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Would you be willing to witness a suicide?

  • Yes

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  • No

    Votes: 40 50.0%

  • Total voters
    80
hmnow

hmnow

Experienced
Jul 29, 2025
242
If asked, would you agree to witness a suicide?
Yes as long as it was not something that tore a body a part.
 
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Sleeper System

Sleeper System

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May 5, 2022
859
I wouldn't take pleasure in seeing something like that but I think it would be crucial in my effort to desensitized myself. I don't want to fear death or rather I don't want to be made frantic or discombobulated when I witness it. I want to be calm and rational if that ever happened. Panic doesn't help anyone.
 
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hmnow

hmnow

Experienced
Jul 29, 2025
242
I wouldn't take pleasure in seeing something like that but I think it would be crucial in my effort to desensitized myself. I don't want to fear death or rather I don't want to be made frantic or discombobulated when I witness it. I want to be calm and rational if that ever happened. Panic doesn't help anyone.
I feel witnesses is being supportive of their right to take their own life
 
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TBONTB

Enlightened
May 31, 2025
1,117
I witnessed my mother's natural death. Definitely calm and peaceful. I suppose I could witness a medically assisted suicid.
 
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penguinl0v3s

penguinl0v3s

Wait for Me 💙
Nov 1, 2023
907
I feel like that's a risk for getting arrested for being complicit. We live in a fucked society that doesn't want people to have freedom over their lives.
 
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shiba

shiba

Student
Aug 6, 2025
97
If they want me to and we're relatively close I would be willing.

I feel like that's a risk for getting arrested for being complicit.
This is true, it would have to be done securely. In the US I believe you'd have to actively encourage or guide the suicide for them to consider prosecuting, but honestly I'm unfamiliar with the laws around it.
 
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eternalpace

Student
Oct 18, 2025
114
I would not witness a suicide. People's final moments should be private and I have no interest in watching people delete themselves in real-time.
 
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Irisse

Irisse

Art belongs to Maksn (on yt)
Sep 8, 2025
361
No because I don't want to end up in prison.
I would not witness a suicide. People's final moments should be private and I have no interest in watching people delete themselves in real-time.
Also this.
 
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Macedonian1987

Macedonian1987

Just a sad guy from Macedonia.
Oct 22, 2025
138
I may sound weird but If the other person desires for me to be a witness, then I will witness a suicide, but only a SN one.

As for my future SN suicide, part of me wants to do it in private setting all alone, but another part of me has a desire to be in a presence of a caring and kind female (age not important), to comfort me while I slowly lose consciousness after I drink my SN.
 
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elenaboo25

Member
Oct 19, 2025
53
I'm conflicted about this. I don't know if I could handle it emotionally.

I am not too worried about legal consequences, as even assisting a suicide is legal where I live, as long as it is not done for selfish motives, but there is still always a police investigation of every suicide, and being questioned by the police, even if I didn't do anything illegal, is still annoying.
 
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Shadows From Hell

Shadows From Hell

The one who has lost a lot, fears nothing.
Oct 21, 2024
466
I can't do it...

I've watched one die in a car crash(multi vehicle accident, not done intentionally), and that traumatized me.

Watching someone's eyes as life drains from their body, is not something I desire to see again.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
13,401
Depends. They would have to be a very close friend or relative. I doubt I'd be a good support though. I'd find it difficult not to cry.
 
Wishingforadream

Wishingforadream

Member
Sep 28, 2025
11
Conflicted…

I suppose i would. But this heavily depends on the method used.

I also partially want to be comforted in my last moments. If someone close asks for me to watch than I would, I doubt I'd been much or any help but I would.

Although this is also dependent on the method used. An SN suicide I could watch. But something like hanging I couldn't.
 
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xaninos

xaninos

If this is still here after oct 31 2025 I am dead.
Oct 16, 2025
17
If requested by the person yes. There would be no hesitation in my answer either.
 
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Benjiii

Member
Oct 20, 2025
9
Si la otra persona me lo pidiera, lo haría. Supongo que tendría buenas razones para querer que presenciara sus últimos momentos, y creo que no me afectaría negativamente por ello.
Si la otra persona me lo pidiera, lo haría. Supongo que tendría buenas razones para querer que presenciara sus últimos momentos, y creo que no me afectaría negativamente por ello.
I think I answered in Spanish, sorry, I wasn't paying attention because I was thinking about the answer lol
 
ABadPerson

ABadPerson

something's off
Oct 24, 2025
21
No, I would rather not witness someone's suicide; I just don't see any reason I would want to view someone's private passing, and if it was someone I knew deeply then ironically I would likely be a horrible 'support' anyways since I got very bad attachment issues.
 
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UserFromNowhere

UserFromNowhere

Member
May 4, 2025
92
Depends on the level of legal culpability I could expect. If I could reasonably justify that I was just a bystander, then perhaps. I wouldn't have any reservations against it, at least. But if my involvement be argued to be of a position that could lead to my arrest, I'd be a bit more hesitant. Naturally, I'd feel sorry for the person in any case; but I feel witnessing someone else's death would push me closer towards committing the act myself, and I wouldn't want my freedom to do so restricted, as selfish as that may be.
 
emilyprentiss

emilyprentiss

Member
Oct 26, 2025
11
if they needed comforting i would do anything to help them or just talk to them and distract them. it would be such an internal conflict to see someone die and know from experience that saving them is not necessarily the merciful thing to do. i don't know if the guilt could be withstood.
 
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Greasyhair

Member
Oct 18, 2025
61
Yes, for their comfort, and to potentially intervene, if they were going to use bad method or other reason.
 
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Isolatedloser

Member
Dec 14, 2024
41
Yes, for their comfort, and to potentially intervene, if they were going to use bad method or other reason.
I would too solely if asked to provide comfort but not to take pleasure from a person who is going to die.
 
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Mothz

Mothz

she/her
Oct 26, 2025
16
It would make me happier if I could be someone's form of companionship / comfort during their last moments. Knowing that at least one person cared about them and respected their decision will make those moments go much smoother mentally I'd feel.
 
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gottacheckout

gottacheckout

COB
May 20, 2025
596
I was there for my dad as he drank his slurry. A few minutes as he took his last breath. That is the only suicide that I witnessed.

I have seen many patients pass when the machines keeping them alive were turned off.

I have also witnessed several natural deaths including my mom's.

Watching a person die changes you and all of the people were ready to go. I do believe that being there brought comfort to those people.
 
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TealBunny

TealBunny

System of some kind
Aug 11, 2025
11
I think i'd do it, I know I desperately want to be comforted when I go and if I can give comfort to those in the same spot I'd probably do it no matter what. I want to do at least one good thing
 
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Minjas

Minjas

Member
Oct 5, 2025
26
It would make me happier if I could be someone's form of companionship / comfort during their last moments. Knowing that at least one person cared about them and respected their decision will make those moments go much smoother mentally I'd feel.
Wow man, I wish I had that level of empathy. While I desperately wish for someone like you irl, I could never bring myself to be someone like that for someone else
 
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TheCallOfTheStars

TheCallOfTheStars

Member
Oct 29, 2025
41
I suppose if it would bring them comfort in their final moments, I would.
 
Mothz

Mothz

she/her
Oct 26, 2025
16
Wow man, I wish I had that level of empathy. While I desperately wish for someone like you irl, I could never bring myself to be someone like that for someone else
My only goal in life has always been to help others where I can. This has gotten me into trouble (such as getting sexually abused and hurt in my past relationships) but generally I would like to say that despite the harm it has caused me I have caused at least some benefit in the world. I knew my value wasn't really much so I seeked finding value in being assistance to others. 💘
 
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