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[Wantingpeace]

Not sure what to do.

Live alone and I would rather family find out as soon as possible I'm gone.

The method is sodium nitrite. I could try and send delayed message to police? But that's maybe risky?

Or I could call or email a charity that was helping me out of office hours. Possibly if i do this on a Sunday am they would get message on Monday am. I'm worried that all messages will be diverted to a pastor that maybe on duty all hours but I'm not sure if that's the case.

What do people think?

 

[Marystevenson1001]

That's a great idea to email a charity that is closed. Hmmmmm maybe I'll do that too!

 

[Wantingpeace]

That's a great idea to email a charity that is closed. Hmmmmm maybe I'll do that too!

Marlena

Maybe not though. I know they have a pastor that is possibly "on call" out of hours. If I even manage to leave message, I will be in a state. I don't think I have access to email address.

 

[Nofaith]

Could you not send a delayed text message to someone?

 

[Miss clefable]

I just want you to know that your awesome and I'm so sorry you had to go through that experience that's left you damaged for life I hope you find everlasting peace

 

[Pointlessabyss]

If you had a date set could you not arrange for a friend to come around the day after to discuss something?
Leave a note on the door warning not to enter dependant on your method and to call 911?

If you are unsuccessful for any reason wake up remove note no one is any the wiser

 

[Wantingpeace]

Could you not send a delayed text message to someone?

I can't think who..certainly not friends or family.

 

[Nofaith]

I can't think who..certainly not friends or family.

So is it a case of you want your family to find out ASAP but not directly, via a third party?

 

[Wantingpeace]

I just want you to know that your awesome and I'm so sorry you had to go through that experience that's left you damaged for life I hope you find everlasting peace

Oh thank you. As are you. But am not gone yet I maybe too scared. I just wish I didnt feel pushed to this.

 

[Wantingpeace]

So is it a case of you want your family to find out ASAP but not directly, via a third party?

Yes, that's right.

 

[Miss clefable]

Oh thank you. As are you. But am not gone yet I maybe too scared. I just wish I didnt feel pushed to this.

That's what makes it sad

 

[Nofaith]

Yes, that's right.

Oh I see that does make things a little difficult. Could I ask what country you are in?

 

[Wantingpeace]

Oh I see that does make things a little difficult. Could I ask what country you are in?

The UK.

 

[Nofaith]

The UK.

How about sending a delayed text to MIND?

 

[Wantingpeace]

How about sending a delayed text to MIND?

Yes that maybe an idea. Thanks

 

[Nofaith]

Yes that maybe an idea. Thanks

Glad I could help, just in case
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/helplines/text-service-faqs/#HowdoIcontact

 

[Caustic Cardinals]

or you know certified letter

 

[RacilyDank]

Not sure what to do.

Live alone and I would rather family find out as soon as possible I'm gone.

The method is sodium nitrite. I could try and send delayed message to police? But that's maybe risky?

Or I could call or email a charity that was helping me out of office hours. Possibly if i do this on a Sunday am they would get message on Monday am. I'm worried that all messages will be diverted to a pastor that maybe on duty all hours but I'm not sure if that's the case.

What do people think?

Look, you need to think carefully about this. I know how you feel, I live alone and it will only be when I'm not answering my phone/replying to messages that anyone will check. So potentially days/weeks.

What you need to consider is...

• If someone sees it. You end up being rescued and potentially brain/organ damage and/or in a psych ward.

• If you fail. As above.

• If you back out. You can't unsend it and you end up in a psych ward.

I can tell you from experience, having failed a serious attempt, it's not easy.

Exercise caution. And best of luck, if this is what you really want.

 

[Wantingpeace]

Look, you need to think carefully about this. I know how you feel, I live alone and it will only be when I'm not answering my phone/replying to messages that anyone will check. So potentially days/weeks.

What you need to consider is...

• If someone sees it. You end up being rescued and potentially brain/organ damage and/or in a psych ward.

• If you fail. As above.

• If you back out. You can't unsend it and you end up in a psych ward.

I can tell you from experience, having failed a serious attempt, it's not easy.

Exercise caution. And best of luck, if this is what you really want.

I doubt I'll end up in psych ward.

Do you have a plan or just wait until people start to get worried?