Venting Partner backing out

[TraurigerClown]

This Guy contacted me as a response to my post in the Partnerthread and after some talk and getting to know each other we decided to do the Nitrogen way with gasmask and all this stuff.
Well, i got onto doing all the necessary research, brought up a list of things we need and so on and so forth and now hes backing out!

He was ranting about ppl he met here who´ve been talking about ctb and than getting cold feet in the last second and how sure he is to ctb! That he kinda hates these ppl and stuff like that....and now he´s saying every second sentence how big suicide is as a decision and he needs more time and more time after i spend fucking days working on all this shit....!

 

[Thisisnotaname]

Hello,
I would like to apologize to you although I am not the originator of this subject.

Yours

 

[waterrrrrrrrrbottel]

oof i'm sorry man. that's annoying as heck. i wish you well

 

[LostSoul1965]

I spent a long time talking with a potential partner from a post here. Got the stuff for SN protocol only to have them ghost me at the end. It sucks.

 

[MyTimeIsUp]

I understand your frustration, but at the same time he is entitled to back out whenever he feels, right up to the very last second. Even if he expressed hatred for those that do back out, he is still entitled to do so. It is his decision and the end of the day, and no one else's. You can't go into this assuming a person *100%* won't back out - there is always a chance. Always. Be mindful of that fact, and respect that decision, and perhaps try to understand?

Personally, I don't understand having a partner, but I do understand wanting someone there with you, but unfortunately that's not the reality of the situation, we're talking about suicide here.

It is incredibly dangerous to have someone with you - have you thought about what could go wrong?

It is a very personal and private decision to make, and if one of you survives, you'll be going to prison for murder. You don't know what could go wrong. It is way too risky.

I would *never* *ever* have someone with me, because I would not want someone to go to prison for murder - it doesn't matter which way you look at it - the law will never accept it, unfortunately.

Just my opinion.