NSFW I'm embarrased to post this, but I have to get it off my chest.

[JustAnotherSadMan]

I'm gonna use humor to get through this to make myself feel better and lighten up the post a bit. I am gonna spill my guts out on here because my therapist yaps through our sessions sometimes, so maybe I will delete this in the future. I am the opposite of what most most women in my country like, physically speaking. My height is 5'6, which is a bummer. This doesn't bother me nearly as much as it used to, but it hurts when combined with what I hate about my body the most, my dick is small(it's okay, you can laugh). I am not super fucked with a micropenis, but it's small enough that I am inferior to most of my competition in dating. I was unfortunately exposed to porn at a young age, and that habit has stuck. I am aware that porn warps your view of dating and relationships, but I think saying it doesn't matter is true. I am scared to try dating because almost every story online about women who get with someone who is small basically ends with something like "That was sad, maybe I'll have better luck next time." I think I am a decent looking, but the thought of being this disappointing to someone is overwhelming. I don't want to put in all the effort of courting someone I like just to be a disappointment to them. I want to be loved romantically, but I doubt I deserve it. If you made it to the end of my sob story, thanks for reading.

 

[Regen]

But I didn't do any of that... I'm now regretting just having commented on this thread. My reply to OP's comment was very caring and focused on the importance of feeling good about himself, not worrying too much, pornography, etc. I feel like you picked 1 sentence and just entered a completely different tangent which doesn't reflect what I think nor what I said.

I'm feeling quite defeated now as I've tried countless times to showcase my point but you're still putting words in my mouth that I didn't say. I won't engage any longer. If you feel like you have a message to the OP, please feel free to reply to him, just don't engage more with me please. Today I really can't take it, I'm sorry, just please let me be.

Wow, I am very impressed with how respectfully and yet clearly you defend your point of view and your boundaries. I agree with you absolutely, your original post was very caring, you put a lot of effort into writing it and I only see friendly affection here. Taking your sentence out of context and applying it to a social discussion has nothing to do with you! It's another person's trigger and you are just the trigger, don't accept the anger, don't get further entangled in discussions but protect yourself. I enjoyed reading your post, it was good for me to feel that there are other people "out there" who have different values. Thanks for that!

 

[EmptyEater]

If I was in a situation where my partner loves me but isn't satisfied with me sexually, I would most likely either intentionally sabotage the relationship or just CTB because I'd rather be alone than with someone I can not please.

You do understand that sexually satisfying someone in a relationship takes time, exploration and communication of preferences right?

Porn pushes for standards that are out of touch with reality and often fucking painful, annoying or just ridiculous. Guys that only know sex through porn often buy into the bs and grill themselves into helplessness all by themselves.