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i feel awful for saying this but i get so frustrated and annoyed at the moments my husband is struggling. i know people will read this and think the worst of me but it's because he constantly complains but does very little to help himself. i try to help in every way i can but i always get push back and i can only take so much. i'm in grad school and working 4 part time jobs to help make ends meet every month while he works full time. i've fallen back into old habits and i hate it. i just need someone's advice. thanks for listening.
 
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Old habits? How long have you been married? Kids? Just trying to figure out of its best to cut and run or to work things out
 
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i feel awful for saying this but i get so frustrated and annoyed at the moments my husband is struggling. i know people will read this and think the worst of me but it's because he constantly complains but does very little to help himself. i try to help in every way i can but i always get push back and i can only take so much. i'm in grad school and working 4 part time jobs to help make ends meet every month while he works full time. i've fallen back into old habits and i hate it. i just need someone's advice. thanks for listening.
Honestly from an outside perspective it seems that you would have a better quality of life without him. I understand he's ur husband but it really just depends on how long you can take it before you crack too. But i do get the struggles of leaving someone you love for the sake of a better life and how hard it can be. It's really up to you and how much you can tolerate.
 
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