Discussion Is this my life?

[BornToFail]

I was talking to this woman and she seemed to like me. She then told me my laugh and that me moving around and stimming was annoying. I was so hurt. Because she just said it so calmly.

 

[FuneralCry]

After all people can be unpredictable, you cannot rely on them and that is just the reality. I think that being around other people very often just leads to more problems.

 

[SunnysSunset]

There's nothing wrong with stimming and she's messed up for what she did. Sorry you had to go through that

 

[BornToFail]

After all people can be unpredictable, you cannot rely on them and that is just the reality. I think that being around other people very often just leads to more problems.

This honestly made me feel at ease. Thank you. I just tried to talk to people more because everyone says it is a good thing. I need to learn to live life by myself and not rely on people. It is just so hard when society engrains in you that you must have so many friends and if you don't you're a loser.

 

[spinningship]

So some loser thinks something about you big deal. Doesn't mean there aren't good apples out there who will look past superficial bullshit. I stim hard in public and honestly couldn't give two what some strange thinks of me. You should be thankful you have such an easy filter for people with no tolerance for difference.

 

[BornToFail]

So some loser thinks something about you big deal. Doesn't mean there aren't good apples out there who will look past superficial bullshit. I stim hard in public and honestly couldn't give two what some strange thinks of me. You should be thankful you have such an easy filter for people with no tolerance for difference.

you're absolutely right. I just need to acquire the skill of not giving a fuck what others think. It is just hard for me, man.

 

[spinningship]

you're absolutely right. I just need to acquire the skill of not giving a fuck what others think. It is just hard for me, man.

Reading that back it sounds harsher than I meant it to be. I didn't mean to sound like I was putting you down for feeling like that. Most people don't have to develop these skills, they are just treated like people and with respect for existing. Just remember it says more about them than it does about you.

 

[BornToFail]

Reading that back it sounds harsher than I meant it to be. I didn't mean to sound like I was putting you down for feeling like that. Most people don't have to develop these skills, they are just treated like people and with respect for existing. Just remember it says more about them than it does about you.

Noo, I'm sorry. It actually helped me. I didn't offend me at all.