will see it and do something to me, i know he has multiple accounts, I don't know what to do, I need all the help i can get

Does Argentina have on call duty social services that could help? Can you go to the ER and explain your situation there, so you could at least stay there even to be safe? I'm pretty sure you won't die over this, you're in distress and probably cannot think rationally. I'm sure there is a solution to this.

Yesterday when i was at the ER, the day the picture I sent was taken, I told them all about my situation and that I was going to be homeless or in the house of an abuser, they let me sleep there for about 3 hours but told me that there wasn't anything they could do for me, that i had to be strong and get myself out of this situation
I called social services before and the only solution they had was placing me in a homeless shelter, but most are even worse that being on the street and i have my cat
My family has been doing this to me since I was 11, I called the police multiple times, I reported them to social services and the police, but they never helped me
My family has been doing this to me since I was 11, I called the police multiple times, I reported them to social services and the police, but they never helped me
I'm so cold

 

[mattoman]

I don't even have a Twitter account and i never had one, I want to ask for help there but I'm afraid that my brother will see it and do something to me, i know he has multiple accounts, I don't know what to do, I need all the help i can get

Yesterday when i was at the ER, the day the picture I sent was taken, I told them all about my situation and that I was going to be homeless or in the house of an abuser, they let me sleep there for about 3 hours but told me that there wasn't anything they could do for me, that i had to be strong and get myself out of this situation
I called social services before and the only solution they had was placing me in a homeless shelter, but most are even worse that being on the street and i have my cat
My family has been doing this to me since I was 11, I called the police multiple times, I reported them to social services and the police, but they never helped me
My family has been doing this to me since I was 11, I called the police multiple times, I reported them to social services and the police, but they never helped me

This is really tough situation you're in, I'm very sorry to hear that. I live on the other side of the world so I can't do much, but to think what you could do. You mentioned your brother, is he someone you could trust and ask for help? Do you have any relatives that could help, you mentioned you still had 50 dollars, could you contact them and maybe take a bus or some other form of transportation there? Or any friends for that matter? Does your government provide any support, unemployment, disability etc. that you could apply and get some money to live and perhaps get your own apartment that way?

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

This is really tough situation you're in, I'm very sorry to hear that. I live on the other side of the world so I can't do much, but to think what you could do. You mentioned your brother, is he someone you could trust and ask for help? Do you have any relatives that could help, you mentioned you still had 50 dollars, could you contact them and maybe take a bus or some other form of transportation there? Or any friends for that matter? Does your government provide any support, unemployment, disability etc. that you could apply and get some money to live and perhaps get your own apartment that way?

My brother is the one who took my money away, he's asking for donations on Twitter telling lies about me being an abuser, I have a thread on that https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/what-do-i-even-do-now-vent.186080/

After I insisted he gave me about 400 dollars he had made from that, but today he took them from me

There's programs that provide small support but it can take months for them to accept someone, I need to leave this place soon, I asked all of my friends but no one is willing to give me a place in their homes, I don't have any family left

My brother is the one who took my money away, he's asking for donations on Twitter telling lies about me being an abuser, I have a thread on that https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/what-do-i-even-do-now-vent.186080/

After I insisted he gave me about 400 dollars he had made from that, but today he took them from me

There's programs that provide small support but it can take months for them to accept someone, I need to leave this place soon, I asked all of my friends but no one is willing to give me a place in their homes, I don't have any family left

Everything he said, he did not give me any of the money he made until I threatened to expose him, and now he took it away

 

[Praestat_Mori]

It's horrible what you have to endure. I'm sorry I can't help. As was already said local help would be best.

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

It's horrible what you have to endure. I'm sorry I can't help. As was already said local help would be best.

The problem is they won't help, I tried, don't worry, even if you can just share it I appreciate it

 

[Hvergelmir]

I think you're better off on the street if the climate allows for it.
As long as you stay dependent on your abuser you're in danger, but you also give less incentive for social services to help you - it can easily appear like you're in a relatively safe and stable spot. I know nothing about Argentina, but I know that my country would require you to be homeless to get help with a place to live.

If you need food for yourself and the cat, I'd like to respectfully recommend dumpster diving outside grocery stores. I did this myself as a student, to save money and for ideological reasons. You can often find perfectly good packaged food.
Map for free food (There's one spot in Buenos Aires, but the spots of other countries should give you a good lead as to what kind of place are worth looking at).

Look into "freeganism". It's an ideology of fully or partially living off (free) waste. There's a lot of free stuff if you know where to look, and while not ideal it can be relatively healthy. It could sustain you and your cat while you're waiting for that program, and whatever other more long term solution you might find.

I asked all of my friends...

Don't discount them completely. You might still be able to borrow a shower, or wash your clothes.

This is all very practical information for what I interpret as an emergency. I mean no disrespect, and I don't wish this upon you.

 

[mattoman]

How is it going now?

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

How is it going now?

Still the same, i feel hopeless. I am very ashamed but im trying to ask for donations, i researched for social services but I need to do paperwork i can't do because i need like 3 different professionals proving that I am in danger and even then I would have to wait months to get a small amount of money, my family told me today that soon they will move out to a place 2 hours away from here and that i can't come with them

I have a friend researching how to recieve dollars from donations, I have a more calm coherent text asking for help now because I know if I write something having a panick attack they will think I'm either lying or crazy

I still don't know where to ask for donations, I thought about reddit but I dont have an account and to ask for donations in almost all forums you need an old account and at least 400 karma, my friend has an account but only has 35 karma

Some of my friends told me I could shower at their homes from time to time but not more than that

I'm still sleeping on the floor, it hurts and I'm cold, I cant leave my cat alone for more than a couple minutes because he tries to climb stuff and the room is full of insect poison, glass, unstable furniture and sharp things, I can only sleep when he does because I fear he will hurt himself

I have a more calm coherent text asking for help now because I know if I write something having a panick attack they will think I'm either lying or crazy

This is the text I wrote with the help of a translator:


I'm 18 and trapped in an abusive home where I endure physical, emotional, and being sexualized constantly and being told that im a wh0re. I'm denied basic needs like food, hygiene, and safety. After losing my home and having nowhere else to go, I was forced to return here.

I've tried everything I can to find help, but I've hit so many obstacles. Social services here require paperwork and proof from multiple professionals that I'm in danger, which I can't access right now. Even if I could, the process takes months, and I need help urgently.

To make things worse, my family told me they're moving soon to a place two hours away and that I'm not allowed to go with them. I'll be left completely alone with no place to go.

I'm sleeping on the floor in a tool shed. It's cold, painful, and unsafe. I can't leave my cat alone for even a few minutes because the room is full of hazards: glass, sharp tools, insect poison, and unstable furniture. I only sleep when my cat does because I'm terrified he'll hurt himself.

I'm very ashamed to ask, but I'm trying to raise donations to escape this situation. I've researched social services and international donation platforms, but I've hit many roadblocks. Most forums, including Reddit, require an old account with at least 400 karma to ask for help. A friend offered to use their account, but they only have 35 karma.

I'm also looking into ways to receive dollars from donations, as I'm in Argentina. A friend is helping me figure this out, but I still don't have a reliable solution.

Some friends have offered to let me shower occasionally at their homes, but they can't help beyond that. I have health problems and its worsening i have anemia, a urinary infection, and kidney problems. i can go to the ER for free but I can't afford the medication because most of them are not provided by the ER I also can't afford the proper nutrition I need. Because of this and my mental health i cant find a job, along with being 18 and having no experience.

I have $50 left, no family or friends I can stay with, and no resources to escape. I had some money to eat but a family member took it from me only leaving me with that amount.

One of my family members tried to SA me years ago and he still lives here, he hasn't changed and I'm still at risk of it happening again

My cat is my only companion, and I can't abandon him. He's my whole world and the reason I keep trying.

I urgently need a safe place for both of us. Any amount you can donate, or even sharing my story, would mean everything to me. I can provide proof of my situation if needed, i have photos and text messages (most of them unfortunately are in Spanish.)

Please, help us get out of this nightmare. I feel so hopeless.

 

[mattoman]

Still the same, i feel hopeless. I am very ashamed but im trying to ask for donations, i researched for social services but I need to do paperwork i can't do because i need like 3 different professionals proving that I am in danger and even then I would have to wait months to get a small amount of money, my family told me today that soon they will move out to a place 2 hours away from here and that i can't come with them

I have a friend researching how to recieve dollars from donations, I have a more calm coherent text asking for help now because I know if I write something having a panick attack they will think I'm either lying or crazy

I still don't know where to ask for donations, I thought about reddit but I dont have an account and to ask for donations in almost all forums you need an old account and at least 400 karma, my friend has an account but only has 35 karma

Some of my friends told me I could shower at their homes from time to time but not more than that

I'm still sleeping on the floor, it hurts and I'm cold, I cant leave my cat alone for more than a couple minutes because he tries to climb stuff and the room is full of insect poison, glass, unstable furniture and sharp things, I can only sleep when he does because I fear he will hurt himself

This is the text I wrote with the help of a translator:


I'm 18 and trapped in an abusive home where I endure physical, emotional, and being sexualized constantly and being told that im a wh0re. I'm denied basic needs like food, hygiene, and safety. After losing my home and having nowhere else to go, I was forced to return here.

I've tried everything I can to find help, but I've hit so many obstacles. Social services here require paperwork and proof from multiple professionals that I'm in danger, which I can't access right now. Even if I could, the process takes months, and I need help urgently.

To make things worse, my family told me they're moving soon to a place two hours away and that I'm not allowed to go with them. I'll be left completely alone with no place to go.

I'm sleeping on the floor in a tool shed. It's cold, painful, and unsafe. I can't leave my cat alone for even a few minutes because the room is full of hazards: glass, sharp tools, insect poison, and unstable furniture. I only sleep when my cat does because I'm terrified he'll hurt himself.

I'm very ashamed to ask, but I'm trying to raise donations to escape this situation. I've researched social services and international donation platforms, but I've hit many roadblocks. Most forums, including Reddit, require an old account with at least 400 karma to ask for help. A friend offered to use their account, but they only have 35 karma.

I'm also looking into ways to receive dollars from donations, as I'm in Argentina. A friend is helping me figure this out, but I still don't have a reliable solution.

Some friends have offered to let me shower occasionally at their homes, but they can't help beyond that. I have health problems and its worsening i have anemia, a urinary infection, and kidney problems. i can go to the ER for free but I can't afford the medication because most of them are not provided by the ER I also can't afford the proper nutrition I need. Because of this and my mental health i cant find a job, along with being 18 and having no experience.

I have $50 left, no family or friends I can stay with, and no resources to escape. I had some money to eat but a family member took it from me only leaving me with that amount.

One of my family members tried to SA me years ago and he still lives here, he hasn't changed and I'm still at risk of it happening again

My cat is my only companion, and I can't abandon him. He's my whole world and the reason I keep trying.

I urgently need a safe place for both of us. Any amount you can donate, or even sharing my story, would mean everything to me. I can provide proof of my situation if needed, i have photos and text messages (most of them unfortunately are in Spanish.)

Please, help us get out of this nightmare. I feel so hopeless.

Well I'm glad to hear that you've got a friend helping you out with this and were able to write that text. Hopefully someone will help you, best of luck.

 

[Gangrel]

i wish i could help you but i can't even help myself... all i can do is wish you goodluck...

 

[Failed.Angel]

I can't help you in any meaningful way, specially financially, one of the things I'm most broken. But I can recommend you to make a Wise account https://wise.com/
When I was really living life for the first time on Bayern, Germany(I am from Brazil) this card was a big deal, you can make different bank accounts in many currencies to get and exchange money.
You will need to put some of your country money to create an account, but you won't lose it, the money will stay on the card will validate your account and you will receive a debt card by mail. Once it is done, you are free to open different account for other currencies like Euros and Dollars and you can exchange on your phone those currencies to your country money and vice versa.
Edit: One of the many ways I used back then, I used to sell used goods on a website called Vinted in Germany I would set up may wise Euro account there and would receive the money of what I sold in euros (depending on the buyer choice of payment of course) but once I received the euros I could use it on the card, withdraw or instantly exchange for Brazilian currency and send to my Brazilian bank if for whatever reason I needed to do that like sending money to someone or pay my Brazilian credit card.

In your case, after your account is valid, you create a Dollar acc and set to where are you receiving your donations. You can already even used to pay for things in Argentina without exchanging the Dollars with you have the card. But you have the options available to exchange or not you lose a small % of money but if we are getting more valuable currency than ours it is nothing.


I hope it can help you a bit. Sorry I can't do more.

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

Last night they forced me to take alprazolam because i was crying, i was crying because they let my cat out on the streets and i couldn't find him, he came back to me today but if he didn't come back i would have ctb today, he's the only reason i even try to get better, I'm still dizzy and sleepy, i passed out yesterday at 6 pm and im still not able to sit in bed because of how dizzy i am

Its happening all over again

I want to be safe with my baby, i cant do this anymore, I need help, please

I wont give up on him, im alive because he is with me, even if they drugged me, even if everyone wants me to put him up for adoption, i wont, i wont give up on my baby, i need him

I need to find a place for us

 

[keechu]

I'm back in my abuser's house, my dad who ruined my life, back in the house where they hit me, deprive me of food, deprive me of bathing for weeks, sexualize me, psychologically abuse me.


After almost a year, almost a year during which I was able to escape and live on my own, I had to return.


I was left without a home and I was able to stay for two weeks at my partner's house, but his parents got aggressive with me and kicked me out last night.


Once again I'm here, without eating, without bathing, I have a cat and now we're both in danger.


As soon as I arrived, they didn't greet me, they yelled at me, called me useless, and told me never to try moving again. I have a urinary infection and they started sexualizing me, saying I must have caught it from sleeping with many men.

In this house lives my stepmother's son, who tried to sexually abuse me and spies on me through the window. My dad hits me and they don't let me eat anything, my step mother also hits me, I have health problems, I'm going to die.


They didn't even give me a mattress, I'm sleeping on the floor of a tool shed with just a jacket and a bed sheet, I have my cat, please I need to leave, I'm going to die here.


Please, I don't know how else to ask for help, please, I need to leave now, it's urgent, please, I need to be in a safe place with my cat. When i lived here i used to eat from the trash, I'm underweight and I'm anemic, I have an uti and my kidneys are failing , I need to eat meat, I need Healthcare, I can go to the ER for free but the medicine is not free

I can't be hospitalized, I need to be there for my cat, his name is manchitas, he's the only reason i keep on trying, I need him in my life

My brother took all the money I had to survive, I only have 50 dollars left, please I have no food or even enough to bathe, I sleep on the floor with my cat. I can't even buy him food anymore, he has a bag of food left but i dont know what will I do when he eats it all


Please, someone do something, please help me, I don't want to live like this anymore, please, I've never had a stable place to go, please, someone do something, please, I'm begging you, I want to leave with my cat.

You are my last resource, please, I cant do this anymore please im begging please, I want to leave even if it's just to a rundown ugly apartment, please. I need a safe place for me and my cat, please they are abusing me, the police doesn't do anything, I already tried, i cant go to a homeless shelter, please. Help me please im desperate please I want to move out i dont hace any friends or family i can stay with

Anything helps, please. Even if you just share this, please. Im from Argentina

I want to ctb, but not like this, not while my cat needs me, the reason I want to ctb is because I never had a safe place, I'm 18, I lost everything, all my life has been abuse, I want to be safe, I have traumas i will never heal, they tried to kill me when i was 13, they had me medicated purposely in the wrong dosis with a strong medicine that could kill you, (litio)

I was being starved, medicated, i was not allowed to shower for weeks, they hit my cat, they hit me, i was eating literally moldy food from the trash, im at risk of being SAed

Please. I don't want to die like this, without living, without dignity, without knowing what a safe place is, my own place, please. Help me, I want to be safe, I want my cat to be safe, I want us both to eat

I have a lot of threads telling my story, I have proof of everything that's happening, believe me please, my cat needs me and I need my cat, he has separation anxiety i cant leave him alone, he's my whole world, he's my baby

I'm so sorry for asking for help, I cant do this alone anymore, I dont have family, i dont have friends, my brother kicked me out, im alone

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Im so sorry lately all my threads are asking for help or having a breakdown, Im having the worst month ever, feel free to ask me questions, I can explain all the abuse mostly with proof

I'm so sorry you have to live like this. Is it possible to make a gofundme or something like that to collect funds ?? I don't have much money myself but if possible then I want to help as much as I can. I have cats too and it breaks me so much whenever my parents let them outside and I can't do anything it. please reach out to any possible place that might offer help I'm sorry I can't do anything to get you out of there

 

[Whale_bones]

I'm so sorry you're having to live through this. No one deserves to have to return to their abuser's house. Your cat looks like an absolute sweetheart, and I can tell how strong the love and bond is between you two.

Just as a heads up, asking for donations isn't allowed on SS (though you haven't done that, this is just a heads up to other people who may read this and think of suggesting that out of good intentions).

I completely want you to be able to come to SS to express your thoughts and feelings about what you're going through, though. So don't let my note about that hold you back from coming here and expressing your genuine thoughts.

I think tangible help for you will be very specific to the country you're in, Argentina. A lot of readers won't be familiar with what type of social services they have (or don't have) there, or what living on the street looks like there. I'd recommend looking for forums, or subforums like on Reddit, that are for people from Argentina.

When I was homeless, I found that there were a lot of really small local charities that didn't advertise anywhere, and the only way you could find out about them was word of mouth from other unhoused people. Sometimes it's small, local places like that that can truly help (whereas the bigger ones require lots of paperwork and many appointments, or require you leave your pet before they give you shelter, something that is unbearable for many people).

You have the right to live free of abuse, free of threats, and with your basic needs fulfilled... I hate that this world allows such suffering, but I'm sending you virtual hugs and thoughts of comfort and strength

 

[MercenariesofMidgar]

I'm back in my abuser's house, my dad who ruined my life, back in the house where they hit me, deprive me of food, deprive me of bathing for weeks, sexualize me, psychologically abuse me.


After almost a year, almost a year during which I was able to escape and live on my own, I had to return.


I was left without a home and I was able to stay for two weeks at my partner's house, but his parents got aggressive with me and kicked me out last night.


Once again I'm here, without eating, without bathing, I have a cat and now we're both in danger.


As soon as I arrived, they didn't greet me, they yelled at me, called me useless, and told me never to try moving again. I have a urinary infection and they started sexualizing me, saying I must have caught it from sleeping with many men.

In this house lives my stepmother's son, who tried to sexually abuse me and spies on me through the window. My dad hits me and they don't let me eat anything, my step mother also hits me, I have health problems, I'm going to die.


They didn't even give me a mattress, I'm sleeping on the floor of a tool shed with just a jacket and a bed sheet, I have my cat, please I need to leave, I'm going to die here.


Please, I don't know how else to ask for help, please, I need to leave now, it's urgent, please, I need to be in a safe place with my cat. When i lived here i used to eat from the trash, I'm underweight and I'm anemic, I have an uti and my kidneys are failing , I need to eat meat, I need Healthcare, I can go to the ER for free but the medicine is not free

I can't be hospitalized, I need to be there for my cat, his name is manchitas, he's the only reason i keep on trying, I need him in my life

My brother took all the money I had to survive, I only have 50 dollars left, please I have no food or even enough to bathe, I sleep on the floor with my cat. I can't even buy him food anymore, he has a bag of food left but i dont know what will I do when he eats it all


Please, someone do something, please help me, I don't want to live like this anymore, please, I've never had a stable place to go, please, someone do something, please, I'm begging you, I want to leave with my cat.

You are my last resource, please, I cant do this anymore please im begging please, I want to leave even if it's just to a rundown ugly apartment, please. I need a safe place for me and my cat, please they are abusing me, the police doesn't do anything, I already tried, i cant go to a homeless shelter, please. Help me please im desperate please I want to move out i dont hace any friends or family i can stay with

Anything helps, please. Even if you just share this, please. Im from Argentina

I want to ctb, but not like this, not while my cat needs me, the reason I want to ctb is because I never had a safe place, I'm 18, I lost everything, all my life has been abuse, I want to be safe, I have traumas i will never heal, they tried to kill me when i was 13, they had me medicated purposely in the wrong dosis with a strong medicine that could kill you, (litio)

I was being starved, medicated, i was not allowed to shower for weeks, they hit my cat, they hit me, i was eating literally moldy food from the trash, im at risk of being SAed

Please. I don't want to die like this, without living, without dignity, without knowing what a safe place is, my own place, please. Help me, I want to be safe, I want my cat to be safe, I want us both to eat

I have a lot of threads telling my story, I have proof of everything that's happening, believe me please, my cat needs me and I need my cat, he has separation anxiety i cant leave him alone, he's my whole world, he's my baby

I'm so sorry for asking for help, I cant do this alone anymore, I dont have family, i dont have friends, my brother kicked me out, im alone

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Im so sorry lately all my threads are asking for help or having a breakdown, Im having the worst month ever, feel free to ask me questions, I can explain all the abuse mostly with proof

Hi, I really want to support you, (with a commission) but when I try to send a personal message to anyone I get blank screen... can you see if itll work if you initiate it?

 

[Opera]

Hi, I really want to support you, (with a commission) but when I try to send a personal message to anyone I get blank screen... can you see if itll work if you initiate it?

Blank screen? Does it look like an empty chat or box? Or can you not access the chat at all?

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

6 days without eating, just barely drinking water
They screamed at me again today, they told me to get out of their house, I guess i am officially homeless
There's nothing I can do

 

[MyTimeIsUp]

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6 days without eating, just barely drinking water
They screamed at me again today, they told me to get out of their house, I guess i am officially homeless
There's nothing I can do

OP, I just found this. Try this website out or phone them. You can also search yourself as you're in that country and I'm not, so it's difficult to find anything. There will be charities out there as the domestic abuse crisis is global, and you're not alone, so many of us are going through similar.

I really hope you reach out to them and get the help and support you really need (I've attached a screenshot)

 

[FailedBeing]

i'm so sorry you have to experience this. i can't imagine how horrible it must be for you... you really don't deserve this
is there a way we can send you financial help, do you have a go fund me, or something similar ?
i hope everything will be ok for you and that help will come your way
you are so brave
im sorry that i can't provide you any meaningful help...

 

[Cyber4ngel!]

Update: sadly i am not allowed to ask for certain help here, like donations and stuff and i dont currently have the energy to post as regularly as before but if anyone wants to keep updated with the situation im posting about it on other social media, i mostly talk about my cat and drawings, if you want my Twitter please pm me, as i also don't know if its allowed to link social media, i would like to talk to someone and sasu doesn't show me PM notifications idk why

 

[Dot]

Hve u contctd n.e DV sheltrs

Thre r fostrs wh/ wll lk aftr cts fr ppl leavng DV stuatns

Slf cn hlp fnd sme spport orgnsatns in ur area if tht wld b of n.e hlp @ all

 

[RandomGirl52]

Still the same, i feel hopeless. I am very ashamed but im trying to ask for donations, i researched for social services but I need to do paperwork i can't do because i need like 3 different professionals proving that I am in danger and even then I would have to wait months to get a small amount of money, my family told me today that soon they will move out to a place 2 hours away from here and that i can't come with them

I have a friend researching how to recieve dollars from donations, I have a more calm coherent text asking for help now because I know if I write something having a panick attack they will think I'm either lying or crazy

I still don't know where to ask for donations, I thought about reddit but I dont have an account and to ask for donations in almost all forums you need an old account and at least 400 karma, my friend has an account but only has 35 karma

Some of my friends told me I could shower at their homes from time to time but not more than that

I'm still sleeping on the floor, it hurts and I'm cold, I cant leave my cat alone for more than a couple minutes because he tries to climb stuff and the room is full of insect poison, glass, unstable furniture and sharp things, I can only sleep when he does because I fear he will hurt himself

This is the text I wrote with the help of a translator:


I'm 18 and trapped in an abusive home where I endure physical, emotional, and being sexualized constantly and being told that im a wh0re. I'm denied basic needs like food, hygiene, and safety. After losing my home and having nowhere else to go, I was forced to return here.

I've tried everything I can to find help, but I've hit so many obstacles. Social services here require paperwork and proof from multiple professionals that I'm in danger, which I can't access right now. Even if I could, the process takes months, and I need help urgently.

To make things worse, my family told me they're moving soon to a place two hours away and that I'm not allowed to go with them. I'll be left completely alone with no place to go.

I'm sleeping on the floor in a tool shed. It's cold, painful, and unsafe. I can't leave my cat alone for even a few minutes because the room is full of hazards: glass, sharp tools, insect poison, and unstable furniture. I only sleep when my cat does because I'm terrified he'll hurt himself.

I'm very ashamed to ask, but I'm trying to raise donations to escape this situation. I've researched social services and international donation platforms, but I've hit many roadblocks. Most forums, including Reddit, require an old account with at least 400 karma to ask for help. A friend offered to use their account, but they only have 35 karma.

I'm also looking into ways to receive dollars from donations, as I'm in Argentina. A friend is helping me figure this out, but I still don't have a reliable solution.

Some friends have offered to let me shower occasionally at their homes, but they can't help beyond that. I have health problems and its worsening i have anemia, a urinary infection, and kidney problems. i can go to the ER for free but I can't afford the medication because most of them are not provided by the ER I also can't afford the proper nutrition I need. Because of this and my mental health i cant find a job, along with being 18 and having no experience.

I have $50 left, no family or friends I can stay with, and no resources to escape. I had some money to eat but a family member took it from me only leaving me with that amount.

One of my family members tried to SA me years ago and he still lives here, he hasn't changed and I'm still at risk of it happening again

My cat is my only companion, and I can't abandon him. He's my whole world and the reason I keep trying.

I urgently need a safe place for both of us. Any amount you can donate, or even sharing my story, would mean everything to me. I can provide proof of my situation if needed, i have photos and text messages (most of them unfortunately are in Spanish.)

Please, help us get out of this nightmare. I feel so hopeless.

hey do you still need a reddit account? i can let you use mine to post for help, I only really use it once a month so I don't care about it much and it has 1000 post karma

 

[ViniTerrible]

oh my god, I'm so sorry for you. I hope everything get ease for you and may you get the help you need. please stay safe and take care.

 

[brokenbirdy]

When I had to leave my situation, I had three cats. I don't know if this exists in Argentina, but I was able to find a place that would take care of them for a few months while I found a new place to live.

 

[AuroraB]

Have you tried going to a big church nearby, talking to the staff there and asking for help? They should have connections, especially if it's a Catholic church.

 

[RCan]

Update: sadly i am not allowed to ask for certain help here, like donations and stuff and i dont currently have the energy to post as regularly as before but if anyone wants to keep updated with the situation im posting about it on other social media, i mostly talk about my cat and drawings, if you want my Twitter please pm me, as i also don't know if its allowed to link social media, i would like to talk to someone and sasu doesn't show me PM notifications idk why

Have you thought of trying to contact a DV shelter specifically?
Dot above has offered to help you to find local services in your area.