That's horrible. Is it some guy from your town or something?
Glad you're ok.
He is in my city, but on the other edge of town so a lower chance of seeing him. He does like to linger around bars and places he knows he can pick up young college girls like me (only found out AFTER i cut him off btw, wish i found out earlier...), so he's a pretty nasty and disgusting man.
ngl i wish there was a website for exposing rapists like him because he knows so many lawyers and knows his fraternity (one of the biggest in my country) will protect him. i hope he dies a slow and horrible death honestly...
I'm just wondering, have you filed a police report already? Is this guy known to be HIV positive and not taking medication for it, or did he say to you or anyone else that he had HIV? If he is and he's purposely trying to spread the disease to people, he need to be put behind bars.
I know that making a police report and everything can seem daunting, almost insurmountable. And I know that it's not guaranteed to work out. But if there are multiple victims already, you should try your best to do something. It can retraumatize you and I understand if you can't do it or give up, but I hope you can try your best.
The other victim is also HIV free, so I'm assuming he's not (yet) HIV positive. He might get it from a future partner if he's not careful enough.
He did use the same lie with us, saying his previous partner was a doctor so therefore he's clean. What we don't know is if he has HPV, something that can cause cervical cancer in women.
I don't want to file a police report now (healing from other sorts of trauma also), but if the other victim is willing to go with me to file a report, then we will. Last I heard from her, she's collecting evidence of their chats.