Venting I think I upset my gf

[Tonic_Secrecy]

So today, I was really feeling low energy and just didn't feel like doing anything. Instead of my usual routine of texting her good morning and sending a heart, I decided to just sleep in until I went to Walmart with my mom and sister. Everything was going alright; I mostly slept in the van while waiting for them.

When I got home, my friend had texted me, telling me to respond to my girlfriend. I hadn't gotten any text messages, so I was confused—until he clarified that I should start a conversation with her and sent me screenshots of her talking/complaining about how I hadn't texted her all day. I felt bad after that, so I tried to do something with her. But when we finally called, she immediately went to take a shower and hasn't responded since.

All I wanted to do was chill for a day. I really didn't mean to upset her. Am I in the wrong here? I don't want us going through a rough patch before I CTB, but is that for the best? If she doesn't like me as much, at least she won't feel as sad when I go through with it.

I just don't know whether I should cut contact and just CTB or still try to act normal. What should I do? Anyway, thanks for reading my vent.

 

[bubblebunny]

idk exactly what ur relationship dynamic is like but I feel like she could've texted you…. Especially bc it's out of the ordinary for you to be so quiet . just a quick check in or a goodmorning wouldn't hurt ( imo). As for ur questions I truly have no idea, sorry!

 

[OminousDarkness]

Sounds like a toxic relationship friend. I can't advise you on what to do, so just do what's in your heart.

 

[ThatStateOfMind]

I won't go as far as to make any assumptions but your girlfriend does sound needy, possibly too much so. She could have texted you like a reasonable person. My girlfriend, before we moved in together, realized I have my own life. If I forgot to text or didn't feel like it, either we just wouldn't text and it's all okay or she would text first.

Your girlfriend doesn't seem to take the same initiative. If you want to, you could approach this with her in a calm and respectful manner, asking why she didn't text you first.