jenny6391bubbles

jenny6391bubbles

a hikikomori waiting to catch the bus
Mar 1, 2021
93
I just got tested today and I'm HIV negative! I was so scared I'd get HIV from the guy that assaulted me. I'm glad I'm clean.

Now, I have to check for HPV next. I'll probably get it checked during the Christmas break or will schedule it with my mom's next pap smear.
 
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Adûnâi

Adûnâi

Little Russian in-cel
Apr 25, 2020
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Grats! I hope no supergonorrhea either (I'm sorry, my knowledge of STDs is shallow).
 
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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
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That's great news! 🫂
I hope the HPV test comes clean as well. I'm so sorry you were assaulted, I can't imagine how traumatic that must be, physically and mentally...
I hope you're getting good support for that. May that man lead a painful and horrible life for what he did to you, absolute scum of the earth.
 
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jenny6391bubbles

jenny6391bubbles

a hikikomori waiting to catch the bus
Mar 1, 2021
93
That's great news! 🫂
I hope the HPV test comes clean as well. I'm so sorry you were assaulted, I can't imagine how traumatic that must be, physically and mentally...
I hope you're getting good support for that. May that man lead a painful and horrible life for what he did to you, absolute scum of the earth.
I'm not his only victim. I tried to expose him online and a victim messaged me. She tried to tell him to stop because it was painful but he said he didn't care…
 
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qw3rty259

Experienced
Jun 19, 2023
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I'm not his only victim. I tried to expose him online and a victim messaged me. She tried to tell him to stop because it was painful but he said he didn't care…
That's horrible. Is it some guy from your town or something?

Glad you're ok.
 
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nattys5thtoenail

nattys5thtoenail

goofball
Oct 6, 2024
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Congratulations!! And I'm sorry you were assaulted, rapists are just another type of scum and I think they deserve 0 happiness in life. I hope he is plagued with guilt and anxiety for all the fucked up shit he's done until he rots in a grave.
 
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Lady Laudanum

Lady Laudanum

Pursuing recovery seriously, Godspeed
May 9, 2024
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I'm just wondering, have you filed a police report already? Is this guy known to be HIV positive and not taking medication for it, or did he say to you or anyone else that he had HIV? If he is and he's purposely trying to spread the disease to people, he need to be put behind bars.

I know that making a police report and everything can seem daunting, almost insurmountable. And I know that it's not guaranteed to work out. But if there are multiple victims already, you should try your best to do something. It can retraumatize you and I understand if you can't do it or give up, but I hope you can try your best.
 
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jenny6391bubbles

a hikikomori waiting to catch the bus
Mar 1, 2021
93
That's horrible. Is it some guy from your town or something?

Glad you're ok.
He is in my city, but on the other edge of town so a lower chance of seeing him. He does like to linger around bars and places he knows he can pick up young college girls like me (only found out AFTER i cut him off btw, wish i found out earlier...), so he's a pretty nasty and disgusting man.

ngl i wish there was a website for exposing rapists like him because he knows so many lawyers and knows his fraternity (one of the biggest in my country) will protect him. i hope he dies a slow and horrible death honestly...
I'm just wondering, have you filed a police report already? Is this guy known to be HIV positive and not taking medication for it, or did he say to you or anyone else that he had HIV? If he is and he's purposely trying to spread the disease to people, he need to be put behind bars.

I know that making a police report and everything can seem daunting, almost insurmountable. And I know that it's not guaranteed to work out. But if there are multiple victims already, you should try your best to do something. It can retraumatize you and I understand if you can't do it or give up, but I hope you can try your best.
The other victim is also HIV free, so I'm assuming he's not (yet) HIV positive. He might get it from a future partner if he's not careful enough.

He did use the same lie with us, saying his previous partner was a doctor so therefore he's clean. What we don't know is if he has HPV, something that can cause cervical cancer in women.

I don't want to file a police report now (healing from other sorts of trauma also), but if the other victim is willing to go with me to file a report, then we will. Last I heard from her, she's collecting evidence of their chats.
 
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Ferdinand Bardamu

Ferdinand Bardamu

No Future For Democracy
Feb 22, 2024
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Glad you're OK
 
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OnlyOneSolution

OnlyOneSolution

Longing for death = not enjoying life.
Oct 26, 2024
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I'm not his only victim. I tried to expose him online and a victim messaged me. She tried to tell him to stop because it was painful but he said he didn't care…
Time to bring in the police and get that scumbag off the streets.
 
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