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Yaka
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- Jan 23, 2024
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I promised myself that I would not make it 6 months into this year if nothing changed - but here I am because my boyfriend said he would be here to make a change happen (he lives in another state and said he would fly over here and rent me out a house for a year, get me a car, and anything else I needed).
He promised that this change would happen and said he would be here in Feb/March but then something went wrong so he was unable to - now many months later after I pulled teeth to get an answer as to when he was actually coming or why he hasn't already he says he is too busy with two of his friends, one that was rped and another that is trying to end themselves too - I hate bringing this up to him at all but I am ready to go. I just can't deal with living like this for much longer and have had to for now just over 19 1/2 years so my whole life... he now said this time that he will be here in Nov/Dec if nothing goes wrong and now I don't know if I want to hope he goes along with this one or just leave now before I am left in this shithole empty and hurt all over again.
I would think as a GF of his I would be his priority and he knows that I am on the verge of not being around anymore but still has chosen his two friends and many businesses over my life - Am I the asshole for expecting more? I am so done I just need some outside perspective/reassurance
He promised that this change would happen and said he would be here in Feb/March but then something went wrong so he was unable to - now many months later after I pulled teeth to get an answer as to when he was actually coming or why he hasn't already he says he is too busy with two of his friends, one that was rped and another that is trying to end themselves too - I hate bringing this up to him at all but I am ready to go. I just can't deal with living like this for much longer and have had to for now just over 19 1/2 years so my whole life... he now said this time that he will be here in Nov/Dec if nothing goes wrong and now I don't know if I want to hope he goes along with this one or just leave now before I am left in this shithole empty and hurt all over again.
I would think as a GF of his I would be his priority and he knows that I am on the verge of not being around anymore but still has chosen his two friends and many businesses over my life - Am I the asshole for expecting more? I am so done I just need some outside perspective/reassurance