Help Please drop some break up lines..it's urgent

[Cheza_mus]

My ctb date is in Easter..I need to break up with my gf as soon as possible to prepare my ctb

 

[IWTD]

I wouldn't do that

 

[Al Cappella]

I wouldn't do that either.

 

[nothing123]

Honestly that would traumatize her if you break up. It's best you stick with her until the end when you pass.

 

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don't do that. partners can tell when u break up with them for a reason that isn't true. you will just confuse her and damage her own mental health as she tries to work out what happened
talk to her about your issues. say how u are feeling and why you think it might impact your relationship or end up hurting her. be honest, tell the truth. she deserves that much. you would expect the same

 

[LastFlowers]

Just tell it to her straight, maybe without getting into the suicidal bit, if you're too distressed and busy with preparations to keep up with the relationship, you are allowed to say as much (in so many words, without risking hospitalization).
You can tell the truth without telling the whole truth, that you have your own unresolved personal issues to work out on your own.

A lot of people on this forum are desperate for romantic partners to the point they will allow further self-destruction/sacrifice and permit any manner of scenarios for the sole purpose of holding onto an SO/vying for one that has yet to come into fruition- so don't expect any advice from an unbiased perspective.

 

[WadeingThru]

Ghost her.
Tell her, it's you not me.
Tell her, the cheese is old and moldy.
Tell her your too busy for a relationship right now.

 

[summers]

I ended a very long relationship with "I'm sorry, this just isn't working. Neither of us have been happy for a long time. Let's end things as friends."

It was very difficult to do, because I still loved them. But I couldn't keep hurting them.

And contrary to some of the other advice in this thread, I think you're doing the right thing. It's incredibly kind and selfless of you to deal with the pain of ending the relationship to help ease the hurt your gf.