is being ugly is enough of a reason to CTB?

[SoverignDreamer97]

I dunno...



1. "You cannot please everyone; control the things you can control." ~Suncha Ferreira (Victus Group)/Mark 8:36, Matthew 13:12

2. The grass withers, the flowers fade, because the breath of the Lord blows upon it; surely the people are grass.
The grass withers, the flowers fade, but the word of our God stands forever. (Isaiah 40:7-8)

3. The world hates liabilities, and would rather they not exist, as much as the rules dictate that all life is inherently valuable. (Proverbs 25:17)

• Even in a community of liabilities, there is no place for a liability. (John 15:18)

Therefore, as much as I desire to live, and that a world without me would be awfully dull and grey, this isn't up to me; if I die, I die; though my father, mother, and the whole world forsake me, the Lord will bring me up. (Esther 4:11, Psalm 27:10)

 

[HopeIess]

women don't experience attraction the way men do so looks are less important for men than a lot of men realise.

bs, go in any big city and see yourself in real life how much women like those guys who are 6ft 3 with perfectly shaped jaw and cheekbones, or you can do the same on the internet, go on some attratctive dude titktok account and look up the comments.

Some men get rich in order to access that lifestyle.

they get rich but they will never experience the real attratction a good looking dude can enjoy; they are always gonna be some ugly dude with money, maybe they are gonna have a gl gf but she will never be physically attracted to them, maybe she gonna love them, but she is definitely not looking at him and feeling drawn to their ugly face.

No one has a good personality when they're constantly reminded how ugly and horrible they look

Exactly, lol, it's like a kind of Matthew effect: gl people have a good personality cause they are treated good (so they become even more attractive), ugly people get even more bitter and more resentful cause they are treated like trash (and they become less and less appealing)

if you have been treated like trash during your teenage years, how the hell can u develop a good personality after all of that
ppl act like you can change your personality without any effort just by wanting to... it doenst work like that unfortunately

 

[Thisiscertainlyause]

I doubt I'm saying anything that hasn't been said but, while pretty privilege is obviously real, being ugly is one subjective, two not the biggest deal, if you look around online, in your own life ect, I'm sure you can find instances of people that seem wildly different in looks but in a relationship. It sounds like bullshit, I know, but it really is more about self confidence and who you meet rather than looks. I am below average in how I look, and I got into a relationship, hell it was while I was depressed, not looking after myself, teeth were shit, face not looked after ect. but it didn't impact that relationship at all; I'm sure you've heard this alot, but the only thing you can do is try, ask people out, try to gain that confidence, will it suck? yeah, will you get rejected? probably a few times! but that's normal, some people will be asses about it, some won't. It isn't easy to not live up to beauty standards, and some people will treat you differently, but if you want to live otherwise, I wouldn't let it stop you. I hope this helps in some way