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Prepfortheend

Prepfortheend

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Jan 22, 2025
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When I ctb I'm planning to have notes dedicated to the people I love. Specifically my little siblings so that when they grow up they will understand. Should I do this or is it better to leave one note? I'm planning to ctb in a hotel room so will they even get to my family?
 
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kitia973

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Maybe try with email? Or just compile all the notes into a big document, and send them to all your loved ones.
 
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NoPoint2Life

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When I ctb I'm planning to have notes dedicated to the people I love. Specifically my little siblings so that when they grow up they will understand. Should I do this or is it better to leave one note? I'm planning to ctb in a hotel room so will they even get to my family?
Not weird at all.
I'm sure they will eventually get to family, probably quickly but I've always been a bit worried about police taking it since I think death automatically gets looked into. Better to go with a scheduled email if you can. Or do both.
 
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I don't think leaving multiple notes is a bad idea. I think your siblings will appreciate it someday.
 
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Prepfortheend

Prepfortheend

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Jan 22, 2025
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Maybe try with email? Or just compile all the notes into a big document, and send them to all your loved ones.
If I was to write them all and put them into a folder would that suffice
I don't think leaving multiple notes is a bad idea. I think your siblings will appreciate it someday.
My sisters are 5&6 and my brother is 8 so they won't fully understand. I want to right notes for when they turn 18
Not weird at all.
I'm sure they will eventually get to family, probably quickly but I've always been a bit worried about police taking it since I think death automatically gets looked into. Better to go with a scheduled email if you can. Or do both.
Okay I'll try an email as well
 
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Forever Sleep

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I think that's a lovely idea. It comforted me when people left me notes after (natural) death.

Not so sure on where to put them though. I've heard notes don't always get passed on to loved ones. Being kept as 'evidence' or something ridiculous. So, if I were you, I think I would either make copies and instruct people where to find them in a main note left at the hotel. Or, as others have said- send a delayed email. More tricky with the staggered notes though I'd imagine.
 
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Boots2Scoots

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Jan 23, 2025
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That's the same way I'd want to do it. Notes for each person because I do care deeply about them. Even if I'm gone, I want them to individually know how much each of them mean to me and why they mean that much.

The last thing I'd ever want is loved ones feeling guilty. Like they could've stopped it.
 
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mango000

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this isnt weird at all, i think its a lovely idea. i think your siblings will appreciate it one day :heart:
 
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