Venting Is there such thing as destiny or fate?

[Darkdreamer001]

I'm just wondering what people think about why some people seem to suffer and no matter how hard they try it seems like it was just meant to be that way and the pain will not go away. Some people seem to have good luck and don't have to try at all as if the Universe just gives them what they want effortlessly. I don't understand why everything seems backwards.

 

[Midnight]

As far as i'm concerned it's all chance and what you choose to do yourself with what you have/are. I believe there is no such thing as a predestined "fate". Needless to say i'm not religious either.

 

[Darkdreamer001]

As far as i'm concerned it's all chance and what you choose to do yourself with what you have/are. I believe there is no such thing as a predestined "fate". Needless to say i'm not religious either.

That makes sense. So basically you believe in coincidences...For example when 2 people meet and fall in love it was just a coincidence that they were at the right place at the right time.