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MelancholyDolly
Lolita ♡ I am a human doll
- Oct 28, 2023
- 31
I never realized how much highschool forces you to socialize and now that I'm done with it I feel like I don't know how to interact with people anymore.
Since highschool I only have one friend and her little brother. I don't even have 2 friends I have my best friend and her little brother. Writing it out makes it feel so pathetic. I care about both of them very deeply though and if they were ever to leave me I wouldn't know how to keep myself going. They have friends outside of me they'd be perfectly fine but me? I have no idea how to meet new people anymore.
I don't even think I'm a very good friend. I think I'm funny but that's kind of it. I'm always worried I take the joke too far or make her uncomfortable, or if she secretly hates my guts and is talking shit about me with her other friends. I wouldn't blame her but it hurts to think about.
I've been thinking about making friends by paying for classes in hobbies I'm interested in learning, like knitting or sewing. But I feel kind of pathetic having to go to a place that forces me to socialize instead of being able to just do it myself like a normal person. I think deep down I still wish I was in highschool (even if I hated it).
I mean I go out and stuff pretty often, but it's just for daily things like grocery shopping or getting some steps in. I don't go out and socialize with people in my neighborhood. I don't even talk with cahiers if they try to start small talk. I just clam up around strangers and get super awkward. That's why I'm not sure about taking classes, I might just stay quiet and clam up like always and It'd just end up being a waste of money.
I don't think my best friend realizes how dependent I am on this friendship. I don't think she knows how much I care about her and I don't think she would reciprocate my feelings. I think she cares about me a lot, but I don't think she loves me the way I love her. I don't mean it in a romantic sense, but at the same time I feel really scared whenever she interacts with her other friends so maybe I am into her. I don't know. I think I'm just terrified of losing this friendship cuz it's probably the only thing keeping me alive.
Since highschool I only have one friend and her little brother. I don't even have 2 friends I have my best friend and her little brother. Writing it out makes it feel so pathetic. I care about both of them very deeply though and if they were ever to leave me I wouldn't know how to keep myself going. They have friends outside of me they'd be perfectly fine but me? I have no idea how to meet new people anymore.
I don't even think I'm a very good friend. I think I'm funny but that's kind of it. I'm always worried I take the joke too far or make her uncomfortable, or if she secretly hates my guts and is talking shit about me with her other friends. I wouldn't blame her but it hurts to think about.
I've been thinking about making friends by paying for classes in hobbies I'm interested in learning, like knitting or sewing. But I feel kind of pathetic having to go to a place that forces me to socialize instead of being able to just do it myself like a normal person. I think deep down I still wish I was in highschool (even if I hated it).
I mean I go out and stuff pretty often, but it's just for daily things like grocery shopping or getting some steps in. I don't go out and socialize with people in my neighborhood. I don't even talk with cahiers if they try to start small talk. I just clam up around strangers and get super awkward. That's why I'm not sure about taking classes, I might just stay quiet and clam up like always and It'd just end up being a waste of money.
I don't think my best friend realizes how dependent I am on this friendship. I don't think she knows how much I care about her and I don't think she would reciprocate my feelings. I think she cares about me a lot, but I don't think she loves me the way I love her. I don't mean it in a romantic sense, but at the same time I feel really scared whenever she interacts with her other friends so maybe I am into her. I don't know. I think I'm just terrified of losing this friendship cuz it's probably the only thing keeping me alive.