Venting I think im being groomed

[lovelulu]

Of course, im 18 and if I wasnt i wouldn't be on this site, so i dont know if this is technically grooming. But,t his guy isn't significantly older but hes older and treats me weird. Im not stupid so obviously i can tell. He tries to treat me like im special and all he talks to me about is how he's horny and all this bullshit. He keeps on trying to facetime me so he can

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jerk off to me

. I keep on telling him no and making excuses on why I can't call, but he just keeps on pushing. All of our conversation consist of this and its really pissing me off. I thought someone might've liked me for once, but its just some horny fuck instead. I feel like im miswording this and it isn't really grooming, but I just dont know. I'm sorry if this is offensive to anyone or something, I just needed to get this off my chest. I know I can easily block him and will, a small part of me just likes the attention, though.

 

[LastNite]

just block and ignore. Ive been there. Some horny rabbit talked to me thru text for a whole hour just to ask female? can u send pics? fucking weird asf. Dont bother talking to people like that just block. Theyre actual rabbits. The sexual urges control every aspect of their lives.

 

[FluffyPenguins70]

I was in this exact situation before It's super draining as time goes on. For me I believed I couldn't do better for myself, and just latched onto whoever gave me comfort or attention. I was 18 and the guy was 26. I felt like I was losing my mind these guys go on to treat you poorly, neglect ur feelings and try to guilt you into doing things ur not comfortable with little by little. They treat you special in the beginning and then dodge or ignore ur feelings. Bascually just super emotionally unavailable. I would advise blocking him before you start feeling super invested in him. U deserve better than someone who'll give you real love not just want u for pleasure. Even if it's technically legal someone older than you who's brain is much more developed is still using ur lack of experience in life to get what he wants and will cause you more pain in the long term, especially if he starts giving you less attention as a way to manipulate you. Ik I would start feeling desperate to win it back and give into requests. It's super unhealthy pls take care of urself ur still young and have a lot to experience!

 

[tonicer]

Of course, im 18 and if I wasnt i wouldn't be on this site, so i dont know if this is technically grooming. But,t his guy isn't significantly older but hes older and treats me weird. Im not stupid so obviously i can tell. He tries to treat me like im special and all he talks to me about is how he's horny and all this bullshit. He keeps on trying to facetime me so he can

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jerk off to me

. I keep on telling him no and making excuses on why I can't call, but he just keeps on pushing. All of our conversation consist of this and its really pissing me off. I thought someone might've liked me for once, but its just some horny fuck instead. I feel like im miswording this and it isn't really grooming, but I just dont know. I'm sorry if this is offensive to anyone or something, I just needed to get this off my chest. I know I can easily block him and will, a small part of me just likes the attention, though.

What weirdo. He gets the chance to chat with someone and he destroys it because he's that horny. The only part you should work on is that you like attention from weird guys like him. I guess you are attention starved? I know very well how bad that feels. Nobody ever pays attention to me because i am ugly.

 

[JeyJeyOfJeypore]

This seems too explicit to be grooming

Id say just do wtvr you want. Youll learn something either way

 

[EndlessRage]

Of course, im 18 and if I wasnt i wouldn't be on this site, so i dont know if this is technically grooming. But,t his guy isn't significantly older but hes older and treats me weird. Im not stupid so obviously i can tell. He tries to treat me like im special and all he talks to me about is how he's horny and all this bullshit. He keeps on trying to facetime me so he can

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jerk off to me

. I keep on telling him no and making excuses on why I can't call, but he just keeps on pushing. All of our conversation consist of this and its really pissing me off. I thought someone might've liked me for once, but its just some horny fuck instead. I feel like im miswording this and it isn't really grooming, but I just dont know. I'm sorry if this is offensive to anyone or something, I just needed to get this off my chest. I know I can easily block him and will, a small part of me just likes the attention, though.

If you send him any personal information or nude pictures of yourself he can further blackmail and try to extort you, be smart he isn't looking for any personal connection with you.

 

[Dot]

Of course, im 18 and if I wasnt i wouldn't be on this site, so i dont know if this is technically grooming. But,t his guy isn't significantly older but hes older and treats me weird. Im not stupid so obviously i can tell. He tries to treat me like im special and all he talks to me about is how he's horny and all this bullshit. He keeps on trying to facetime me so he can

Spoiler

jerk off to me

. I keep on telling him no and making excuses on why I can't call, but he just keeps on pushing. All of our conversation consist of this and its really pissing me off. I thought someone might've liked me for once, but its just some horny fuck instead. I feel like im miswording this and it isn't really grooming, but I just dont know. I'm sorry if this is offensive to anyone or something, I just needed to get this off my chest. I know I can easily block him and will, a small part of me just likes the attention, though.

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