Discussion Parents are responsible for what happens to their kids

[fkyou]

Parents are responsible for what happens to their kids. If they doomed them with shit genes like ADHD and autism you don't have the right to have high expectations on your kid when they grow up. If they get bullied constantly in social settings and don't know how to defend themselves/they have a "weak personality" that's your problem too because you gave them shit genes (social anxiety autism panic disorder..) or didn't mentor them. When they grow up and feel like their life is meaningless and has no value it probably is and you have no right to tell them what's the right thing to feel when you aren't them. It just seems that parents have such misplaced authority power to judge how their kids turn out when they are the ones who determined the kid's quality of life from the start from genes to wealth to location of birth...so when a kid feels they failed to secure a financial future they are right and you are not there to teach them how/what to feel or shame them for not coping with this life.you can't really come up to me when I'm in the deepest level of misery to tell me I'm being irrational and that what I think is not true.

The funny thing is when they think you ruined their egoistical family imagine and call you a retard (for having a severe mental illness),well duh IAM a retard thanks to the genes you blessed me with, completely disregarding that their genes are the cause of this. Just a complete lack of understanding of mental illness.they believe they can play Russian roulette with you and still to turn out how they desire. If someone thinks they'd rather ctb than continue this life it's your fault yeah. We didn't want to say this but you wanted to so you get what you want/give. I know how to blame too.

 

[moonmuse]

1000% i agree if parents are fcked they should not expect their kiddos to be einstien and mary curie

 

[Ligottian]

Amen! I'm fucked because of my mother's genes. Of course she was fucked because of her father's genes. I'm talking anxiety, depression. That type stuff.

 

[pomie]

this but also not even just genes, also if the parents are full on narcissists. dont have kids if youre a narc. Youre gonna give your kid a plethora of mental illnesses even without passing down genes just by failing to raise them right

 

[PropaneOctane]

This is why i'm heavily considering working on sterilizing myself in the future. I'm ace, never wanted kids, and my family's genes are immensely fucked.

 

[fkyou]

1000% i agree if parents are fcked they should not expect their kiddos to be einstien and mary curie

 

[Off_Switch]

This is 100% true, and any parents that cannot accept this, probably shouldn't have had children.

 

[davidtorez]

Amen! I'm fucked because of my mother's genes. Of course she was fucked because of her father's genes. I'm talking anxiety, depression. That type stuff.

Same here

 

[_Gollum_]

They'd still be responsible even if they gave you the best genes, because they needlessly brought you into existence in the first place, after which point the amount of suffering you can endure is endless.

 

[Off_Switch]

They'd still be responsible even if they gave you the best genes, because they needlessly brought you into existence in the first place, after which point the amount of suffering you can endure is endless.

Every news article I read that reports about population rate decline warms my heart. I am so glad to see that people are starting to wake up to the idea that existence and procreation is pointless and stupid. We should be proud of ourselves for not perpetuating this madness by creating more and more needless bloodlines of endless suffering. The human race will never improve. It will only get worse. All the unborn children that will never have to suffer send their gratitude from the future.

 

[Terrible_Life_99]

You are absolutely right! The genes a little child gets and also who his parents will be and ofc very important point how they'll raise him are so important aspects which form the personality of a human being. Many suicide scientists write about the reasons of suicide , they mention not belonging to a group, jobless, lonely, mental illness and so forth and so on but in my opinion this is probably the most important point! We couldn't decide who our parents will be, how they'll raise us etc yet our little brains when we were little children was forced to "learn" by our parents.
for example: a person is depressed and kill's himself, he's depressed because no friendships works, no partnership works and he isn't able to have a functioning career. Now lets consider the fact that this poor person has bad genes from his parents which increases the risk of getting depression and also the parents who were narcissists made him a narcissist without him wanting that and therefore because he's a narcissist none of his relationships works and his career doesn't work because he is mentally handicapped because of his family. So the actual reasons why he killed himself were his parents, their mistakes and the fatal consequences of their reckless mistakes…