my parents really love me and it's sad

[progeria]

I'm just a terrible child for my parents, All my childhood they wandered around the hospitals with me, since I have several congenital diseases and at the same time I grew up to be a capricious selfish child who does not appreciate what they have done and breaks down at them.sad look at their attempts to get me to my feet, knowing that soon I am CTB

 

[Amumu]

We're genetically programmed to love our children, not the other way around.

Most parents love their kids, most kids don't love their parents.

 

[motel rooms]

Most parents love their kids, most kids don't love their parents.

Many kids & grown-ups love their parents & desperately crave their approval even though they were failed by them...

 

[Amumu]

Many kids & grown-ups love their parents & desperately crave their approval even though they were failed by them...

If they crave their approval it means parents didn't do their job. It doesn't mean most kids love their parents, imo.

 

[motel rooms]

It doesn't mean most kids love their parents, imo.

Most teenagers don't love their parents, that's for sure

 

[FuneralCry]

I understand, I feel like I have let my parents down in many ways and they have always tried their best for me. I guess the way I see it, is that I didn't ask for this life in the first place.

 

[stygal]

I feel I let my mom down when it comes to the financial aspect - she constantly helped me get back on my feet or buy stuff for my disability and I didn't really do much with it. She wasted a lot of time/money on me. :(

 

[meetapple]

Yeah my main impediment to CTB is thinking about what it would do for my parents. My dad is a doctor with high intelligence and has done a lot for me and so has my mom.

 

[Flippy]

I worry about the effect of not being around anymore would have on my Dad. My mother did her level best to ruin any chance of a normal relationship with my Dad. It took until I was in my early 20s to fully realise what she had done and how. So yeah, I don't want to hurt my Dad and it's a constant source of worry for me, but my Mother can fuck right off.