People who say you are a weakling if you take your life , you have to be strong , et c

[Now_And_Then]

I have had people tell me , including my late grand father , that I am a weakling if I take my life and don't face the world . That I have to be strong and face up to reality.

Grand dad used to say to me he can't stand weaklings who say they are depressed and can't go out the house or want to commit suicide . You've got to be strong in life , other wise you are a weakling . No excuse

But why should I be strong ? Okay , if I want some thing or have a reason to do it then I may have to use strength to achieve it . But I AM NOT INTERESTED . I have no interest in any thing in life enough to stay here for it . If I had kids then I would stick around or if I was looking after a sick person I would stick around

But who or what is there to tell us to be strong for no reason other than to preach ?

I am not going to be strong for a cl corrupt and vicious world full of hypocrisy and inconsistencies

 

[Thorn]

Strength does not make anyone unbreakable. And everyone has their own "reality". You are strong enough if you don't let anyone tell you what to do.

 

[veren4h92l]

I've made my experience that people who act like that are the weakest themselves. They're no good but think they are God / missing introspective.
They could save lives if they could deal with it but never(?) would be aware of this elementary humanoid potential.

They are ...poor : /

Love to everyone who is considering to ctb, you're awesome and not to blame.

Strength does not make anyone unbreakable. And everyone has their own "reality". You are strong enough if you don't let anyone tell you what to do.

And yes I warmly agree with that, too.

 

[Sweet emotion]

I do not and have never believed the act of suicide is for the weak and is an act of cowardice. I also don't think it's selfish. I have the highest ranking pain condition in medical history and there are no treatments for it and no cure. I'm in excruciating pain every minute if every day and am into all isolation. No one has to live this life but me and I've been doing it for 14 years already. There is no point in suffering just for the sake of saying I'm still alive. Yeah I'm alive but I'm not living. I'm existing. What I DO think is selfish is for people who want me to stay here just so they can look at me. Wouldn't they rather know I'm out of pain and misery? Also if killing myself was so easy I would have done it a long time ago.

 

[woxihuanni]

They are little evil goblins, the lot of them. What blows my mind in this world is not any of the other cruelties like the horrors of war or whatever, it is how hostile and low people get towards those who want to just fucking leave.

Normally I choose my friends incredibly well, but I had sort of let in a sjw sort of person a little way into my life. (Honestly don't know wtf came over me). Ahah they practically scolded and friend-dumped me upon learning I will die. Don't weep at my funeral or my ghost will fart in your face, bloody sjw.

 

[Blackjack]

I think people who succeed at ending their life are the polar opposite of weak.

 

[LadyPanda]

I think people who succeed at ending their life are the polar opposite of weak.

Agreed, really looking death in the eye takes a lot more courage than just getting by because you're "supposed" to. I think the people who say suicide is cowardly or an easy way out or a sin only do so because that's what keeps them from doing it. Either that or they're just repeating what they've heard from others without sitting down and actually having an intelligent conversation on free will. This stupid "let me call this person a coward because they're doing something that makes me uncomfortable/sad" bs is just lazy.

 

[Throwaway9787]

A weak person has to make a courageous decision. This is stoner dude weed talk since I'm stoned. But that sums up suicide, at least in my case. And by weak, I mean from the battle I've been through.

 

[JimFord99]

It takes strength, determination, willpower and commitment to take your own life, probably mixed with sheer desperation. No signs of weakness IMHO. Admirable.

 

[sadgirl2002]

People who say that kind of bullshit irritate me. It's simply a man-made concept. Death; whether if it's self-inflicted or "natural" like how people call it when someone gets an illness or something, it's death either way. It doesn't matter how it's done. None of us are obliged to "face the world". Honestly, I'd rather be a weakling whilst being dead and happy as opposed to being strong, alive and utterly miserable.

 

[snowman626]

As if we can just press a button and die. There is fear of pain to overcome, fear of ending up vegetable, fear of going to hell, fear of all unknowns. Weaklings wont have the courage to overcome all that.

Weaklings are the ones who face more pain than they have to just because thats what society tells them is the "right" thing, because they cannot think for themselves. .

 

[mnjkl]

Overcoming your problems requires strength, and so does choosing to end your life instead. The weakest people are the ones who continue shuffling through their miserable lives for no reason other than their fear of death, that's where I'm at : )