Discussion Morbid question - Would you prefer to murder your family members or ctb, forcing them to deal with grief?

[one.way.out]

Self-explanatory. Obviously I'd never actually murder my family, but it's crossed my mind. It would guarantee that they'd never have to deal with grief, and I'd be able to kill myself without guilt. Definitely not a pro-choice way of going about things, but I think it'd be an interesting discussion here.

 

[HappyForever?]

I'd rather let them make the choice and leave them alive. They can ctb themselves if they can't cope.

 

[Makko]

If I'm going to murder someone it won't be out of some busybody sense of compassion.

 

[Cannedbones]

I wouldn't. It's not my choice to make

 

[HenryHobkins]

It is very common reasoning that family annihilators use. I've never had this inclination so I dont really know how to examine how they really feel, but I've heard its regularly about seeking attention or seeking comfort in the fact that they are going with you. or maybe people actually believe its to bring them peace.

 

[Sra_TZ]

Regardless of how abusive or hurtful they are, their life is not in my hands. They can deal with grief, ctb themselves, forget about me or whatever they want. As @Cannedbones put it, it's not my choice to make.
~S

 

[hʚll]

i prefer killing myself, i'm sorry that they might feel pain but they brought me here and they should have known i could have died before them.

 

[Dear Agony]

No. I've never even considered that, because my mother genuinely loves life and doesn't want to die. But I have had thoughts that I'm excited for her to die just so I can CTB, as shameful as it is... I don't want her to die, that's the last thing I want in life. But I'm so desperate.

 

[NasiGoreng]

I would never murder anyone, and im pretty sure my family enjoys being alive. They know I want to ctb, so they should understand its what I want and need to find peace.

 

[Mr2005]

What a disgrace. I hate crap like this making out it's for them when it's nothing of the sort

 

[FuneralCry]

No, I would choose to ctb. Even know my family members would be sad, they do enjoy life and I think they can live perfectly fine without me. I would not even be around to see them grieving as I will no longer be existing at that point. It is not of my concern. It isn't as if I asked to be alive and suffer in the first place. The grief that others would experience is not one of the things that holds me back from ctb.