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JustSwingingTheD
Experienced
- Jan 31, 2022
- 204
As a man, I have had the displeasure of knowing some mentally ill, toxic female individuals in my life. I'm talking about cluster B personality disorders. Some of these people can even be dangerous to be around for people who are not aware of the danger. Ive suffered more physical and mental violence coming from men, but usually it has been more or less "competitive" by nature. Violence coming from these women has had a more personal, sadistic tone to it.
Narcissistic personality disorders often manifest themselves very differently between different sexes. Yet deep down they are all the same regardless of gender, show any weakness and they will bite down like rabid dogs, with zero pity. These people, men or women, often appear highly masculine/feminine and often secretly despise the opposite sex. They are not interested about getting over the "mental gap" between genders. In fact, people managing to look past gender makes their tricks less effective on them and people who do are probably seen as a threat.
I have a theory that these people seldom reveal themselves at their worst when amongst their own gender. They might seem like "allright" even to people who think they know them intimately. So i suspect that most men (at least me), are actually far less aware of what "male crazy" looks like, than what "female crazy" looks like, and vice versa when it comes to women. There is of course also the fact that relationships between straight members of the same sex rarely get as intimate as between members of different genders.
This would sure explain a lot about the huge tensions that exist whenever discussing issues involving gender. Neither party has really experienced members of their own sex at their worst.
Narcissistic personality disorders often manifest themselves very differently between different sexes. Yet deep down they are all the same regardless of gender, show any weakness and they will bite down like rabid dogs, with zero pity. These people, men or women, often appear highly masculine/feminine and often secretly despise the opposite sex. They are not interested about getting over the "mental gap" between genders. In fact, people managing to look past gender makes their tricks less effective on them and people who do are probably seen as a threat.
I have a theory that these people seldom reveal themselves at their worst when amongst their own gender. They might seem like "allright" even to people who think they know them intimately. So i suspect that most men (at least me), are actually far less aware of what "male crazy" looks like, than what "female crazy" looks like, and vice versa when it comes to women. There is of course also the fact that relationships between straight members of the same sex rarely get as intimate as between members of different genders.
This would sure explain a lot about the huge tensions that exist whenever discussing issues involving gender. Neither party has really experienced members of their own sex at their worst.