I wish both my parents will die. they are the main reason i want to ctb.

[Daystavro]

I am 26 male.
My parents are both doctors.
They force me to study.
I hate studying, it's too stressful for me.
For them if you don't have a degree and if you don't earn a lot of money you are worst than a serial killer.
You are subhuman and have no right to exist.
They only care about academic and financialsuccess.
It's the only thing that matters to them.

Seriosuly and I am not joking, they would be more proud of me if I was a successful lawyer/doctor and so on and a serial killer who murdered 100 people than be a security guard or work as a hotel receptionist.

I am going to ctb because of them in the end of my semester in february.
I don't have the mental power to withstand another semester yet alone another 2.5 years of study.

They threatened me that if I quit university they will put me in a mental hospital and will not support me financially.

I am going ro ctb using charcoal in the woods and a car.

 

[Zaynaldeen]

My dad was kicked out from his home, he was alone when he was 16 years old. Although he isn't rich, he has a wife, me and has a roof over his head. I'm sure you could just go to the other side of the world and cut ties with your parents, it worked for him.

 

[Radaghest]

Quit school and give them the finger. Move in with a friend and get a job close enough to walk to until you get a car.

 

[No Future]

What would you be happier doing?

You, by no rights, as an adult, need to study if you don't want to.

In what capacity could they orchestrate having you put into mental care? If you're physically able, there are ways to support yourself financially without your parents input.

Apologies for being blunt, but this is the third thread you've made with this identical premise, that stems from your unwillingness to study. That's fine.

Fuck your parents. Do what you want. If their ideals come at the expense of your freedom, their opinions are not worth referencing. You can have prospects without a degree - and I don't believe they'd compare you to a serial killer for lacking one; if they do, more reason to abandon their projection on what your life should be. Make your own life.

Don't end your own life to spite others. Your choice to die or thrive is entirely your own from the context you've laid out - not theirs.

 

[tevati]

You have a choice and before you drop out you can apply for jobs. If you don't want contact with your parents it's okay. I think your parents just want your best. If you have no degree you going to strugle in life most likely and some minimum wage are truly hell they treat you bad and not giving a fuck about your rights, because you are always replacebile.

 

[No Future]

If you have no degree you going to strugle in life most likely

This isn't true at all.

 

[tevati]

This isn't true at all.

Most likely. Sure he still can do something with his life

 

[Daystavro]

You have a choice and before you drop out you can apply for jobs. If you don't want contact with your parents it's okay. I think your parents just want your best. If you have no degree you going to strugle in life most likely and some minimum wage are truly hell they treat you bad and not giving a fuck about your rights, because you are always replacebile.

Ok ,thanks for saying what my parents say and make me want to ctb even more.

You like them, make me feel that if I don't have a degree, and a good job with a lot of money I am better off dead.
I can't study, it's too stressful for me.
I have social anxiety too.

 

[No Future]

Most likely. Sure he still can do something with his life

A degree is meaningless without experience, proactive participation and a willingness to act on it, which is lacking here. Productive energy would be better spent elsewhere. There are other feasible training methods to put you in a skilled field if you're able. There are many entry-level positions that have opportunities for development.

Ok ,thanks for saying what my parents say and make me want to ctb even more.

So don't listen to these people. Don't entertain criticisms whilst blindly disregarding your positive, constructive options, which you have. The claim that you need a degree to thrive is total horseshit. Be your own individual.

 

[tevati]

Ok ,thanks for saying what my parents say and make me want to ctb even more.

You like them, make me feel that if I don't have a degree, and a good job with a lot of money I am better off dead.
I can't study, it's too stressful for me.
I have social anxiety too.

IT was not mean at all like that. If you want be security guard apply for it before you drop out. You can still try it before you ctb.

 

[Radaghest]

Ok ,thanks for saying what my parents say and make me want to ctb even more.

You like them, make me feel that if I don't have a degree, and a good job with a lot of money I am better off dead.
I can't study, it's too stressful for me.
I have social anxiety too.

Money doesnt make happiness.
That being said... there is some underlying condition other than just anxiety that is being aggrevated by the situation. Dont phrase this as "My parents wont support me financially if I dont study, so Im going to kill myself". That makes your feelings sound...childish. NO OFFENSE, PLEASE. I suggest that you examine why you REALLY want to ctb. Is it Major Depression? Is it some othwr illness or disease, and the situation on top of it makes you fee worse? Im trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here that you have some other reason.

 

[Radaghest]

Money doesnt make happiness.
That being said... there is some underlying condition other than just anxiety that is being aggrevated by the situation. Dont phrase this as "My parents wont support me financially if I dont study, so Im going to kill myself". That makes your feelings sound...childish. NO OFFENSE, PLEASE. I suggest that you examine why you REALLY want to ctb. Is it Major Depression? Is it some othwr illness or disease, and the situation on top of it makes you fee worse? Im trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here that you have some other reason.

If at 26 my problems were money and studying I would have been freaking ecstatic.... just saying.

 

[faex42]

In the Unites States, as well as many other countries, you cannot be hospitalized for failure to meet parental expectations in school.

 

[Nofaith]

In the Unites States, as well as many other countries, you cannot be hospitalized for failure to meet parental expectations in school.

Yeah the institution's would be filled to max capacity.

 

[Kev]

Have you considered expressing your suicidal thoughts to them? I know parents can be overbearing and have unrealistic expectations of their kid, but the possibility of their kid dying because of their actions is an extremely strong deterrent and could cause them to reconsider. If you don't think they'd take you seriously if you told them directly, you could commit yourself in a hospital and have them notify your parents of the situation. If they still don't take your seriously or reconsider, then I am very sorry and fuck them, they shouldn't be parents.

 

[Daystavro]

Have you considered expressing your suicidal thoughts to them? I know parents can be overbearing and have unrealistic expectations of their kid, but the possibility of their kid dying because of their actions is an extremely strong deterrent and could cause them to reconsider. If you don't think they'd take you seriously if you told them directly, you could commit yourself in a hospital and have them notify your parents of the situation. If they still don't take your seriously or reconsider, then I am very sorry and fuck them, they shouldn't be parents.

Thanks for trying to help me man.
But you don't understand.
I told them many times that it's too stressful for me and that I want to quit.
But it's so ingrained in them, it's like a robot that has a certain programming.
They told me if you quit studying we will put you in a mental institution.
About suicidal thoughts, I am afraid to tell them that because then they will also stop supporting me and will try to hospitalize me for life.

 

[Kev]

Thanks for trying to help me man.
But you don't understand.
I told them many times that it's too stressful for me and that I want to quit.
But it's so ingrained in them, it's like a robot that has a certain programming.
They told me if you quit studying we will put you in a mental institution.
About suicidal thoughts, I am afraid to tell them that because then they will also stop supporting me and will try to hospitalize me for life.

Let's say you hospitalize yourself before they can, tell the staff that you were about to kill yourself, the staff notifies your parents of this, and when they inevitably ask you why, you say it is a direct result of the pressure they have placed on you, would they really still be like this?

Tell them life is not all about money. Tell them you don't have to stop studying, but you just need a break at the very least. Ask them if your life is really worth risking just so they can brag to their friends and other family about how their son is a doctor/lawyer (95% of the time, parents who are like this do it because they are overly concerned about their image). Ask them if they'd rather have a dead son or a son that isn't a doctor/lawyer. Tell them their responsibility is to make sure YOU are happy, not that you make lots of money so they are happy with themselves. Tell them they need to be willing to discuss a compromise with you. Tell them that just because you can't be a doctor/lawyer doesn't mean you can't make decent money in another field and be happier while doing it. I think you're underestimating just how strongly the possibility of being the cause of their child's death can impact someone.

I believe there is a very strong possibility this will cause them to reconsider and to listen to you more. I believe it is very much worth trying.

 

[worldexploder]

Both of my bioparents are sociopaths. My biomom is an absolute cunt who abused me until my aunt rescued me at age 13. My dad was a violent drunk who was never there for me. YES I am a drunk as well...but not violent. I never been a violent drunk. If anything, intoxication humbles me. My aunt wouldn't stand for it if I was a "crazy drunk". Been drinking for 4 years now after my divorce.

I hate it when people treat their children like a resume instead of a human. Many parents see their children as extensions of themselves instead of entirely different individuals.

 

[Limbo]

Im baffled. Why kill yourself at 26 because of how youre parents make you feel. Act your act. Get a shitty job and move out in a shitty area if you have to. You will find better opportunities later.

When people want to kill themselves over things like this...makes me mad. At least try.

There must be more to the story, otherwise no mental home will accept you. Spill the beans op.

 

[mattwitt]

I know and understand your parents mentality completely ! The world is filled with all kinds of lies, liars, and deceived people. When your rich more people will come to your funeral and you'll have a nicer casket then a poor person. That will be the only difference in the end.

 

[worldexploder]

Im baffled. Why kill yourself at 26 because of how youre parents make you feel. Act your act. Get a shitty job and move out in a shitty area if you have to. You will find better opportunities later.

When people want to kill themselves over things like this...makes me mad. At least try.

There must be more to the story, otherwise no mental home will accept you. Spill the beans op.

I guess to him, he's close to his parents. I can't honestly say how I'd react as an adult with parents like he's got. I'd probably lose my mind. I'm lucky to have an understanding aunt that not only helped me get on SSDI but is trying to get me into Dignitas and fully supports my right to die.

 

[Daystavro]

I guess to him, he's close to his parents. I can't honestly say how I'd react as an adult with parents like he's got. I'd probably lose my mind. I'm lucky to have an understanding aunt that not only helped me get on SSDI but is trying to get me into Dignitas and fully supports my right to die.

I guess to him, he's close to his parents. I can't honestly say how I'd react as an adult with parents like he's got. I'd probably lose my mind. I'm lucky to have an understanding aunt that not only helped me get on SSDI but is trying to get me into Dignitas and fully supports my right to die.

I wish they would just leave me alone.
And not put so much pressure on me.
Understand that I can't study and let me work in whatever I want.

 

[Limbo]

I guess to him, he's close to his parents. I can't honestly say how I'd react as an adult with parents like he's got. I'd probably lose my mind. I'm lucky to have an understanding aunt that not only helped me get on SSDI but is trying to get me into Dignitas and fully supports my right to die.

Many people have shit parents. They dont immediately want them to die and then kill themselves.

 

[Limbo]

I wish they would just leave me alone.
And not put so much pressure on me.
Understand that I can't study and let me work in whatever I want.

Then go do whatever you want. At the age of 26 Im sure you can figure things out. What country do you live in?

 

[worldexploder]

Many people have shit parents. They dont immediately want them to die and then kill themselves.

I never said I wished death on my parents,

 

[Limbo]

I never said I wished death on my parents,

im obviously referring to the op.

 

[Daystavro]

Then go do whatever you want. At the age of 26 Im sure you can figure things out. What country do you live in?

It's not that simple everybody.
I am financially dependent on them.

And I will not be able to support myself alone.
Because those jobs don't pay much.
And everything is so expensive.
Rent especially.

I am so tired of life.
Of the finance of life.
That everything costs money.

That's why I want to ctb.
I want to leave this financial nightmare that life is.

 

[Limbo]

It's not that simple everybody.
I am financially dependent on them.

And I will not be able to support myself alone.
Because those jobs don't pay much.
And everything is so expensive.
Rent especially.

I am so tired of life.
Of the finance of life.
That everything costs money.

That's why I want to ctb.
I want to leave this financial nightmare that life is.

If you tell me what country you live in, maybe I can help with advice.

 

[Daystavro]

If you tell me what country you live in, maybe I can help with advice.

I'll pm with you.
Tomorrow, I am going to do another thread and go to bed.
But I do want to pm with you.
I'll send you a pm tomorrow morning it's late in here

 

[Desiree]

I am 26 male.
My parents are both doctors.
They force me to study.
I hate studying, it's too stressful for me.
For them if you don't have a degree and if you don't earn a lot of money you are worst than a serial killer.
You are subhuman and have no right to exist.
They only care about academic and financialsuccess.
It's the only thing that matters to them.

Seriosuly and I am not joking, they would be more proud of me if I was a successful lawyer/doctor and so on and a serial killer who murdered 100 people than be a security guard or work as a hotel receptionist.

I am going to ctb because of them in the end of my semester in february.
I don't have the mental power to withstand another semester yet alone another 2.5 years of study.

They threatened me that if I quit university they will put me in a mental hospital and will not support me financially.

I am going ro ctb using charcoal in the woods and a car.

I was the same way and they died it didn't change anything