Story Life should be easy

[miulake]

I am mid 30s Male.
After years of suffering I came to the realisation that life should be easy, like the flow of a river.
That's the only life worth living.

If it's not, if everyday is dreary or a struggle then it is a clear sign from God that life is not for you.

 

[cotton]

But what's the alternative?

Is occasional flow and mostly torrent better than nothing? Is that alternative better :/ having no choice but to face a torrent definitely makes it seem unappealing thought :/

 

[miulake]

But what's the alternative?

Is occasional flow and mostly torrent better than nothing? Is that alternative better :/ having no choice but to face a torrent definitely makes it seem unappealing thought :/

It should be mostly flow and occasional torrent.
Anything other than that is not worth it.

 

[cotton]

What are ways you create flow?

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Yes, exactly. I get that struggles and hardship and suffering appeals to people because it makes the reward seem much more worth it but my neurotype doesn't operate like that. For me, all I want is an easy life where I don't suffer nor inflict suffering upon others. I have never found hardship to be valuable and I loathe at how the world is designed to where hardship is inevitable. I don't want to perpetually "fight" and be resilient for something pointless as I'm going to be dead anyway. I want a life where nobody has to suffer

 

[WaitingPatiently]

I don't think the world is necessarily designed to induce hardship. Someone has to keep the flow moving, and it's easier when everyone helps out a little.

Of course, everyone here is struggling, (thats why we're here, isn't it?) but I try to do what needs to be done, at least enough for a trickle to keep moving downstream.

 

[pthnrdnojvsc]

Life can never be easy. you have to work constantly to feed yourself , clean , organize, and fix every damn thing , chores , take out trash, work a job, fix problems , to do lists. who thinks all that every day is easy or worth it or fun? for what reason do i have to do all this crap every day? i don't fucking want to . the only reason i do it is because i haven't killed myself yet and don't want to be homeless and this animal body is constantly hungry for food and other needs like shelter, thirst , sleep etc.

There will always be problems , things going wrong, work , chores , to do lists every day and there is no objective reason to do all that work , get old and risk extreme torture . all for nothing as we all die anyway.,

Plus there is the most fundamental law of the universe the Law of Entropy driving every system including you and your organs and cells and DNA into disorder. every thing becomes disordered breaks down . so how can life or anything in this universe ever be easy ? it can't .

But to me Death is the best thing. to me life is hell. Death / non-existence is the annihilation of hell so non-existence is the ultimate bliss the best thing by a trillion times to me

 

[miulake]

What are ways you create flow?

Don't know. That's why I am about to quit life

 

[cotton]

Are you saying flow is impossible? It would be interesting what flow looks like to different people. Even if it's just what we do to keep ourselves going and looking forward to something nice

 

[divinemistress36]

LIfe should be mostly joy if its not then its not worth it