If you had a condition that made you smell so bad but the condition will never go away and the smell is so strong that no one want to be around you an

[jawdropped123]

Ive already asked this question before but im feeling unwell i need to ask again. If you had a condition that made you smell so bad but the condition will never go away and the smell is so strong that no one want to be around you and you will have the condition for the rest of your life. Would you kill yourself? Please be honest i want to hard truth. I wont be offended.

 

[deletednumber]

I have already heard of this condition.
Once on TV a girl who was affected by it talked about it but despite this she had a boyfriend who loved her and they would get married.
I'm sorry you suffer from this condition, it must be very hard ... and if I had it I don't know what I would do because I would have to experience it firsthand...i know it have to be really hard,i wish there was a solution

 

[Huntfish34]

I really don't know,. I guess there's Absolutely nothing to alleviate the smell ? Depends on how bad it is if I was stuck with it for eternity

 

[FuneralCry]

I think in my case, I would want to die no matter what happens. That does sound really awful. To me it is horrifying how many health conditions exist. The human body can torture us.

 

[sharky]

Hard truth: yes

 

[YourNeighbor]

What's the condition?

Also, some people don't have a sense of smell. People also lose their sensitivity to smells over time. This doesn't seem like a truly hopeless situation.

 

[sharky]

What's the condition?

Also, some people don't have a sense of smell. People also lose their sensitivity to smells over time. This doesn't seem like a truly hopeless situation.

People without a sense of smell are rare, at least I haven't meet anyone without a sense of smell. Also i believe meeting new people would be hard because smell is something that you notice right away. In order to get desensitized from it, one would need to stick around for some time, but if the smell is off putting I guess most people would just leave.

 

[YourNeighbor]

People without a sense of smell are rare, at least I haven't meet anyone without a sense of smell. Also i believe meeting new people would be hard because smell is something that you notice right away. In order to get desensitized from it, one would need to stick around for some time, but if the smell is off putting I guess most people would just leave.

Sure, such people are rare. So are people with the condition OP notes, if they even exist (unless it's part of some terminal illness).

 

[jawdropped123]

People without a sense of smell are rare, at least I haven't meet anyone without a sense of smell. Also i believe meeting new people would be hard because smell is something that you notice right away. In order to get desensitized from it, one would need to stick around for some time, but if the smell is off putting I guess most people would just leave.

I mean if your mother reacts to it for more than ten years.. someone ive been around every single day....

What's the condition?

Also, some people don't have a sense of smell. People also lose their sensitivity to smells over time. This doesn't seem like a truly hopeless situation.

Tmau. My mother reacts to the smell for more than 10 years
Its bad and no it cant be alleviated the more smell i put on top of eachother the worst it gets

I really don't know,. I guess there's Absolutely nothing to alleviate the smell ? Depends on how bad it is if I was stuck with it for eternity

 

[YourNeighbor]

I mean if your mother reacts to it for more than ten years.. someone ive been around every single day....

Tmau. My mother reacts to the smell for more than 10 years
Its bad and no it cant be alleviated the more smell i put on top of eachother the worst it gets

Sorry to hear that you're dealing with this, it sounds truly awful. Seems like there are some steps to try to mitigate it? Also, are there communities for people with this condition? Maybe meeting others with the same condition would make it easier to connect with people. It sounds very tough.

 

[rationaltake]

Life is cruel. Only you can decide what you want to do. But nobody deserves this. So sorry.

 

[Someone123]

Ive already asked this question before but im feeling unwell i need to ask again. If you had a condition that made you smell so bad but the condition will never go away and the smell is so strong that no one want to be around you and you will have the condition for the rest of your life. Would you kill yourself? Please be honest i want to hard truth. I wont be offended.

I would but I'm already going to so it's hard to eliminate bias based on this, It would depend on if you had a way to get a quality of life that is acceptable to you. If I was very wealthy I might not, there might be a way in this case to surrond myself with enough good things to make life worth living. Some people can push themselves through tougher things than i can. But loneliness is a tough cross to bear. I do think I would move on.

 

[jawdropped123]

I would but I'm already going to so it's hard to eliminate bias based on this, It would depend on if you had a way to get a quality of life that is acceptable to you. If I was very wealthy I might not, there might be a way in this case to surrond myself with enough good things to make life worth living. Some people can push themselves through tougher things than i can. But loneliness is a tough cross to bear. I do think I would move on.

Thank you so much

 

[orange]

Honey we're all already suicidal here, yes if you worsen a suicidal person's life they will be suicidal square. I'm sure there are people with this condition out there who live reasonably happy lives.

 

[Cathy Ames]

Have you tried spending time interacting with others who have the same condition? It looks like there is at least one online community for people with TMAU. Have you been able to bring this up with your therapist yet?

RareConnect

A safe, easy to use platform where rare disease patients, families and patient organizations can develop online communities and conversations across continents and languages. RareConnect partners with the world's leading rare disease patient groups to offer global online communities allowing...

www.rareconnect.org

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

I have no sense of smell so your condition certainly would not bother me but I can understand your dilemma. I'm very sorry.

 

[Manaaja]

I knew a person in school who smelled absolutely abysmal. Like old used diapers, piss, burned tires, plus some other nasty things combined. You could literally enter a classroom and smell whether or not that person had been in the room. Her smell was so strong that the whole fucking classroom stunk the rest of the day once she had been there. If I hadn't witnessed it myself, I could have never believed anyone can smell so strongly or badly.

Well, I still befriended her even if her smell made me want to puke, though we didn't hang out outside school, but in school. That was until she started trying to make me join some stupid religion and I wasn't interested.

I wasn't her only friend either, and I really wondered how she was able to have other friends when she smelled so bad and so strongly.

If it's something like excessive sweating, it usually gets better with age. Some meds can cause smell too. And socially stressful situations.

 

[Someone123]

I heard of a case where a person didn't have this condition and then something caused it- maybe an infection or an illness, not sure. Was this something that you didn't used to have but then something happened? I do wonder if it is possible that there might be a cure for this someday.

 

[jawdropped123]

Honey we're all already suicidal here, yes if you worsen a suicidal person's life they will be suicidal square. I'm sure there are people with this condition out there who live reasonably

Have you tried spending time interacting with others who have the same condition? It looks like there is at least one online community for people with TMAU. Have you been able to bring this up with your therapist yet?

RareConnect

A safe, easy to use platform where rare disease patients, families and patient organizations can develop online communities and conversations across continents and languages. RareConnect partners with the world's leading rare disease patient groups to offer global online communities allowing...

www.rareconnect.org

Didnt bring it up with my therapist and yeah there are communitys but im so deep into this hole that i will be killing myself tomorrow

I heard of a case where a person didn't have this condition and then something caused it- maybe an infection or an illness, not sure. Was this something that you didn't used to have but then something happened? I do wonder if it is possible that there might be a cure for this someday.

I had it when i first hit puberty so around 10 all those hormonal changes you knoe

I knew a person in school who smelled absolutely abysmal. Like old used diapers, piss, burned tires, plus some other nasty things combined. You could literally enter a classroom and smell whether or not that person had been in the room. Her smell was so strong that the whole fucking classroom stunk the rest of the day once she had been there. If I hadn't witnessed it myself, I could have never believed anyone can smell so strongly or badly.

Well, I still befriended her even if her smell made me want to puke, though we didn't hang out outside school, but in school. That was until she started trying to make me join some stupid religion and I wasn't interested.

I wasn't her only friend either, and I really wondered how she was able to have other friends when she smelled so bad and so strongly.

If it's something like excessive sweating, it usually gets better with age. Some meds can cause smell too. And socially stressful situations.

I dont take meds and its not only from sweating but sweating made it worst also im a woman so yeah and im socially awkward so i dont really talk to anyone and its making me less approachable

I have no sense of smell so your condition certainly would not bother me but I can understand your dilemma. I'm very sorry.

I wish we cold be friends irl

 

[Cathy Ames]

I do wonder if it is possible that there might be a cure for this someday.

I had earlier found an article where they talked about some promising areas for developing treatments.

Treatments of trimethylaminuria: where we are and where we might be heading

Trimethylamine (TMA) is a volatile, foul-smelling, diet-derived amine, primarily generated in the colon and metabolized in the liver to its odorless N…

www.sciencedirect.com

 

[Ethereal Knight]

I respect your reason to CTB, but I ask you please do a lot of research online before making such a big decision, there may be treatments, hacks, tricks, techniques that you haven't found yet. go search in the deepest depths of the internet, read a lot and study for hours and hours. in the end it may be worth it, or you'll at least be able to say proudly that you tried.
that's my advice.

but answering your question, loneliness, social isolation, inceldom (lack of sex) and lack of romantic partners hurt and they are indeed some of the reasons I'll CTB, so yes, if I have this disorder then I guess it'd be one more reason in the list to CTB in fact. but I wouldn't necessarily do it immediately, I could wait for years, trying to have fun with other things, maybe video-games, fitness, nature, hobbies, art etc... before finally catching the bus. there are other things in life that can give pleasure and we need to be our own light, as relying on other people to make us feel less lonely is too unreliable and they'll let you down. hobbies don't let you down. you can even eventually even learn to be alone and happy.

Once on TV a girl who was affected by it talked about it but despite this she had a boyfriend who loved her and they would get married.

maybe it's probably because it was a girl? life for men is harder. we already have a hard time finding a partner if we don't have enough money, income, if we aren't tall enough, high-status enough... then dealing with that kind of disorder on top of it all is... hard.
women have a much easier time on romance and sex, no wonder why the huge majority of incels are men (btw I'm one of them).

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I go to competitive Smash Bros tournaments so I'm somewhat of an expert on bad smells. You can also find many people like this at Magic the Gathering or Yu-gi-oh groups. Smell isn't an issue for most of the people in there. As long as you're willing to obsess over some dumb hobby like those and be around other people who smell uncontrollably bad themselves then smelling bad isn't the end of the world for anyone.

 

[whatevs]

I would likely catch that bus. UNLESS you can find spirituality and all of that. I haven't found it, though I'm pretty sure it's somewhere.

I go to competitive Smash Bros tournaments so I'm somewhat of an expert on bad smells. You can also find many people like this at Magic the Gathering or Yu-gi-oh groups. Smell isn't an issue for most of the people in there. As long as you're willing to obsess over some dumb hobby like those and be around other people who smell uncontrollably bad themselves then smelling bad isn't the end of the world for anyone.

Hahahahah

 

[y0dha]

i loss a lot of my sense of smell, i'm sure i'm not the only one so that wouldn't bother me probably

 

[jawdropped123]

I go to competitive Smash Bros tournaments so I'm somewhat of an expert on bad smells. You can also find many people like this at Magic the Gathering or Yu-gi-oh groups. Smell isn't an issue for most of the people in there. As long as you're willing to obsess over some dumb hobby like those and be around other people who smell uncontrollably bad themselves then smelling bad isn't the end of the world for anyone.

Its probably worst than just body sweat tho

I go to competitive Smash Bros tournaments so I'm somewhat of an expert on bad smells. You can also find many people like this at Magic the Gathering or Yu-gi-oh groups. Smell isn't an issue for most of the people in there. As long as you're willing to obsess over some dumb hobby like those and be around other people who smell uncontrollably bad themselves then smelling bad isn't the end of the world for anyone.

Its probably worst than just body sweat

i loss a lot of my sense of smell, i'm sure i'm not the only one so that wouldn't bother me probably

I think it would i havent found anyone that havent reacted to me or looked at me weird its pretty bad

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Its probably worst than just body sweat tho

It's worse than just body sweat at smash tournaments too. Some of those people haven't showered in months. My sense of smell is very poor so it doesn't bother me much at all.

 

[OnlyTheWind]

I would kill myself for sure.

 

[jawdropped123]

It's worse than just body sweat at smash tournaments too. Some of those people haven't showered in months. My sense of smell is very poor so it doesn't bother me much at all.

I know but still i need a job a need affection i need friends i would never live a normal life

I would kill myself for sure.

Thank you for your honesty

I respect your reason to CTB, but I ask you please do a lot of research online before making such a big decision, there may be treatments, hacks, tricks, techniques that you haven't found yet. go search in the deepest depths of the internet, read a lot and study for hours and hours. in the end it may be worth it, or you'll at least be able to say proudly that you tried.
that's my advice.

but answering your question, loneliness, social isolation, inceldom (lack of sex) and lack of romantic partners hurt and they are indeed some of the reasons I'll CTB, so yes, if I have this disorder then I guess it'd be one more reason in the list to CTB in fact. but I wouldn't necessarily do it immediately, I could wait for years, trying to have fun with other things, maybe video-games, fitness, nature, hobbies, art etc... before finally catching the bus. there are other things in life that can give pleasure and we need to be our own light, as relying on other people to make us feel less lonely is too unreliable and they'll let you down. hobbies don't let you down. you can even eventually even learn to be alone and happy.

maybe it's probably because it was a girl? life for men is harder. we already have a hard time finding a partner if we don't have enough money, income, if we aren't tall enough, high-status enough... then dealing with that kind of disorder on top of it all is... hard.
women have a much easier time on romance and sex, no wonder why the huge majority of incels are men (btw I'm one of them).

Im a girl tho and having this condition as a girl is harder because they expect woman to be clean and pure. Some man dont even wash there butt and there partner smell that but would still marry him

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I know but still i need a job a need affection i need friends i would never live a normal life

Can't help ya on the job and affection areas but any sweaty community would hopefully be open enough to make plenty of friends if that's what you're aiming for.

I think if you're a girl though, some men are more likely to be willing to overlook or even openly admire a bad smell especially since I've seen lots of weird comments from dudes lately saying things like asking for certain women to bottle up their farts or used bathwater or something like that. I'm sure there's plenty of dudes out there who'd be outright attracted to a woman who gives off a strong scent, question is though if they're going to be attractive enough for you in turn if that's the case but that's up to you and it's fine if you don't want someone like that.

 

[jawdropped123]

Can't help ya on the job and affection areas but any sweaty community would hopefully be open enough to make plenty of friends if that's what you're aiming for.

I think if you're a girl though, some men are more likely to be willing to overlook or even openly admire a bad smell especially since I've seen lots of weird comments from dudes lately saying things like asking for certain women to bottle up their farts or used bathwater or something like that. I'm sure there's plenty of dudes out there who'd be outright attracted to a woman who gives off a strong scent, question is though if they're going to be attractive enough for you in turn if that's the case but that's up to you and it's fine if you don't want someone like that.

Yeah i know its a weird fetish and most people wih this fetish are creepy old man not all of then but most. And im only 21