I try to understand both sides.
I understand your mom why she's mad and "annoying."
She wants you to do something with your life.
I don't know what you're currently doing all day.
I'm guessing you're vegetating?
It's normal that your mom doesn't like it.
I also vegetate, but I lie to people around me and try to control my situation.
To put it simply, some people don't like it when someone is lazy from morning to night and doesn't do anything with their life.
Especially when it comes to a family member.
You live with your mother, so your mother has additional arguments.
Another thing is your mental state and views.
I understand you.
I understand that you don't want responsibilities because you didn't want to come into this world.
I also currently have a similar approach to life.
However, I have already given up.
I don't know what you plan in the future.
"Normal" people have a different approach to life.
They fight, so they expect the same from others.
I know this is all annoying.
I am also tired of basic duties, but I understand that other people may not like my attitude.
I currently have no goal in life, so any tasks are pointless for me.
But I'm not the most normal person in the world.
Life is a hard road that always leads to death.
Unfortunately, during this adventure you have to struggle a lot with various things.
Tasks are one of them.