Reflection

Reflection

Lost
Sep 12, 2024
213
I kind of find it surreal how I haven't gone through with my planned attempt earlier this week, but what happened gave me a boost of hope to try and turn things around in a healthy way.

I still miss my ex girlfriend like crazy everyday, and thinking about her being with someone else hurts like hell. A future with her is all I wish for and so I'm gonna do all I can to improve things and be someone she wants again and feels safe and happy with...I know I can do this.
 
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TheLastGreySky

TheLastGreySky

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Nov 24, 2023
352
You can absolutely do this.
I don't want to patronize you telling my story but I will say this, whatever's meant to be will be.
Sometimes you think you have the greatest person in the world... But even if it takes 100 years you're going to realize there's someone better out there for you. You can lose 100 years in your tears or you can make sure not to lose a single day choosing misery.

You're capable of great things.
Take a step forward when you're ready.
You got this and if you need someone to message I'm here.
 
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wayn

wayn

orange cats are so cute
Oct 3, 2024
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You can do it, keep it up!
 
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disjectamembra

disjectamembra

the universe is going to catch you
Oct 1, 2024
56
hey man youve got this. everything will work out for you. nothing is impossible and youre strong. take care
 
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Reflection

Reflection

Lost
Sep 12, 2024
213
You can absolutely do this.
I don't want to patronize you telling my story but I will say this, whatever's meant to be will be.
Sometimes you think you have the greatest person in the world... But even if it takes 100 years you're going to realize there's someone better out there for you. You can lose 100 years in your tears or you can make sure not to lose a single day choosing misery.

You're capable of great things.
Take a step forward when you're ready.
You got this and if you need someone to message I'm here.
I know that you mean well, but after a year of this I've already reached a point where it's final, so many people out there but it's not the same and I've come to accept it for what it is. Though thank you for your encouraging words.
 
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James Sunderland

James Sunderland

"In my restless dreams, I see that town…"
Oct 6, 2024
66
Hey, I remember seeing your earlier post, and it's really cool to see you here now with this new boost of hope.

It takes so much strength to make that kind of turn. I know how hard it can be when you miss someone so deeply, and it makes sense that you'd want to work on things for the future. Just remember to take care of yourself along the way, becoming the person you want to be, first and foremost. You're on the right path, and you've got this.

- Much love, James Sunderland himself (possibly)
 

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