I wasn't a planned child but I could have guessed it already. Just another reason to add to the list as to why I'm where I am in my fucking life.
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Warlock
- Jul 13, 2018
- 721
Embrace your existence. For better or worst.
Even those that were planned were forced to be born by reckless parents who only wanted to get their kink on. We're all unwanted mistakes and I'm sorry you have to go through such a process.
I was planned, and it doesn't make me feel an iota better.
That's me after being born. :p
That's me after being born. :p
TheGoodGuy
Visionary
- Aug 27, 2018
- 2,999
littlelungs
Wizard
- Oct 21, 2018
- 634
I was planned, and it doesn't make me feel an iota better.
That's me after being born. :p
LOL, the gif. I get that. I was planned, too, and whenever I remember that I just think... wtf? Why? How in the living mother of balls could my parents look at me and think, "Gee, that was a great idea. That plan worked out REALLY WELL." Not.
Angst Filled Fuck Up
Visionary
- Sep 9, 2018
- 2,982
Broken condom baby checking in.
Deafsn0w
I will buy you a dog if you like my posts
- Sep 4, 2018
- 2,488
I wasn't planned. My mom had me at 40. i found out about this when i was 13. She told me that she took birth control pills and had sex with my dad
VincentValentine
Student
- Sep 27, 2018
- 145
Me too. My mom had me at around 40 and my parents weren't even married. I only met my dad once. My mom told me she actually thought about aborting me, but someone else convinced her not to (I wish she wouldn't have listened).
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Prime
A Nihilist
- Oct 25, 2018
- 210
Being planned doesn't help either
worldexploder
Visionary
- Sep 19, 2018
- 2,821
Life sucks planned or not. But they did plan to carry you to term.
Sorry to hear that. To be fair, many kids aren't planned at this day and age.
I think most of us were a surprise. I know all of my Dad's six children were. For what it's worth, I don't think being an unplanned birth is inherent to an unhappy life.
worldexploder
Visionary
- Sep 19, 2018
- 2,821
I'm sorry these revelations caused you so much pain. I guess I see things differently when it comes to my personal life. I'm angry that my biomom carried me to term. My dad was wanting her to get an abortion. I'm 2015 he formally apologized to me for impregnating her and not pushing hard enough for the abortion. That was one of the best things he ever told me.
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That's some powerful honesty on his behalf.
worldexploder
Visionary
- Sep 19, 2018
- 2,821
Thank you. I really respect the man for saying that.
I respect him for saying it and you for listening. Bittersweet in a way, to be told the truth, yet have it be so terribly sad.
sadak_the_wanderer
An appropriate painting
- Mar 19, 2018
- 245
I was sort of planned. I was a replacement for another child who died earlier. When I say replacement, I mean they gave me the same name.
ctoan
Arcanist
- Sep 30, 2018
- 437
i feel sorry for you guys
i was planned and it was definitely just a coincidence my parents got married 7month before my birth
i was planned and it was definitely just a coincidence my parents got married 7month before my birth
Maravillosa
Господи помилуй — мир в Україні!
- Sep 7, 2018
- 689
I think my mother wanted to conceive me: my father, probably not so much. However, he did the responsible thing and married my mother once she discovered she was pregnant -- but I think he resented her a bit for getting pregnant in the first place.
My farther tried kill my mother when he found out and began searching for her but never found her
