Lost Magic
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- May 5, 2020
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There is a great community out there btw https://www.stophavingkids.org/who-we-are
Take a look and see what they represent.
Take a look and see what they represent.
Agree!I would've rather been aborted tbh. The life I live and had lived is nothing but pain. I hate who I am as a whole. The world is too hard and too cruel. I do not know much about my father and I cut contact with my mother. I have nobody. I don't even know how to navigate life on my own. I feel embarrassed being an adult and not knowing how to be one.
Same here..my words exactly. Both dead now..should have sued them for all the shit I've been dealt.I resent my parents, not for being born, but for them having children, when they definitely weren't equipped to take care of us.
They successfully fucked up 4/4 kids. They should not have had children.
Most of our parents have no fault for our being unhappy (the majority, some are to blame), but it seems amazing to me that there are people who are angry with their parents for conceiving them. Like ¿How are your parents going to ask you if do you want to be born? The circumstances of the world aren't your parents' fault either. Instead of looking for causes of your unhappiness, try to improve your life (If it is the case that your parents were not responsible of that)
Bro if you don't like your parents and just want someone to blame, just say it. You only see the bad things of the world, ¿what about the good things? I'm sorry if your parents aren't that great, but blaming someone for bringing you to life is just childish. Some people want kids to make them happy, others don't. But that doesn't mean every parent is bad or every parent is good, we just need to focus on the good, not like you that only wants to blame every single person of the earthCan't believe the lengths some people go to to defend them. The circumstances of the world aren't the fault of parents? I would argue they very much are, collectively speaking anyway. There is no world without parents, the human world anyway-which is arguably crueller than even the natural world. And they know physical illnesses exist, and pain and suffering, and depression. They are absolutely more at fault than someone who doesn't have kids. And saying we should look to improve our lives assumes there's even anything to get out of life-which to some of us there absolutely isn't. Life itself is the cause of my unhappiness and whose fault is that? Oh yeah mum and dad.
How about people who want to be parents try and improve their life instead of having kids? Find something other than procreating to fill the void, get therapy to help them deal with life without inflicting it on others. Oh yeah that'll never happen. I don't understand why most of us are told to do therapy and this and that and yet parents can create life to try and distract themselves and fix all their problems-and fail miserably at it.
Accusing others of being childish, aside from being a form of ad hominem and appeal to authority fallacies, is often a childish act in itself. Your claim seems to rely on the assumption that you are more mature or adult-like, thereby invalidating others' perspectives based on your perceived authority of age or maturity.blaming someone for bringing you to life is just childish.
It indeed is.the human world anyway-which is arguably crueller than even the natural world.
My parents were fine, that's not the point, it's not about parental skills. I just fundamentally disagree with having an 80 year experience foisted on me by others. I don't only see the bad, but suffering is part of life, which no one gets to agree to. Fine if you're ok with that I guess (although why you would be is beyond me) I've seen too many people suffer horribly. Why wouldn't you prevent that if you could? And at the end of it all we just go back to non-existence so even if you enjoyed it you know it'll all be taken away from you in the end. If I could happily ignore all the suffering in the world I probably wouldn't have ended up on this website...Bro if you don't like your parents and just want someone to blame, just say it. You only see the bad things of the world, ¿what about the good things? I'm sorry if your parents aren't that great, but blaming someone for bringing you to life is just childish. Some people want kids to make them happy, others don't. But that doesn't mean every parent is bad or every parent is good, we just need to focus on the good, not like you that only wants to blame every single person of the earth
Same here to all of thisI'm mad at them for bringing me into existence without my consent, into a world where I eventually will have to become a wageslave just to survive. Life is slavery and work is modern day slavery. I'm angry about the fact that I didn't get a choice. I didn't even get the right to decline or say no; it happened against my will