I will point out that it's also as bad that men (or non-binary, etc) are not virgins, as well. At this moment, I doubt there is any difference at all between men and women psychologically with this.
I just don't see how you could have a good relationship after attaching and detaching to so many people (1+). Also, purely emotionally/instinctively, I wouldn't feel great about my wife having gotten pounded by another guy before meeting me (much less six or seven). Not that it's of any concern to me, dying a virgin and all that (I am an autistic NEET). Still, if an "experienced" woman wanted a relationship with me, I'd definitely try to fix my broken penis, get a job or education, etc. Could probably work if I used a lot of meditation/psychological tricks to get it out of my head.