Method Need help finding places to jmp

[seeookkk123!!]

So i decided i wanted to ctb by jumping. It has always been a dream of mine to fly and what better to way achieve that and my goal at the same time then to jump? Im in Southern California and i need to know a good place to jump. Any recs would be very appreciated as i want to do this as soon as i find a good spot!

 

[Lookoutbelow]

So i decided i wanted to ctb by jumping. It has always been a dream of mine to fly and what better to way achieve that and my goal at the same time then to jump? Im in Southern California and i need to know a good place to jump. Any recs would be very appreciated as i want to do this as soon as i find a good spot!

Fellow jumper here. I'm on the opposite side of the country so I can't help with finding a spot. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone with choosing jumping as your method. I have other options. I just prefer jumping. It is one of, if not the hardest method to overcome survival instinct (SI). Be prepared for extreme SI when the time comes to actually attempt. It takes most of us jumpers several attempts to actually follow through.

 

[LonelyKitten]

Can confirm, the survival instinct is much more your concern than the location.
I had over 24 hours of alone time at Beachy Head (on multiple days) and couldn't do it, even with everything taken care of in a way that made me feel complete, and knowing full-well the consequences to staying alive may be immense.

 

[zel]

So i decided i wanted to ctb by jumping. It has always been a dream of mine to fly and what better to way achieve that and my goal at the same time then to jump? Im in Southern California and i need to know a good place to jump. Any recs would be very appreciated as i want to do this as soon as i find a good spot!

I am in the same location. If you find a good location or want to go to a high up place and talk, please do not hesitate to message me.

 

[Stormy Raine]

So i decided i wanted to ctb by jumping. It has always been a dream of mine to fly and what better to way achieve that and my goal at the same time then to jump? Im in Southern California and i need to know a good place to jump. Any recs would be very appreciated as i want to do this as soon as i find a good spot!

You're close to the Golden Gate Bridge I seen a documentary on YouTube about me, the success rate is high but there was survivors! You should check it out, it's called The Bridge

 

[zel]

You're close to the Golden Gate Bridge I seen a documentary on YouTube about me, the success rate is low but there was survivors! You should check it out, it's called The Bridge

I considered that myself. The issue with most of the tall bridges in California is that they have either a) cumbersome barriers designed to stop jumpers or b) have people that look for jumpers and attempt to stop them.

 

[jessisme]

You really don't NEED help finding places to jump. You WANT help finding places to jump. It isn't fair to place the burden of telling you where you should go to commit suicide onto this community as it is aiding you in the process of taking your own life. How would you feel if you told
someone where to jump and then they went and jumped from
there and died? You are being lazy. It is your suicide, you should take it seriously enough to put in the time and do the research yourself.

 

[Stormy Raine]

I considered that myself. The issue with most of the tall bridges in California is that they have either a) cumbersome barriers designed to stop jumpers or b) have people that look for jumpers and attempt to stop them.

Oh I didn't know that. I was coming to California years ago and that was my plan to jump there. I had a job scheduled there and they canceled at the last minute so I figured it wasn't meant to be. Have you decided on a place yet? When I watched that documentary all the survivors said they immediately felt regret soon as they jumped so idk.

Fellow jumper here. I'm on the opposite side of the country so I can't help with finding a spot. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone with choosing jumping as your method. I have other options. I just prefer jumping. It is one of, if not the hardest method to overcome survival instinct (SI). Be prepared for extreme SI when the time comes to actually attempt. It takes most of us jumpers several attempts to actually follow through.

Do you have any permanent damages since you survived? If it's personal I understand. I was just curious.

 

[seeookkk123!!]

You really don't NEED help finding places to jump. You WANT help finding places to jump. It isn't fair to place the burden of telling you where you should go to commit suicide onto this community as it is aiding you in the process of taking your own life. How would you feel if you told
someone where to jump and then they went and jumped from
there and died? You are being lazy. It is your suicide, you should take it seriously enough to put in the time and do the research yourself.

when i read this after i posted i was angry. i thought you were being cruel and i felt humiliated. truth is what you told me was what i had to hear, something therapists, family, and friends couldnt nor wouldnt tell me. it hurt a lot, and now two years later i see how right you were. while this wasnt my wake up call, its something i still think about. i couldnt see it then but now i can see how wrong it was for me to ask and i really hope others can see it too one day. i dont know if youll see this but thank you. you were not my savior but a shove my weird suicidal ass needed.