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suffering

Too p*ssy to end it, too suicidal to leave
Aug 17, 2018
398
Suppose you would receive quality free treatment. Would you accept it?
 
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TheDarkness

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Apr 8, 2018
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I don't know honestly I feel like there is too much flight or fight in me that I would as I'm more just passively suicidal
 
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Robbyna

Robbyna

Student
Mar 6, 2019
182
Not to offend anyone who is ill, but I would be so happy to know for certain my death was coming soon and I would not have the guilt of suicide. I would not seek treatment and instead would live out my final days joyfully.
 
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deathenvoy

Experienced
Mar 29, 2019
215
N is my treatment.
 
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Alchemist

Alchemist

Warlock
Apr 3, 2019
709
Not really, at most just get some treatment to reduce pain and be as comfortable as possible.
 
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barny

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Jun 17, 2019
80
If its terminal ie terminal cancer then treatment like chemo would only make you ill and prolong things so no i wouldnt
 
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TimeToDie

Mage
Jun 13, 2019
521
Not really, at most just get some treatment to reduce pain and be as comfortable as possible.
Me too. The terminally ill get palliative care at least and (almost) nobody thinks they are crazy for wanting suicide.
 
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Soul

Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
4,704
I've rejected some treatments and accepted others. My illness doesn't offer a good death, which is why I'm shopping for a way out. In the meantime I want to be as comfortable as possible.
 
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Jolene40

Specialist
Oct 6, 2018
370
Not to offend anyone who is ill, but I would be so happy to know for certain my death was coming soon and I would not have the guilt of suicide. I would not seek treatment and instead would live out my final days joyfully.

You wouldn't if in abject physical torture that was prolonged and hell on earth
 
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Bärchen

Bärchen

Distracting myself through Life
Apr 7, 2019
202
I dont know, but i often think about it.
I guess i would calculate how much money i need till i die and stop working when i have reached that amount.
After that i spend all time with my cats, videogames and unhealthy stuff :happy:
 
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Egddios

Egddios

Specialist
Oct 27, 2018
395
I still think some or most mental health conditions can be or should be considered terminal, especially considering the lack of adequate care mental health patients receive in general.

I wish right to die legislation applied to those of us with mental health conditions who sincerely don't want to suffer and would prefer a peaceful death.
 
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Robbyna

Robbyna

Student
Mar 6, 2019
182
You wouldn't if in abject physical torture that was prolonged and hell on earth
I would not seek treatment even if I was in pain, but that's just me. As I said I don't want to offend anyone or belittle anyone's suffering by saying I wouldn't seek treatment. It's just the truth for me. That's how much I want to die. I would not take any treatment that would prolong my life.
 
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Crematedashes

Member
Jun 19, 2019
49
I would seek out physician assisted suicide as it's legal in my state for the terminally ill. It would be a dream come true. I've longed for a terminal illness for a very long time.
 
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laila888

laila888

Member
Jun 15, 2019
28
It depends which disease it is. I know that for cancer f.e. I would not seek treatment.
 
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TimeToDie

Mage
Jun 13, 2019
521
I still think some or most mental health conditions can be or should be considered terminal, especially considering the lack of adequate care mental health patients receive in general.

Mental health treatment certainly leaves much to be desired, but even the best treatment still fails in some cases. Those who oppose assisted suicide & euthanasia either live in some fantasy land where meds and therapy magically work each & every time without exception or they damn well know they can fail but don't fucking care how much those failed patients suffer.
 
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suffering

suffering

Too p*ssy to end it, too suicidal to leave
Aug 17, 2018
398
It depends which disease it is. I know that for cancer f.e. I would not seek treatment.
Is cancer easier to endure than other terminal diseases? I have been wondering about this and I'm afraid to google cases and opinions. I know Freddie Mercury died of AIDS and it looks like he suffered a lot :(
 
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inconsequential

inconsequential

Enlightened
Jun 1, 2019
1,011
No. Palliative care only, and then N time when I get the "you have 6 months" talk.
 
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Soul

Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
4,704
I would not seek treatment even if I was in pain, but that's just me. As I said I don't want to offend anyone or belittle anyone's suffering by saying I wouldn't seek treatment. It's just the truth for me. That's how much I want to die. I would not take any treatment that would prolong my life.

You wouldn't accept palliative treatment? Not trying to be confrontational but saying you would refuse treatment even if you were in pain is different from refusing treatment that would prolong your life.

I get what you mean about the theoretical appeal of a terminal illness, but I'm pretty sure there are some illnesses you wouldn't be happy to have. They don't kill you fast enough; they're direly uncomfortable but you don't get morphine or anything good like that; your independence and dignity are steadily eroded. It can be pretty fucking far from all right - just like life.
 
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Robbyna

Robbyna

Student
Mar 6, 2019
182
You wouldn't accept palliative treatment? Not trying to be confrontational but saying you would refuse treatment even if you were in pain is different from refusing treatment that would prolong your life.

I get what you mean of course, but I feel there are some illnesses you wouldn't be happy to have. They don't kill you fast enough; they're direly uncomfortable but you don't get morphine or anything good like that; your independence and dignity are steadily eroded. It can be pretty fucking far from all right.
I just want to die. If the disease would take a very long time to kill me I would accept pain medications, other than that I would just let nature take its course. I can't be wishing and hoping and praying for death and then reject it when it comes my way.
 
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GinaIsReady

GinaIsReady

Exit Strategist
Mar 29, 2019
995
I don't know honestly I feel like there is too much flight or fight in me that I would as I'm more just passively suicidal
I've not heard the term 'passively suicidal'. What does that mean?
 
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TheDarkness

Member
Apr 8, 2018
30
I've not heard the term 'passively suicidal'. What does that mean?
You have suicidal ideation but not actively pursuing to kill yourself.
It's really a brains way of finding a way to escape a very bad situation.
 
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GinaIsReady

GinaIsReady

Exit Strategist
Mar 29, 2019
995
You have suicidal ideation but not actively pursuing to kill yourself.
It's really a brains way of finding a way to escape a very bad situation.
Ah yes, I know all about this just hadn't heard the term. Thank you!
 
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Severen

Severen

Enlightened
Jun 30, 2018
1,819
Depends. If it will cause me pain and suffering before I can CTB with N, then yes. If not then what is the point in having to deal with all those doctors and specialists etc... The treatment could be painful and/or demeaning as well. Like what if you have ass cancer. I don't even want to know the treatment for that.
 
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RainAndSadness

RainAndSadness

Administrator
Jun 12, 2018
2,136
No. I think it even would give me some kind of peace. Knowing that it's gonna be soon over anyway and that there is no need to struggle anymore. I wouldn't have to worry anymore. I could let go and accept my fate. My body would do it for me and whenever it happens, it happens.
 
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TAW122

TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
6,813
No, I wouldn't because that means I would finally be able to be free from this sick, unjust, twisted world. I would however choose to have painkillers and anything to improve the quality of life in my last days, weeks, months, year(s) if need be.
 
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Sailfisher

F’ing A
Apr 19, 2019
282
Depends on the pain.
 
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Soul

gate gate paragate parasamgate bodhi svaha
Apr 12, 2019
4,704
@Severen, I edit medical journals and you're absolutely right that you don't want to know what can happen to an ass and how they deal with it. Keep it safe!
 
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Asta

Specialist
Jun 7, 2019
318
Like Farrah Fawcett? You know she had her suffering and last days video'd - not something I would do, but perhaps it helped others in some way...:/ Since there are now 10 states with a DwD law, I can't imagine not taking advantage of it (if a person lives in the U.S.)
 
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mathieu

mathieu

Enlightened
Jun 5, 2019
1,090
I would refuse treatment, I think.
 
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Broken Chimera

Broken Chimera

The abyss also gazes into you
May 27, 2019
972
I wouldn't accept anything except pain meds. I wouldn't try to prolong my "life" if you can even call it that.
 
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