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woofwag

woofwag

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I assume if there were blood on it they would have to. But I plan to ctb by SN, so I don't think there would be any. I really want to die holding my baby blanket, but I want my friend to have it when I pass. She needs to be loved. I don't want her to be thrown away because of me. Any ideas on this?
 
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IdentityDoe

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I think the Forensic guys would probably take it as evidence with them and release it to your family afterwards. But this is something that you should probably write in a note to make sure that someone knows how important it is.
 
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yourmmomisabbitch

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there is not much beautiful about the human condition, but maybe our love wanting us to keep things safe even after we're dead and it wont matter anymore
maybe thats pretty
 
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Vomit is very likely going to be part of the process for those of us who choose SN. Aside from that, after we've passed, bodies release other things you wouldn't want on an item that you'd like your friend to have. If I had an item like this with so much sentimental value, I'd put it in one of those extra large ziplocks or similar, and I'd make sure it would be far away from my body when I CTB.
 
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there is not much beautiful about the human condition, but maybe our love wanting us to keep things safe even after we're dead and it wont matter anymore
maybe thats pretty
True :) I love my blanket more than anything. Her and my Usahana plush and my dragon neck warmer mean the world to me. I would do anything to protect them.
Vomit is very likely going to be part of the process for those of us who choose SN. Aside from that, after we've passed, bodies release other things you wouldn't want on an item that you'd like your friend to have. If I had an item like this with so much sentimental value, I'd put it in one of those extra large ziplocks or similar, and I'd make sure it would be far away from my body when I CTB.
Hm yeah, fair enough. I will put her in a ziplock. I wrote a note asking them to give her to my best friend and roomie. I couldn't take it if she were too soiled to go to them. I wish I could cuddle her on my way out; I know she wants that too. But her safety is more important to me than my comfort in my final moments.
 
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